What If You Never Had to Forget What Your Doctor Said Again? Babble Puts Patients in Control

This is a sponsored blog post. All thoughts and opinions are my own.

You’re in the doctor’s office with a thousand thoughts flying through your mind as your provider asks questions and shares intel that you’re trying to remember but can’t keep up. You nod and appear to be fully engaged and listening, but you walk out feeling a bit confused and unclear of next steps. We’ve all been there. That’s where a new app called “Babble” comes to save the day. To advocate for yourself, you first need to understand your own health story. This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s we hear firsthand from the co-founder of Babble and why she felt the need to create this cutting-edge tool for patients and caregivers.

How Babble was born

Jessica Bieligk, co-Founder of Babble, can pinpoint two experiences that really drove her to try and create a healthcare solution. She was volunteering to drive some of her older neighbors to their doctor’s appointments and through that she witnessed how challenging it was to capture what the doctor said and then effectively communicate it back to adult children or caregivers in the room.

“In parallel, I was managing healthcare for myself and my three young children. I was constantly scribbling questions on pieces of paper, trying to take notes on my phone, forgetting what a doctor had told me months earlier, or calling my husband after an appointment and trying to recreate a conversation from memory,” Jessica says.

The combination of the two made her realize that there was an opportunity to make this easier for patients and their families. We didn’t have to carry as much of the mental burden – patient-owned technology should be able to help us.

What does “Babble remembers, so you don’t have to” really mean in practice?

We can all relate to how it feels when you’re sitting in an appointment telling yourself I need to remember this. Jessica wants people utilizing Babble to be engaged listeners who are asking questions and being present without the added, unnecessary pressure.

“Babble can capture the conversation and turn it into a clear summary with the important takeaways and next steps,” she explains. “That summary becomes part of your health story, so three months later you’re not trying to remember, What did my GI say about that medication? When was I supposed to follow up? Why did we decide to change treatment?”

Babble remembers, so your brain doesn’t have to be the medical record.

Breaking down the process

Babble app developers have broken the experience on Babble to three simple steps.

Prepare → Capture → Share.

Before the visit, you can create the appointment and add the questions or concerns you want to discuss. Babble even provides some suggested questions based on your initial input. That alone can make an appointment more productive because you’re not trying to remember everything once the doctor walks into the room – there’s a simple “cheat sheet” from the app.

During the visit, with permission, you use Babble to capture the conversation. Instead of frantically taking notes, you can focus on the discussion, make sure you ask the questions that matter to you and truly engage with the doctor to feel confident in your care.

Afterward, Babble turns that conversation into a clear, easy-to-understand summary with the important information and next steps. It becomes a chapter in your health story and you’re able to easily share it with someone in your care circle who you want in the loop.

“This capsule approach hopefully ensures your questions are answered and you’re able to have a simple way to refer to what you discussed with the doctor. The goal is that the content of the appointment doesn’t disappear the moment you leave the exam room and that you’re able to keep others informed, even if they can’t be in the appointment directly,” says Jessica.

What sets Babble apart

Notes on your phone are only as good as what you manage to type while you’re also trying to listen, process information and ask questions. We’ve heard from patients with chronic illness that sometimes they feel like they have to choose between listening to the doctor and documenting what the doctor says.

Patient portals solve a different problem. They’re incredibly useful, but they’re generally organized around a provider or health system. Your GI might be in one system, your dermatologist in another, and another specialist somewhere else.

“Babble is organized around you – the patient- and is a simple experience that lets you keep your health story in a single place. It’s your record of what you discussed, what you understood and what you’re supposed to do next — across doctors, specialists and health systems,” Jessica shares.

There are an abundance of AI note-taking tools out on the market right now. Those are great and can work well for many people. Babble is a secure, healthcare focused and intentionally designed experience where all your health information is owned by you, in one place and easy to access when you need it.

Leveraging the conversations between providers and patients

Babble leverages AI to transcribe the audio from the conversation with the doctor and then create a simple summary of key themes and takeaways.

Babble can take that conversation and create a clear, structured summary that helps you understand what was discussed and what happens next. And because you retain those summaries, the value compounds over time. You’re not just creating notes from individual appointments. You’re beginning to build a health story.

Doing the “homework” before the appointment

Preparation is an important part of Babble and an important part of care, especially when there are multiple stakeholders involved.

