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At 14, Crohn’s Made Her Question Motherhood. At 22, She’s Studying Why.

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For women living with Crohn’s disease or ulcerative colitis, the question of whether to have children can carry a weight that goes far beyond the usual conversations about fertility and family planning.

Will my disease be controlled enough to have a healthy pregnancy? What happens if I flare while I’m pregnant? Will my medication affect my baby? What if I’m too sick to care for a child? What if breastfeeding means making another difficult medication decision? And the question that can be hardest to articulate: Will I be able to experience motherhood without IBD taking over the entire experience?

For Grace Hubbel, those questions aren’t simply academic. They are personal.

Diagnosed with Crohn’s disease at 14, Grace is now 22 and studying sociomedical sciences at the State University of New York at Geneseo. Her own experience with IBD and the stories she has heard from other women, led her to pursue an IRB-approved research study examining “The Impact of IBD on Decisions in Maternity and Emotional Wellbeing in Women.”

This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s a look at how her personal experience as a young woman with IBD inspired this incredible research and how you can get involved as a citizen scientist. Grace’s goal through her study, “The Impact of IBD on Decisions in Maternity and Emotional Wellbeing in Women” is to explore an area of IBD research that she believes has been overlooked: not simply what happens to a woman’s body during pregnancy, but what it feels like to make decisions about motherhood while living with an unpredictable chronic illness.

A Crohn’s diagnosis at 14

Grace grew up watching her older brother struggle with Crohn’s disease. He was diagnosed when he was starting college and nearly lost his life before his first surgery. When Grace began experiencing symptoms of her own at 14, she wasn’t completely surprised.

Her disease quickly became severe. She lost weight rapidly, her menstrual cycle stopped, and painful sores and ulcers made it difficult to swallow. She remembers feeling exhausted and unlike herself.

“I crawled into my mother’s bed once and told her it felt like I was disappearing with how I was losing pounds by the week,” Grace recalls.

At an age when many teenagers are focused on school, friends and figuring out who they are, Grace was learning a different vocabulary: tests, treatments, infusions, injections, and surgery.

“I was so young, I felt so different from my peers around me,” she says. “I spoke fluent in healthcare, in tests, I was forced to grow up so fast.”

Her Crohn’s journey has included steroids, infusions, injections, tests, a feeding tube, and surgery. At 22, Grace says she is still chasing total mucosal remission and continues to deal with hidden inflammation.

“Will I be able to become a mom someday?”

And almost immediately after her diagnosis, another question entered Grace’s mind.

Would she ever be able to become a mom?

Grace says motherhood was on her mind within months of being diagnosed.

Part of that fear came from watching someone she knew with Crohn’s experience a life-threatening postpartum flare and be unable to have more children. That story stayed with her and illustrates one of the most difficult aspects of IBD whether you’re a parent or not: uncertainty.

“The monstrous part about IBD is its uncertainty,” Grace says. “It never ceases to amaze me how for some individuals a round of medicine will get their body into remission, and another person will have unrelenting inflammation for years and years.”

For women with IBD, that uncertainty can intersect with some of life’s biggest decisions.

Grace knows this firsthand. Throughout various stages of her disease, she has wondered what a flare would look like during pregnancy or while caring for a young child.

What if severe diarrhea caused her to lose weight and made it difficult to get enough nutrients for a baby? What if medication affected her child’s immune system? What about breastfeeding and medication exposure?

Today, Grace takes Stelara, and she says she thinks about the fact that it can pass through breast milk. She has always dreamed of breastfeeding a baby but wonders how she would weigh that desire against the medical considerations.

And increasingly, another concern has emerged: the emotional experience of pregnancy itself.

“I worry most of all about having to work extra hard as a high-risk pregnancy and that I’d be obsessive about it all,” she says, “living outside of the special moments and experiences because of viewing it all through a clinical lens.”

That sentence captures something that statistics and clinical guidelines can’t always convey.

A pregnancy with IBD isn’t just a series of medical decisions. It can also be an emotional balancing act between wanting to enjoy a deeply meaningful life experience and being unable to completely turn off the part of your brain that is constantly monitoring your disease.

Seeing a gap in IBD research

As Grace learned more about IBD, she found comfort in understanding the disease from both scientific and sociological perspectives. She connected with other patients online and found women with IBD who had navigated motherhood and became role models for her.

That interest eventually led her to major in sociomedical sciences.

When it came time to develop an independent research project, she knew immediately that she wanted to study IBD and women’s health.

That project eventually grew into her current IRB-approved study. Grace noticed that while there is substantial scientific literature examining Crohn’s disease and ulcerative colitis during pregnancy and childbirth, there is far less research examining the qualitative experience of women living through motherhood with IBD.

In other words, researchers have studied many of the physical and medical questions. Grace wants to better understand the why behind women’s decisions, experiences, and emotions.

“This told me something was missing,” she says.

And the missing piece matters.

IBD is commonly diagnosed during reproductive years, meaning many women are forced to make decisions about fertility, pregnancy, breastfeeding, and family size while simultaneously navigating an unpredictable disease.

Could uncertainty itself be affecting women emotionally?

One of the findings that initially caught Grace’s attention was that women with IBD commonly report higher rates of psychological distress than men with IBD.

There are several explanations, but Grace wondered whether another factor deserved more attention.

Could the uncertainty surrounding fertility and motherhood contribute to that emotional burden?

“Could any of it have to do with how uncertain it can be for women to navigate a motherhood journey with an unpredictable illness such as IBD?” she asks.