Before an appointment, you can put the questions and concerns that have been floating around in your head, or questions your family members have asked you, into one place. Instead of remembering something important in the parking lot afterward, you go into the appointment knowing what you want to cover.

“One of the things we’ve heard in testing is that people love the idea of Babble becoming the place where their pre-appointment thoughts live. And we’ve created an experience where you can create a starting point and add and adjust as you get closer to the appointment and may have new questions or concerns,” says Jessica.

Ultimately, using Babble should help you get more of the limited time you have with your doctors. You can be more efficient and effective in communicating your concerns up front and then have clarity following each appointment.

“While we’ve built Babble for patients, so many of the physicians we’ve met with through our research are excited about how it can help them deliver better care for their patients,” Jessica adds.

Sharing your health story with loved ones

Sharing is core to what Babble is building, and Jessica says it’s one of her most used aspects of the app – it’s become indispensable in keeping her and her husband on the same page with their children’s care.

The experience is simple, once a user receives the visit summary, they can select to share that summary with a person of their choosing. That might be a spouse, an adult child, a sibling or another caregiver. The designated individual will receive an email with the summary so they can get up to speed in just a minute.

Jessica and her family. As a busy mom, Babble has helped her keep track of all her family’s healthcare needs.

“Longer term, we hope to build in functionality so that users are able to collaborate across a care story (i.e. adult children coordinating a parent’s care) but we’re starting simple with the email,” says Jessica. “We’ve heard this need across generations: college students trying to explain an appointment to parents hundreds of miles away, adults coordinating care for aging parents, and parents trying to make sure both spouses understand what the pediatrician said.”

Instead of playing a game of telephone, everyone can work from the same information.

Addressing the hesitation around AI in healthcare

Hesitation is healthy. Healthcare information is incredibly personal, and Babble has been built in that reality. Babble is inspired by HIPAA-requirements and data security, and privacy have been priorities from the beginning.

“First, the patient is at the center of the product. Your information belongs to you, and you decide whom you share it with,” explains Jessica. “We don’t retain the audio recording after it has been processed, and your summaries are private to you unless you choose to share them.”

It’s also important to be clear about what Babble’s AI is, and isn’t, doing.

“Babble isn’t your doctor. It isn’t diagnosing you, prescribing treatment or replacing medical advice. We’re using AI to help you better capture, organize and understand the information from your actual healthcare conversations. It’s the communications superpower,” says Jessica.

The use of AI here is supporting the patient, not replacing the provider and users are reminded throughout the app experience that they should always confirm with their provider if they are confused by any of the notes.

A helpful tool for those with multiple specialists

The past few months, Jessica has collaborated with me and tapped into the Lights, Camera, Crohn’s community for product development and feedback from fellow patient advocates to better understand how Babble can support those us of navigating chronic illness. I personally have been appreciative of how genuinely invested Jessica has been in capturing what matters from the patient perspective.

“Patients have told us they’re exhausted by having to “start over” and reconstruct their history every time they see someone new,” says Jessica. “Babble gives the patient continuity even when the healthcare system doesn’t. Over time, your individual appointment summaries become a longitudinal health story that stays with you.”

We may have a gastroenterologist, primary care physician, dietitian, surgeon, dermatologist or other specialists involved in our care. Those providers may not share the same system, and each appointment is only one chapter. Babble helps take some of the pressure of coordinating care across specialists off our shoulders.

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“Over the last year, we’ve relied on the feedback and reactions from parents, older adults, caregivers, college students and people managing complex or chronic conditions…and doctors, too. Despite very different circumstances, we keep hearing versions of the same things: “I remember the big picture but lose the details,” “My records are everywhere,” “I end up getting calls after hours from family members,” and “I don’t want to spend the appointment taking notes,” says Jessica.

Helping Caregivers stay in the know

Caregiving was one of the original inspirations for Babble. So much caregiving is really information and communication management: What did the doctor say? Did the medication change? When is the follow-up? What symptoms are we supposed to watch? Did anyone tell my sister?

And often the person managing all of this wasn’t even at the appointment.

“One caregiver we interviewed described receiving secondhand information from a sibling who accompanied the parent to appointments. Another talked about the anxiety of managing a parent’s medication instructions after missing the appointment because of work,” Jessica recalls. “I want Babble to reduce that burden. The person who attends the appointment can capture it, and the people helping with care can receive a clear summary, with the patient’s permission, rather than trying to reconstruct what happened.”