That question became central to her research.

Rather than focusing solely on conception and pregnancy, Grace wants to understand the entire motherhood journey:

  • What does it mean to parent while living with IBD?
  • How do mothers explain their disease to their children?
  • Does becoming a parent change the way women cope with their illness?
  • How do women make decisions about breastfeeding or having additional children?
  • And perhaps most importantly, how do those decisions make women feel?

“These are the questions I want to explore,” Grace says.

Motherhood doesn’t end at delivery

One of the most compelling aspects of Grace’s research is her focus on what happens after pregnancy.

So much of the conversation around IBD and reproductive health centers on conception and pregnancy. But motherhood is a lifelong experience and IBD doesn’t disappear once a baby is born.

Grace says some of the women she has heard from have described waiting for their doctors to give them the “go-ahead” before trying to conceive.

Others have described delaying or avoiding medical care when they were very sick because they didn’t want to leave their children or frighten them.

But the stories aren’t exclusively difficult.

Grace says she has also heard about positive experiences, including mothers who have noticed their children developing deep empathy toward other people because they grew up with a mother living with IBD.

That is an important reminder: IBD can shape motherhood in challenging ways, but it can also shape families into beautiful ones. As an IBD mom of three kids (ages 9, 7, and 5) I can’t attest to this. Motherhood was the best decision I ever made and my kids are my constant motivation to push through, stay on top of managing my Crohn’s so I’m well for not only myself, but for them, and reminding me all my body is capable of despite my disease.

The decisions women make behind the scenes

One theme Grace has found particularly interesting is the way IBD can influence the timing of family planning. Some women wait for disease stability or medical approval before trying to conceive. Others make decisions about seeking medical care based on the needs of their children. These aren’t necessarily decisions that show up in a medical chart.

They’re the quiet calculations happening in the background of everyday life. And that’s exactly what Grace hopes her research will capture.

The study is designed to explore the experiences and emotional impacts behind these decisions, not simply whether a woman became pregnant or whether she experienced a flare. Because as we know, two women can have similar diagnoses and vastly different emotional experiences.

What Grace wants doctors to talk about earlier

Grace believes the conversation about fertility and family-building should begin much earlier in a woman’s IBD journey. She would like gastroenterologists to routinely ask young women at diagnosis whether they envision having children someday.

“I think it’s so important to get the conversation started and have it routine to discuss it,” she says.

Starting the conversation early can open the door to resources, questions, and appropriate reproductive counseling long before a woman is ready to have a baby. Grace also believes healthcare providers need to be honest about uncertainty.

“We need to be comfortable acknowledging what we don’t know,” she says, particularly when it comes to questions about the long-term effects of medications on children.

She also wants to see stronger communication between gastroenterologists and OB-GYNs.

She has heard women describe being confused about which physician to rely on during pregnancy and postpartum or receiving contradictory recommendations from their doctors.

“Greater communication between OB-GYN physicians, maternal fetal medicine doctors, and gastroenterologists on the topic of IBD and pregnancy is called for,” Grace says.

For patients, that kind of collaboration can mean the difference between feeling like they’re navigating pregnancy alone and feeling like they have a team.

Grace hopes her research changes the conversation

Grace hopes her research will expand how the IBD community thinks about women’s health. The physical side of IBD is important. But emotional wellbeing matters, too.

She points to the connection between psychological health and IBD outcomes, noting that emotional distress can influence disease activity. Her research suggests that the emotional stress of navigating motherhood alongside IBD may be one contributor to the psychological burden reported by women with the disease.

Her long-term goal is to highlight the need for more reproductive counseling and pregnancy programs specifically designed for women with IBD. Because women shouldn’t have to piece together this information on their own. And they shouldn’t have to wait until they’re ready to conceive to start asking questions.

“You will survive some of your biggest fears”

The most powerful part of Grace’s story isn’t the researcher speaking about the gaps in the literature. It’s the 14-year-old girl underneath it all.

If Grace could sit down with herself on the day she was diagnosed, she wouldn’t promise that IBD would become easy. Instead, she would tell her younger self that the disease would shape who she became and that some of that impact would become a source of purpose.

Her experiences would fuel her interest in healthcare and disability advocacy. She would meet healthcare workers who saw through her knowledgeable exterior and recognized the anxiety underneath. She would survive some of the things she feared most. And she would eventually find a partner who would make motherhood feel possible. But she’d also tell herself something many young people with chronic illness need to hear:

You don’t have to control everything.

“I’d tell her to enjoy being a young woman and let go of trying to control so much,” Grace says.

That’s easier said than done when your body has taught you from an early age that anything can change without warning. But that’s also why her message to other young women with IBD is so meaningful.

To the young woman with IBD dreaming about motherhood

Grace doesn’t know exactly what the future holds for her. She still has questions. She still has fears. She still lives with an unpredictable disease. But she isn’t letting uncertainty erase the possibility of motherhood. Her message to other young women with IBD is simple:

“Advocate for yourself and ask questions.”

She encourages women to establish an OB-GYN early and start talking about what pregnancy could look like in the future, even if motherhood is years away. And she wants women to know that they don’t have to abandon the dream simply because IBD may make the path more complicated.

“The reality is, it might be a little more sad and scary to manage,” Grace says. “But from what I’ve learned so far: no women have regretted the choice to pursue their dream, even if it looks different from what they expected.”

For a 22-year-old researcher who has spent much of her life learning to live with Crohn’s disease, Grace is asking a question that deserves far more attention:

What happens when we stop looking at motherhood with IBD solely through a medical lens and start listening to the women living it?

Her research is an important step toward answering it.

Interested in participating in Grace’s research?

Grace is currently seeking women with IBD who are at least 18 years old, English-speaking, and currently mothers living with Crohn’s disease or ulcerative colitis, either biologically or through adoption. A diagnosis before having a child is preferred.

Participants can complete an anonymous survey or contact Grace for a virtual interview. Participation is voluntary, and information provided will be kept confidential.

Join the study here!

From Memory to Meaning: How Mirae Is Changing the Way We Manage IBD

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This is a sponsored blog post; all thoughts and opinions are my own.

Living with Inflammatory Bowel Disease (IBD) means constantly reading the signals your body is sending you. What you eat, how you sleep, your stress level, your energy, and even the seemingly small changes in your routine can influence how you feel. After more than 21 years with Crohn’s disease, I’ve learned that this internal conversation never completely goes away, even during remission.

The challenge is that when symptoms become part of everyday life, gradual changes can be surprisingly difficult to recognize. Whether you’re newly diagnosed or have been living with IBD for decades, knowing your personal baseline can be one of the most valuable tools in managing your disease.

That’s where the Mirae Health app comes in. Rather than relying on memory or trying to piece together months of symptoms and lifestyle patterns before an appointment, Mirae helps patients see their own patterns and recognize when something starts to shift. This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s, we hear from Mirae’s founders about the inspiration behind the app and why understanding the connection between our daily lives and how we feel could change the way we approach IBD care.

Mirae’s founding designer, Sayoko Yoshida, chose to use a bear because they wanted something that felt:

  • Warm and inviting
  • Steady and dependable
  • Protective
  • Human and personal

The Mirae team specifically didn’t want the app to feel like a cold clinical dashboard or an overly cheerful “health app” mascot. They wanted the bear to represent a reassuring guide, something that helps people living with IBD understand what’s happening and feel supported as they navigate their care.

The inspiration behind Mirae

Mirae’s three founders, James Finucane, David Clifton, and Anuj Patel, have spent their careers using technology to improve access to healthcare. For Anuj, Mirae’s CEO, the mission is also personal. His father was a GI clinician in rural upstate New York, where he saw firsthand how critical and unequal access to specialty care can be, something Anuj recently wrote about on Mirae’s blog.

The team behind Mirae

“It was very clear how unique and how critical having high-quality specialty GI care in a rural market helped patients and how unequal access to care across the US is,” Anuj explains. “It was important that we use technology to help patients that are at the intersection of a chronic, acute and complex condition, of which Crohn’s and ulcerative colitis were the obvious fit.”

Mirae grew from a shared desire to use technology to solve two connected challenges: the burden patients carry to track and remember their disease, and the limited snapshot clinicians often have when making important care decisions.

The “Aha” Moment

The realization wasn’t about one patient story, but where the most valuable information lives. In IBD, important signals are often small and daily: a change in urgency, creeping fatigue, or escalated symptoms when eating certain foods.

I know when my symptoms increase, I can become hypervigilant, quickly jumping to the worst-case scenario. Much of that internal battle happens privately, between me and the bathroom walls or in conversations with my mom and husband.

Yet very little of it makes it into the medical record. Instead, months of experiences get distilled into a few sentences during a clinic visit, filtered through stress and imperfect memory.

“The gap in IBD care is not a lack of good doctors or good treatments. It is that the richest data about the disease is generated by patients outside of a lab, colonoscopy or doctor’s visit and then mostly lost,” says Anuj. “Building something to capture that gently and carry it into the clinic in a useful form felt like the most obvious unsolved problem in the field.”

Anuj Patel, co-founder and CEO of Mirae Health

The Missing Puzzle Piece in Patient Management

As Mirae’s creators examined the gaps in IBD care, they saw one major problem: there was no single place connecting the pieces.

“People track symptoms in a Notes app, photos of meals on their phone, questions on scraps of paper, and half of it in their head. Most existing tools were built like diaries. They demand daily discipline, which is exactly what you do not have during a flare, so people abandon them when things get hard, when the data matters most. Most importantly, nothing connected the tracking to actual care,” says Anuj.

You can track symptoms for a year, but if your gastroenterologist never sees that information, it’s pointless. And when living with a chronic illness already feels like a full-time job, adding more work to disease management is the last thing those with IBD need.

Mirae aims to change that.

“We wanted to make day-to-day management delightful and to use the AI models developed by our team to better understand disease progression and connect that information to clinicians that can make more informed decisions on a patient’s care.”

Answering the Call as Patients Feel Overwhelmed and Unheard

Feeling unheard usually isn’t about clinicians not caring. It’s about trying to fit months of lived experience into a 15-minute appointment, with the patient expected to remember and explain it all on the spot. That’s an unfair expectation of someone who is unwell.

“Mirae is designed to carry that burden instead. The app does the organizing, the remembering, and the summarizing, so the patient does not have to perform their own case in the room,” says Anuj. “We kept the language plain, the daily effort small, and made forgetting or skipping days completely fine. The goal is that when you walk into a doctor’s visit, your patient experience is clearly summarized for a clinician, allowing the visit to be more humane and genuine, while helping clinicians make more informed treatment decisions.”

At home, Mirae is designed to make living with IBD feel a little lighter. You can think of it as a quiet companion while navigating an often-isolating disease.

“In the clinic, we want people to feel prepared and taken seriously. There is a real difference between walking in trying to remember everything and walking in with a clear summary of the last three months in your hand. One feels like being tested. The other feels like being a partner in your own care,” says Anuj.