Looking into the future

On day one, Babble helps you have a better appointment. Six months later, it starts helping you understand your holistic health story. A year later, imagine being able to look back and clearly understand: Here’s what I was experiencing. Here’s what we discussed. Here’s what we tried. Here’s what changed. Here’s what my different specialists told me.

Instead of healthcare, feeling like a series of disconnected encounters, you have continuity and an integrated look across the providers and conditions you’re managing.

“That’s why our invitation to patients is: Start writing your health story with Babble,” says Jessica.

Subscribing to Babble

Babble is a subscription product because the creators made a deliberate decision to build a business where the patient is the customer.

“We don’t want the business model to depend on selling patient data or monetizing people’s health information. We want to build and continually improve a product that works for the patient,” says Jessica.

Everyone will be able to record their first visit free, so you can experience Babble before deciding whether it’s valuable enough to keep using. Then users can opt into a $4.99/month subscription that gives you access to tracking unlimited appointments (for you and as many others as you’d like to manage).

For the Lights, Camera, Crohn’s Community, for anyone that signs up in the month of October, the first month is FREE!

Final thoughts

Healthcare can feel overwhelming enough without having to remember every question, every medication change, every recommendation and every next step once you walk out of the exam room.

For people living with chronic illness and caregivers and loved ones helping them navigate it, that mental load can add up quickly. We shouldn’t have to rely on memory, scattered notes or a game of telephone to understand our own healthcare.

That’s what makes the idea behind Babble so compelling. It’s not about replacing your doctor or turning AI into your healthcare provider. It’s about using technology to help you listen, understand, remember and stay connected so you can spend less time trying to document your care and more time participating in it.

Because your health story shouldn’t live in a dozen patient portals, a stack of notes or someone’s memory.

It belongs to you.

And when you can walk out of an appointment knowing what happened, what comes next and how to explain it to the people who support you, that’s more than better notetaking. It’s a little more clarity, a little more confidence and, ultimately, a little more control over your healthcare journey.

Digital Dating Tips for IBD’ers: How I Met My Husband and What I Learned

Before the dating world was about swiping right or left, I met my husband online. It’s something I was a little embarrassed about sharing for a long time, especially while being a morning news anchor. The year was 2013, while online dating was becoming more common, it was still a little taboo. At the time, my Crohn’s disease was a secret from the public. Much like the backstory of my health, I wanted to keep my love story under wraps much of the same way.

So, when I signed up for eHarmony on a whim after attending my co-anchor’s wedding, rather than putting my location as Springfield, IL (where I lived and did the news), I told a little white lie on my profile and said I lived in St. Louis. I know, I know…a little shady! But hear me out. I chose to do this to disguise my identity and vowed to myself that I’d be upfront and honest with whoever I spoke with about where I lived from the initial conversation. I also told myself I’d hold off on sharing that I had Crohn’s until I met someone worth my time and deserving of my energy. It wasn’t something I would share over email or on the phone prior to meeting.

Finding Love in Three Days

I was on eHarmony three days before I met Bobby. Yes, three days. I feel incredibly fortunate that after years of dating and not finding the right person that all it took was a couple emails and some phone calls. As soon as Bobby and I started talking I gave him an “out” and said I understood if he wasn’t interested in long distance (90 miles apart), but he said he didn’t care and wanted to meet me. He drove to Springfield on a Wednesday after his workday and took me to dinner. Little did we know that would be our last first date.

From there he visited me the following week and we went out for Mexican. Two dates in, I didn’t feel ready to disclose I had IBD. But as the days turned to weeks and I started feeling closer to him, I knew it was something I had to get off my chest.

Disclosing to My Boyfriend (now husband) That I Have Crohn’s

On our third date (almost a month of talking/hanging out) we went to a boathouse and had lunch outside on a gorgeous St. Louis August afternoon. I was nervous, but at this point in my patient journey (8 years in) I felt confident about my IBD elevator speech. After the appetizer arrived, I let him know I had Crohn’s disease. I explained what it was, how it had affected me, the medication I was on, but more so than what I was saying, I was paying more attention to his verbal and non-verbal cues. I had been with guys in the past who ghosted me in times of major health emergencies. I had been made to feel like my chronic illness was a joke or an excuse. And I wasn’t going to put up with any of that bs again or be made to feel like a burden.