A Step Toward Personalized Medicine and Treatment Options

Personalized medicine in IBD starts with recognizing that Crohn’s disease and ulcerative colitis are not one-size-fits-all. Mirae’s technology looks for patterns that can help identify patient subgroups and better understand how individuals respond to treatment.

“Knowing how patients in each subgroup respond to treatment or how symptoms manifest can help a care team recognize earlier when someone may need attention, rather than waiting for the next scheduled visit,” explains Anuj. “It can also make treatment discussions more grounded, starting with months of real-world data and experience that our tools can translate into clinical insight, rather than a few minutes of recollection.”

Mirae builds that picture from what patients choose to share over time: symptoms such as pain, urgency, bowel habits, fatigue, and energy; medications and how they’re tolerating them; lifestyle factors like sleep, food and activity; and free-form notes and questions captured in the moment.

The app looks for what has changed and what you’ve flagged. Mirae suggests; you decide. The goal is to make sure the things that matter most to you are at the center of the conversation. Mirae supports clinical judgment; it doesn’t replace it.

The App Is Free—How?

Living with IBD is expensive. Between medications, procedures, time off work, and everything in between, patients already carry a significant financial burden. Mirae’s creators didn’t want to add a subscription fee or rely on ads that could compromise the trust they’re building with patients.

“At a high level, our model works with the healthcare system for payment when patients enter remission sooner. Health systems and care programs benefit when patients arrive prepared, problems are caught earlier, and care between visits is more visible. All of this can help patients get on the right medication sooner while reducing future medical costs, such as surgery or ER visits,” says Anuj.

Making Patients Active Participants in Their Care

The biggest barrier to participating in our own care isn’t motivation, it’s preparation and organization. Too often, we leave appointments remembering the question we forgot to ask or downplaying what daily life with IBD feels like because suffering in silence has become our normal.

“Throughout the weeks between visits, the app makes it easy to capture questions and concerns as they come up, instead of hoping to remember them later. Before an appointment, it helps pull everything together into pre-visit notes: what has changed, what’s worrying you, what you want to ask, and what you want out of the visit,” explains Anuj.

When you arrive with that information in hand, the dynamic shifts. You’re no longer a passive recipient. You have an agenda backed by your own experience. That’s active participation in your care.

The Power of Pre-Visit Notes

One of my favorite Mirae features is the pre-visit process. You can capture observations about your health, answer targeted questions, and, most importantly, identify your biggest concerns going into the appointment.

Mirae then turns that information into a plain-language summary: what has changed, what has stayed stable, what’s worrying you, and the questions you want to address.

“You can edit anything, remove what doesn’t matter to you, and rank what you most want to discuss. You stay in control of what is shared. When you’re done, you have a short, clear document you can bring into the room or share ahead of the visit,” says Anuj.

An educated patient is an empowered patient. Taking a few minutes to prepare can help both you and your provider make the most of limited appointment time, something especially valuable when we’re juggling multiple specialists.

“The core principle is to change from your own baseline. A symptom level that is normal for one person may be a red flag for another, so relevance is always personal,” says Anuj. “The app looks at what is new since the last visit, what has been trending in either direction, or what has been persistent. Mirae also gives weight to things you have marked as important, medication changes and how they have gone, and anything that has come up repeatedly in your notes. Repetition is a strong signal that something deserves airtime.”

Input from Medical Providers and IBD Patients

Mirae was shaped with input from IBD clinicians, including advisors at Oxford and across the United States.

A consistent theme was where the appointment begins. Too often, the first minutes are spent reconstructing months of symptoms from memory. With organized pre-visit notes, that work is done, allowing more time for meaningful discussion, decisions, and care planning.

“Clinicians have also been clear with us about what they do not want: another screen, more unfiltered data, or anything that adds time. That feedback pushed us to keep the clinician-facing side short and structured. As the pilot progresses, we will let the results speak rather than getting ahead of them,” explains Anuj.

Dr. Simon Travis, Professor of Clinical Gastroenterology at the University of Oxford, sees Mirae as ‘stepping stones across a river, sometimes widely apart.’

He says, “Mirae acts as a bridge. It provides depth, credible advice, links to the evidence, informed comment, and guidance. It complements specialist advice by addressing complex factors such as fatigue or diet in detail, way beyond what is possible to cover during a consultation.”

Dr. Alissa Walsh, a Gastroenterologist at the Oxford University Hospitals NHS Trust and Nuffield Health, The Manor Hospital, Oxford, agreed to support Mirae because she believes people living with IBD deserve to be active partners in their own care, not passive recipients to it.

“Too often patients feel they’re navigating this condition alone, without the information or confidence to ask the right questions,” she says. “Mirae’s work has the potential to change that — empowering patients at every stage of their journey and, ultimately, improving the quality of care they receive.”

As an IBD patient advocate, I’m one of many who have helped to provide feedback and guidance through the app development process. Having patient and provider input is paramount to making sure the app works for us in real time. Multiple members of the Mirae team also have IBD themselves.

“It is hard to advocate for yourself on subjective terms such as “I feel like things have been worse lately.” It is much easier when you can say things have been different for six weeks, here is the pattern, and here is what I would like us to consider,” says Anuj. “When patients see their experience taken seriously, written down, reflected back, and brought into the clinical conversation, it reinforces that their observations matter.”

What Sets Mirae Apart from Other IBD Apps?

Most health apps are islands: you track diligently, but the information rarely goes anywhere. Mirae aims to close that gap in three ways:

  • Connected to clinical care. Mirae is designed to work with a patient’s existing care team. The information gathered is intended to inform care rather than sit in a silo. Its first deployment is within a large academic medical center.
  • Built specifically for IBD. This isn’t a general wellness app with an IBD mode. Mirae was incubated at Oxford’s Computational Health Informatics Lab and shaped by IBD specialists and patients.
  • Designed for both patients and clinicians. Rather than making patients pay for premium features or clinicians pay costly software fees, Mirae is built to serve both sides of the care relationship.

The Goal Five Years from Now

Looking ahead, Mirae’s creators hope the platform will build something that doesn’t currently exist at scale: a rich repository of patient-reported symptoms connected to clinical data that could improve treatment recommendations and eventually inform drug discovery. Longer term, they envision expanding beyond IBD to other autoimmune conditions, where many of the same challenges exist.

“The goal for us is in five years, is that “Maya”, a newly diagnosed Crohn’s patient, is able to use our platform to have a trusted companion that helps her understand her condition and, alongside her gastroenterologist, precisely identify the specific type of Crohn’s she has, find the best therapy for that type, and get on her way to remission and stay there.”

For Mirae’s founders, success means making that experience the norm, so Crohn’s becomes one part of Maya’s identity, not something that consumes her life.

Final Thoughts

Mirae’s goal is to end the era of memory-based appointments where patients carry months of their lives in their heads, then try to summarize it all under pressure. For gastroenterologists, it’s a similar challenge: extracting that information while balancing an enormous amount of clinical knowledge.

Mirae is designed to fit into patients’ lives, especially during the hard weeks, helping turn real observations into a clearer picture of their health and a more personalized care plan.

“We hope Mirae shifts some weight off patients’ shoulders. Managing IBD will never be effortless, but the administrative and cognitive load, the tracking, remembering, and preparing is something technology can genuinely carry. If patients spend less energy managing their disease and more living their lives, we have done our job.”

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When Your Body Doesn’t Follow the Rules: The Overlap Between Endometriosis and IBD No One Talks About

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For many women, living with chronic illness means constantly decoding what our bodies are trying to say. When you have inflammatory bowel disease (IBD), whether Crohn’s disease or ulcerative colitis, you get used to tracking symptoms, identifying triggers, and advocating for yourself.

But what happens when something doesn’t quite fit the IBD pattern and the usual narrative?

For a significant number of women, the answer may be endometriosis, a condition that often overlaps with IBD in ways that can delay diagnosis, complicate treatment, and intensify daily life. This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s we break down the possible connection, what to watch for, and how to advocate for the care you deserve. I don’t personally have endometriosis with my Crohn’s, so you’ll hear from 10 women who live this reality as they transparently share what it’s like for them and what they’ve learned along the way.

What Is Endometriosis?

Endometriosis occurs when tissue similar to the lining of the uterus grows outside the uterus. This can happen on the ovaries, fallopian tubes, bowel, bladder, and other pelvic structures. This tissue still responds to hormonal cycles, which can lead to:

  • Inflammation
  • Pain
  • Scar tissue (adhesions)
  • Organ involvement (including the intestines)

I ran a poll in my Instagram Stories asking about IBD and endometriosis. Of the 85 votes, 27% of women said they have both, 31% said they think they may have both, and 42% said they don’t have both. Those numbers speak volumes.

What the Stages of Endometriosis mean

Endometriosis isn’t staged the same way cancers are, it’s not about how dangerous it is, but about how much disease is seen during surgery. The most used system is from the American Society for Reproductive Medicine, which divides endo into four stages based on location, depth, size of implants, and scar tissue (adhesions).

Here’s what each stage means:

Stage I — Minimal

  • Small, superficial patches of endometrial-like tissue
  • Little to no scar tissue
  • Often found on the ovaries or pelvic lining

What it feels like:
Symptoms can be mild… or surprisingly intense. Some people with Stage I still have significant pain.

Stage II — Mild

  • More lesions than Stage I
  • Some may be deeper (not just surface-level)
  • Minimal adhesions may start forming

What it feels like:
Pelvic pain, painful periods, sometimes pain with ovulation. Still very variable.

Stage III — Moderate

  • Many lesions, including deep implants
  • Presence of adhesions (organs may start sticking together)
  • Small cysts on ovaries called endometriomas may appear

What it feels like:
More consistent pelvic pain, possible pain with sex, bowel symptoms depending on location.

Stage IV — Severe

  • Extensive deep lesions
  • Thick adhesions (organs can be significantly stuck together)
  • Larger ovarian endometriomas (“chocolate cysts”)
  • May involve bowel, bladder, or other organs

What it feels like:
Chronic, often severe pain; higher likelihood of fertility challenges; symptoms tied to whichever organs are affected.

The most important thing to understand

Stage does NOT equal pain level. Someone with Stage I can be debilitated, while someone with Stage IV might have fewer symptoms. That’s one of the most frustrating parts of endo, it doesn’t behave predictably. That being said, just because you may have Stage 1 should not diminish your experience as a patient or the suffering you are coping with.

Why Endometriosis and IBD Get Confused

The overlap between endometriosis and IBD is more than coincidental, it’s believed to be symptomatically and biologically intertwined.

Both conditions can cause:

  • Abdominal pain and cramping
  • Diarrhea or constipation
  • Bloating
  • Fatigue
  • Nausea
  • Pain with bowel movements

If you already have IBD, it’s easy to assume these symptoms are just part of a flare.