Photo taken after I told Bobby I had Crohn’s.

In that moment, Bobby made me feel comfortable and he didn’t seem phased by what I had shared. Not in a dismissive way, but in a way that made me feel like just with the distance, my disease wasn’t reason enough in his eyes to explore other options.

Advice for Navigating Online Dating with IBD

  1. Don’t make your IBD the headline on your profile. While your IBD is a big part of who you are, it’s not your whole identity. It’s not necessary to include you have a chronic illness on your dating profile unless you feel so inclined. Personally, I wouldn’t give someone the privilege of knowing that side of you unless you feel they are worthy. At the same time, if you have an ostomy and you prefer to share photos of yourself like that on your profile—more power to you!
  2. The cliff notes version of your health story will do. When you decide to share that you have IBD with your partner, don’t be doomsday. Don’t go on…and on…and on…about how debilitating and horrible it’s been and how miserable you are. Give a high-level elevator speech that “dumbs it down” a bit. You don’t need to downplay how hard it is but allow your partner to take some initiative and educate themselves and ask questions when they have them. How you share and present your illness to someone who may have never heard of IBD will have a lasting impact.
  3. Don’t settle. Trust your gut. If a partner is making you feel uneasy or unhappy, don’t make excuses for them. Read between the lines on a person’s dating profile—see if you think their personality traits and interests will compliment you and your needs. Not everyone is nurturing and empathetic. If you see red flags that your partner lacks in those areas, think about whether it’s going to be a healthy relationship for you to be a part of.
  4. No need to be shy! When we’re battling our health, often the thought of being vulnerable and open with a stranger can seem overwhelming. IBD is complicated and the stress of a new love interest can make us feel a bit out of control. But it can also be an exciting, sweet distraction from health challenges. Love gives a sense of normalcy. Just because you have IBD doesn’t make you unworthy of deserving love. Think about the type of partner you want holding your hand as you battle a flare from a hospital bed.
  5. Love doesn’t need to stop because of the pandemic. I’m an old married woman now (ha), going on eight years since I was on eHarmony and matched with Bobby, but I wouldn’t have it any other way. There are so many sites and apps these days, I don’t even know all it entails. Gone are the days of only eHarmony, Match, and Plenty of Fish. 😊 If you’re feeling lonely and isolated like so many of us during this pandemic, and you’re single with IBD, don’t feel like you have to press pause on finding a connection or your person.

What IBD’ers Have to Say About Finding Their Match

Erica: “My husband and I met on Coffee Meets Bagel in 2017. We texted three weeks before meeting. I told him I had Crohn’s after texting a couple of weeks before we met. I had to reschedule our first date because of a health issue and didn’t want him to think it was because of him. I also felt like he should know what he was getting into.”

Michelle: “I met my husband in 2015 when Hinge came out! I was having a flare and threw up on our first date! I met him when I was going through getting diagnosed and he was so supportive through it all.”

Christine: “Disclose early on! I disclosed at about two months of dating with my fiancé and I felt like things could go further. I think it’s something the other person should be aware of. Not everyone is ready for that you need to know that you will be supported through that journey! We connected through Facebook! Sounds crazy, but here we are!”

Sarah: “Dating/meeting people is so hard nowadays and then throw in a chronic illness and it doesn’t make things easier! Personally, I prefer to be up front about my UC because if the person is going to like me or if this is going to work out, they are going to have to be on board with my UC, too! Whether I like it or not, it’s a part of who I am.”

Ryann: “I met my husband in 2017 and I told him on our second date. Our friend set us up and she had already shared that I had IBD with him. Previously, I had told other guys on our first or second date. One guy came back and apologized for being so weak and not contacting me again after that date. I didn’t reply, more because I didn’t blame him, but also because I found him to be incredibly dull! This was back in the beginning days of Tinder!”

Natasha: “I like to share early (in or around the first date) about my health so I don’t develop an attachment if they aren’t comfortable with chronic illness. Usually, it leads to a good conversation either way. Recently, I shared about my Crohn’s over text message and the guy was very inquisitive and only wanted to learn more, about me and about Crohn’s! I also have a pic of me with my ostomy in my dating app profile. It’s subtle, but if you know it’s there or know what an ostomy is, you’ll know immediately what I have.”