Hormonal Influence

Endometriosis is hormone-driven, meaning symptoms often worsen:

  • Before or during your period
  • Around ovulation

Some women with IBD also report symptom fluctuations tied to their menstrual cycle, which can blur the lines even further.

Inflammation Connection

Both conditions involve chronic inflammation, and emerging research suggests there may be shared immune pathways. Women with IBD may have a higher likelihood of developing endometriosis—and vice versa.

Red Flags That It Might Be More Than IBD

If you’re living with IBD, here are signs that something else, like endometriosis, could be at play:

  • Pain that follows your cycle (gets worse before/during your period)
  • Severe pelvic pain that feels different from your typical IBD pain
  • Pain during or after sex
  • Pain with bowel movements specifically during your period
  • Infertility or difficulty conceiving
  • IBD treatments aren’t improving certain symptoms

One of the biggest clues? When your gut symptoms don’t fully respond to your usual IBD medications.

The Diagnostic Challenge

Diagnosing endometriosis isn’t straightforward.

  • Imaging (like ultrasound or MRI) can help, but may miss smaller lesions
  • The gold standard is laparoscopic surgery, where a specialist can see and biopsy the tissue

For women with IBD, this can feel overwhelming, especially if you’ve already been through scopes, scans, surgeries, and procedures. But getting clarity matters.

How It’s Treated

Treatment depends on severity, symptoms, and your goals (like pain relief vs. fertility).

Hormonal Therapy

  • Birth control pills, patches, or IUDs
  • Medications that suppress estrogen

These aim to reduce or stop the growth of endometrial tissue.

Pain Management

  • NSAIDs (with caution in IBD, especially Crohn’s)
  • Other pain-modulating medications

Surgical Treatment

  • Laparoscopic excision of endometriosis lesions
  • Particularly helpful for more advanced disease

Coordinated Care

If you have both IBD and endometriosis, your care team may include:

  • A gastroenterologist
  • A gynecologist (ideally one who specializes in endometriosis)
  • A colorectal surgeon if bowel involvement exists

This team-based approach can make a huge difference.

Living With Both: Practical Advice

Track Your Symptoms Differently

Don’t just track food and bowel habits. Be mindful of:

  • Your menstrual cycle
  • Pain timing and location
  • Symptom patterns across the month

 Patterns can reveal what labs and scans can’t.

Don’t Dismiss “New” Pain

You know your IBD. If something feels different, it probably is. Trust that instinct.

Be Specific With Your Doctors

Instead of saying “I have more pain,” try:

  • “This pain is worse during my period.”
  • “It feels lower in my pelvis than my usual Crohn’s pain.”
  • “My GI symptoms spike even when my inflammation markers are normal.”

Details help providers connect the dots faster.

Be Careful With Medications

Some common treatments for one condition may complicate the other:

  • NSAIDs can aggravate IBD
  • Hormonal treatments may affect GI symptoms differently for each person

Always loop in both your GI and GYN teams.

Advocate for a Second Opinion

Endometriosis is often underdiagnosed and misunderstood. If you feel dismissed, it’s reasonable to seek a specialist, especially one experienced in excision surgery, not just symptom management.

The Emotional Side No One Talks About

Living with one chronic illness is hard enough. Adding another, especially one that affects fertility, hormones, and daily pain, can feel overwhelming.

There’s often:

  • Frustration from delayed diagnosis
  • Anxiety about symptoms overlapping
  • Exhaustion from managing multiple specialists

If this is your reality, you’re not alone and you’re not imagining it.

The Patient Experience: What women with IBD and endometriosis want you to know

Madison: “I could write a novel about endometriosis and IBD! I’ve had three surgeries for endometriosis, and it’s been found on my bowel in two of the surgeries. I eventually asked my GI if it could have been endo all along (it’s not), but it’s interconnected.

She was diagnosed with ulcerative colitis in 2016 but had symptoms for a few years prior. Madison was diagnosed with endometriosis in August 2020 after unexplained infertility but more importantly, debilitating pain once she stopped birth control in early 2019. Looking back, she says her symptoms probably started at puberty (12 years old) but she didn’t know what was normal. 

“I had surgery in August 2020 to confirm the endometriosis diagnosis and have had 2 additional surgeries since then. I wish I would have known during my first surgery that there’s a difference between an ablation of the endometriosis and an excision of the endometriosis,” she explains. “The best way I’ve had it explained to me is imagine burning weeds in your yard vs pulling them out by the root — if you burn the weeds, they will come back. You need to pull them out by the root. However, not every surgeon is trained in excision and the recovery is definitely longer! I looked into endometriosis advocacy groups like Nancy’s Nook (Facebook) to help learn more about the differences and find excellent surgeons.”

Madison ended up having a hysterectomy in 2023 after they suspected adenomyosis (where endometrial tissue grows within the muscle of the uterus) and the quality of life she has now is significantly improved! She still has endometriosis (there’s no cure and it often regrows) but it’s managed much better now.

“I will probably have a fourth surgery in the next couple years, but I’m hopeful that the medicine and science improves to possibly delay an additional surgery. My endometriosis and my ulcerative colitis symptoms are definitely linked. If I’m in a flare for one, I tend to have symptoms increase for the other. For example, my endometriosis causes really painful bloating and I often look distended. If the distension lasts for a few days, my gut tends to revolt and I start to see an increase in GI symptoms. The last 2 surgeries showed I had endometriosis growing on the bowels (both times it was removed) so my cycles would cause really painful GI symptoms that improved after the surgeries.”

She is more convinced now that the gut/brain/pain feedback loop is real. When Madison’s endo is calm, her ulcerative colitis tends to follow suit. She’s so grateful for Instagram which has connected her to other endometriosis patients that have been willing to share their experiences.

Katherine: “Just saw an endo excision specialist 2 months ago. She wants me to do the surgery, but I’m in my second flare right now in the last year and my IBD specialist won’t sign off on it until I’m in endoscopic remission. Now dealing with fighting CVS in an appeal to increase my Rinvoq back to 45 mg.”

Katherine went on to say that one of the most vital steps in her journey was realizing that her body doesn’t operate in silos, so her doctors shouldn’t either.

“Navigating the overlapping pain of ulcerative colitis and endometriosis requires more than just two separate plans; it requires a unified front. I found that getting my IBD specialist deeply involved in my pelvic health was the catalyst for better care, especially since I noticed my symptoms would constantly peak during my cycle, creating a ‘perfect storm’ for inflammation.”

She says her GI understands the specific complexities of her UC and was able to refer her to an endometriosis specialist who wasn’t just an expert in surgery, but someone who respected the delicacy of the bowel.

“When your GI and endo specialist collaborate, you move away from ‘band-aid solutions’ and toward a strategy that addresses how these conditions trigger one another. Don’t be afraid to ask your gastroenterologist for a referral; a specialist who is already vetted by your IBD team ensures that your care plan is safe, cohesive, and designed for your specific anatomy.”

Katherine is currently in her second UC flare in six months after being in remission for five years. The plan is to start progesterone only birth control once she’s back in remission. Then she plans to get endometriosis excision surgery, and an IUD, which will help with her iron deficiency anemia.

Sabrina: “My doctors have suspected I have endometriosis, but I haven’t done the diagnostic surgery yet because I need to wait until I have my surgery to reconnect my J Pouch.”

Kelly wasdiagnosed with endometriosis stage 4 but most likely had it for years. Then, she received her Crohn’s disease diagnosis in 2005.

“We did several rounds of IVF mainly because back then it wasn’t talked about or taken seriously. I never would have done IVF because my Crohn’s got so bad. We adopted in 2009. I had my colon out in 2010. Then in 2016, I was thinking of a hysterectomy because I was so done with the anemia and pain. I ended up with a small bowel blockage due to my endometriosis and end up (I had a J Pouch—I now have an ileostomy) having an emergency hysterectomy and a 10-hour surgery to unglue all my organs and get rid of the scar tissue on my bowels and the damage from the endo.”  

Kim: “I was diagnosed with Endometriosis first, then Crohn’s, then repeat scopes showed endometriosis on my colon as well. I’ve never been told there is a correlation, but it makes total sense (how women’s bodies store trauma and have far more autoimmune conditions as a result). I wish I would’ve known to advocate for myself and my symptoms as a teenager and young adult.”

Kim says too many times (especially for women) we are told it’s “normal” to have symptoms (cramps, excessive bleeding, fatigue, anemia, etc.) and as a young adult, you don’t know to challenge it.

“Even at 30 years old, my PCP was convinced my rectal bleeding was simply from hemorrhoids and only referred me to GI when I insisted. Then, that GI only performed a colonoscopy because of the referral from PCP as “IBD patients typically present much more ill” than me. We then discovered severe, chronic ulceration and full-blown Crohn’s.”

Kristin: “I was diagnosed with stage 4 endo during a hysterectomy in 2024 after years of terrible symptoms that kept me bedridden during my cycle. However, not all my symptoms were relieved from the surgery. About 15 months later (just last month), I was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease and started on biologics. For years, I was told I had a sensitive stomach, or I should take birth control. I wish I knew what endo was years ago. I also wish I knew how much more likely women with endo are for having an autoimmune disease.

Kristen wants women to know that how you describe your symptoms to doctors is just as important as what you tell them. This will directly impact testing and help in finding a diagnosis. It wasn’t until she told her GI that her symptoms were cyclical but seemed to have no rhythm or reason that the testing approach shifted. Kristen wants women to have the courage to speak up about all your symptoms, even if they seem gross or uncomfortable to talk about.

Allie: “I just wish when I was diagnosed with UC that someone would have told me the likelihood of potentially having endo and then the impact it could have on fertility. I would have gone to a fertility specialist early on and potentially frozen my eggs in early adulthood.

Kate: “I was diagnosed with Crohn’s first 25+ years ago. Then endometriosis 23+ years ago. I have stage 4 endo, meaning it was most recently found fusing my vagina and rectum together. I have had a total hysterectomy, multiple surgeries to remove endometrial tissue throughout my pelvis, and both of my ovaries are now gone. This was discovered after YEARS of constipation (weird for me) and NOTHING worked to resolve it.

Kate is on opioids for chronic pain and her doctors kept telling her the pain medication was the culprit for the constipation, but the reversal medications did nothing. She was hospitalized for nine days for pain and constipation, during which they tried everything. The only fix was to slowly drink colonoscopy prep while getting IV pain meds for the pain it caused.

“I kept asking if it could be a structural or a motility problem, and they kept saying it was the opioids. Colonoscopies have shown my Crohn’s is and has been in remission for years (thanks to Azathioprine!)  After the surgery, where they discovered the actual issue (that it was structural), I’ve had zero constipation issues and have been able to finally start coming out of the depression. We are now looking to find a GI doctor who has a better understanding of endometriosis and Crohn’s.”