Payge: “My Tinder profile pictures had me with my bag and my current boyfriend googled what it was before he messaged me. He told me when he knew what it was, he instantly thought ‘I want to take care of this girl’…that’s how it went for me!”

Allison: “You don’t have to share any more than you’re comfortable with—if you want to disclose in your profile, great! If you wait until date number five, that’s okay, too! There are no hard fast rules for when or how you should share your story with someone. It’s YOUR story and every situation is different. Anyone who responds negatively or acts as if your illness will be a burden is NOT worth your time. The right person won’t care. Remember—nobody is perfect. Your vulnerability might allow the other person to share something they’re also trying to figure out the right time for. I’ve been online dating for five years now, met my current boyfriend on Hinge in September.”

Caregiving During COVID-19: How IBD has helped one couple navigate the unknown

Rebecca Kaplan was only 20 years old when she met Dan, the love of her life. It was move in day her junior year of college and as she recalls “this skinny guy knocked on my apartment door to ask for toilet paper”. Her family laughed it off – because who knocks on a random person’s door asking for toilet paper – little did they know how that chance encounter would change the course of both their lives. This week, Rebecca explains how her role of caregiver has evolved over the course of a decade and how it’s helped her cope with the pandemic.

Dan and I began dating four months after that initial toilet paper introduction. Two months later, he was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease, right while my mom was starting chemotherapy for Stage 4 Non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma. As someone who has been plagued with crippling anxiety her whole life, you would have thought I would fold under the stress of two of the most important people in my life receiving life-altering diagnoses at the same time. But I didn’t– in fact, my anxiety motivated me to embrace the role of caregiver.

Dan’s first hospitalization and the colonoscopy that went wrong

We had been married less than a year, living 90 minutes away from our families and our full support system. RK 5His disease had gone unmonitored for years and his new doctor was performing a colonoscopy to see just how bad his IBD had gotten. We were unaware that he had developed a stricture that was so severe that when she pushed the scope through, it nicked the wall of his intestines, causing a perforation and bacteria to get into his bloodstream. Within 45 minutes of waking up from the procedure, he had spiked a 104-degree fever and kept telling me and the nurses he thought he was dying. I was TERRIFIED. But I also found myself motivated by the fear and the anxiety I felt.

Instead of going into a full-blown panic attack, I went into caregiver mode. I knew I needed to be Dan’s voice because he could not speak up for what he needed. It was my job to demand the best care he could get, advocate for his needs, and focus just on him.

While taking care of Dan in the hospital required most of my time and attention, I did notice that I could only do it to the best of my ability if I were also taking care of myself. We lived 45 minutes away from the hospital with a new puppy and no one to take care of him. So, while I wanted to spend 24/7 with him while he was inpatient, I knew that I couldn’t do it for my own sanity. So, I made sure I went home multiple times a day and created a separation between myself and the hospital so I could decompress, eat (SO IMPORTANT), and sleep (ALSO IMPORTANT). Being able to do that meant that I was able to be at the top of my game when he needed me the most. RK 3

It’s been almost 10 years since the series of hospitalizations that started with Dan’s perforation and ended with him having a bowel resection to remove the stricture. And in those 10 years, I’m so thankful that Dan’s health has improved greatly. He’s gained nearly 50 pounds, works full time, works out, plays softball with his dad and brother, and deals with me.

Coping with the COVID-19 Pandemic

With his health stable now, the biggest challenge we’ve been facing the past few months is coping during the COVID-19 pandemic. I have been coping with the pandemic much better than Dan. I jokingly say that I’ve been training for quarantine my whole life, since my obsessive-compulsive disorder has always had me washing my hands, avoiding sick people, and wanting to stay home more than going out. However, Dan does not do well with change – whether that be moving to a new apartment, being diagnosed with a chronic illness, starting a new job, or having life turned upside down by a pandemic. Going from working full-time in an office to being trapped at home, isolating to stay healthy, has been hard for him. His regular life and hobbies have been stripped away from him, and not being able to leave the house and go places has left him stir crazy and agitated. RK 2

Because of this, I’ve put my caregiver hat back on in a different way. I’m not caring for his active disease; rather I’m helping him cope with change and the accompanying stress. I encourage him to do things outside as much as possible, whether that’s taking the dogs on a walk, kicking the soccer ball in the backyard, or going on a hike. I also try and help him see the bigger picture – we’re staying home so that he and our high-risk relatives stay healthy. And I remind him that this is not forever – it will get better and we will get back to normal at some point.

Rebecca’s Top Three Tactics for Caregiving

  1. Make sure you are taking time for yourself – that means eating, sleeping, and doing things to relax and take a break from being a caregiver. This is so important to help you be fully present for your loved one.
  2. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. When Dan had his surgery, our house was a mess and I wasn’t prepared to come home from the hospital with him. So, my mom and sister went to our apartment one night and cleaned/straightened it up for us so I wouldn’t have to do it after spending all day at the hospital.
  3. Find your tribe who will support you as the caregiver. It’s so important to build your own support system separate from your loved one’s support system. Being a caregiver is hard and making sure you have people you can talk to and rely on is so important for your mental health.

 

Why my husband is much more than a caregiver, Dr. Phil

I still remember the moment I told my husband I had Crohn’s disease. It was a beautiful August afternoon. We sat overlooking water at a boathouse in St. Louis on our third date. As we enjoyed casual conversation and a mutual interest in one another, I knew I had to tell him about my chronic illness.

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Photo from our third date, the day I told Bobby I had Crohn’s disease.

Nervous to rock the boat. Scared to be judged. Worried it would tarnish the image of who I was so far. I just wanted to rip off the band aid and get this conversation over with.

It was never easy to navigate dating and relationships with my disease. I was diagnosed with Crohn’s at age 21 in 2005. I met Bobby in August 2013 at age 29. Rather than seem put off by my disease, he inquired and showed empathy from that point forward. Never once did he make me feel less than or unworthy of love. In that moment, I knew I had found someone special and I felt a huge sense of relief.

Fast forward to this past month and all the conversation surrounding Dr. Phil’s heartless and ignorant comments about caregiving and relationships. I didn’t see the episode live, but have seen the countless posts on social media being shared to prove him wrong. I watched the interview clip after the segment aired and couldn’t believe my eyes or my ears. Dr. Phil told an interabled couple that “100 out of 100 relationships that involve caregiving fail.”

Photo by J Elizabeth Photography www.jelizabethphotos.com

Helping me walk down stairs during our engagement photos–21 days post op from my bowel resection surgery. Photo cred: J. Elizabeth Photography

It pains me to even write the idiotic words that man said. Not only is it upsetting, but it breaks my heart to think of all the young, newly diagnosed chronic illness patients out there who were already wondering if they were worthy of love because of living with a disease.

IMG_0077I’m here to tell you that you are. I truly believe my vulnerability with my Crohn’s and how I deal with flare ups is a big part of why my husband fell in love with me. Chronic illness isn’t pretty. It forces you to see the world without rose-colored glasses. It makes you realize the importance of your health and how quickly it can be taken away from you.

There’s a reason why you say “in sickness and in health” in wedding vows. My husband chose to spend his life with me, because he loves all of me—even the part of me that is riddled with illness. People are cut out to be caregivers or they’re not. You’ll come across this in your life and know which family members and friends have a special way about them. Those who don’t have this trait and ability aren’t meant to marry people like you and me. And that’s fine.

But to say that 100 out of 100 couples will fail because caregiving is involved couldn’t be further from the truth. It’s through Bobby’s caregiving that I continue to fall more and more in love with him. It’s those moments when I need help to get through a pain-filled day that I’m reminded just how strong and unbreakable our love is.

IMG_9492Caregiving looks and means different things to everyone. It’s not just about being a caregiver in the hospital or at a nursing home. It’s taking care of the one(s) you love on a typical day at home. It can be something as simple as rubbing your back or taking care of the kids while you’re stuck in the bathroom. It can be dishing you out ice cream after you give yourself an injection. Or holding your hand on a walk outside following a hospitalization. It’s those caregiving moments in particular that remind me constantly of the everlasting love I’ve found and make me 100 percent positive we will make it through, for the rest of my life.

My words of advice for you—if you’re a caregiver, know how appreciated you are—for all the little things and the big things. photo by J Elizabeth Photography www.jelizabethphotos.comIf you’re someone dealing with a disability/disease—don’t allow Dr. Phil’s ridiculously inaccurate comments make you think you aren’t worthy of love, because you are and always will be.