Kate says the inflammatory process of both diseases mimic each other, and there is no reason to suffer in pain, nor should patients be told they cannot address their pain using the entire toolkit, including opioids, if they allow the patient to become more functional and lead a more fulfilling life.

“Doctors need better education on how systemic both diseases are, and that if Crohn’s symptoms aren’t responding to treatment, they should be worked up for endo. There also needs to be a better understanding that both diseases can be worse than having cancer, as there are no clear protocols, there is little understanding or support, there is little research, and the idea there could be something worse than cancer doesn’t register with most of the general public.”

Lenette: “I found out I had endometriosis when I had a partial hysterectomy to correct iron deficiency anemia. At first, the pain and symptoms all blurred together. It’s taken time for me to be able to distinguish between the two, but sometimes, I’m still unsure what is what. Tracking symptoms helped me distinguish better because I found some symptoms to be cyclical. However, IBD can worsen around your cycle as well and hormones can affect both conditions.”

Lynette recommends women be extremely specific with doctors about their pain. So many symptoms overlap, and she says it can feel two times as bad: bloating, fatigue, mood, etc. All of this can cause pelvic floor tension, and pelvic floor therapy can be life changing.

“It’s also helpful to find community that have both conditions where you can find someone to talk to or learn more about having both. I have found it to be so frustrating to have both because I seem to experience symptoms so much more dramatically than others do at times. Having two conditions that affect the same area and both cause pain and bloating has been so challenging. What helps one condition might not help the other so it can be very trial and error. It has given me a new sense of awareness of my pain and fatigue since I am constantly monitoring to understand which is occurring or if both are the culprit at that time. It’s so frustrating that my IBD is in remission, yet I still experience a lot of symptoms due to my endometriosis.”

She says it can feel like you rarely get a break from pain.

“I try to listen to my body when I’m experiencing a lot of symptoms. I do a lot of deep breathing, stretching, and walking. I also try to listen to my body regarding food. I try to eat nourishing things but also if I’m craving something, I usually eat what I’m craving. If it increases symptoms, I make a note of that. Sometimes my body is OK with certain foods and sometimes it isn’t. I also try to manage stress levels a lot when I’m experiencing symptoms.”

Jessie: “I was diagnosed with Endo and Crohn’s right around the same time at the age of 15. I think my Endo symptoms showed up at first, but they were all diagnosed at once. At the time, the doctors shared no information on any correlation and treated it like two separate issues. As I aged and both progressed, I still struggled to get any acknowledgement from doctors on the two being related; however, once I was diagnosed stage IV Endo and had my last excision + partial hysterectomy, that surgeon said he could see how my condition could be affecting my Crohn’s in the lower colon and perianal area. I had some endo down by the rectum that they removed and there was just a lot of inflammation.”

Jessie says her inflamed uterus (which was adenomyosis) also may have been contributing to overall inflammation in that area as well. She chose to have an excision and partial hysterectomy before her ostomy was reversed, and her perianal symptoms improved so much by not having a period anymore.

“Every time I would get a period, I would experience pain, inflammation, diarrhea, increased urgency, and pressure around that rectal area and my lower abdomen. While I still have my ovaries, not having a period itself every month almost eliminated all those Crohn’s symptoms that would rage around my cycle.”

The Bottom Line

The truth is, not all pain in women with IBD is “just IBD” and continuing to accept that narrative is where too many stories get stuck. Endometriosis is often hiding in plain sight, especially in bodies already labeled as “complicated.” But your body is not confusing, you’re just being asked to connect dots that the healthcare system doesn’t always put together for you.

So, if something feels off, if your symptoms don’t follow the rules, if your pain keeps showing up despite doing “everything right,” do not ignore it. Track it. Name it. Bring it to your care team repeatedly until someone listens.

Because you deserve care that looks at the whole picture. You deserve doctors who are curious, not dismissive. And most of all, you deserve answers, not assumptions. This isn’t about choosing between diagnoses. It’s about recognizing that sometimes, it’s both, and finally getting the care that reflects that reality.

Learn more here

Life With Crohn’s And Endometriosis: An Overlap Of Painful Symptom | EndoFound

Inflammatory Bowel Disease and Endometriosis: Diagnosis and Clinical Characteristics – PMC

Endometriosis Does Not Worsen IBD and May Be Linked to Milder CD Progression – Gastroenterology Advisor

Inflammatory Bowel Disease and Endometriosis: Diagnosis and Clinical Characteristics – PubMed\

Frontiers | Potential shared pathogenic mechanisms between endometriosis and inflammatory bowel disease indicate a strong initial effect of immune factors

ASSOCIATION OF ENDOMETRIOSIS AND INFLAMMATORY BOWEL DISEASE (IBD), FINDINGS FROM EPIDEMIOLOGICAL EVIDENCE TO GENETIC LINKS – Fertility and Sterility

Endometriosis vs IBD: Symptoms, Overlap, and Evidence

Out-of-Pocket Costs Nobody Warns You About With IBD

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When most people hear about inflammatory bowel disease (IBD), they think about symptoms—abdominal pain, urgency, fatigue, flares. What they don’t think about? The financial toll.

Living with IBD, whether it’s Crohn’s disease or ulcerative colitis, comes with a lengthy list of out-of-pocket costs that rarely get discussed at diagnosis.

IBD patients experience 3 times higher healthcare-related work loss than non-IBD peers. And for many patients and families, those costs become a constant, underlying stressor that shapes daily decisions.

This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s a deep dive into the cost of living with IBD and why you’re not alone if financing your health is a constant concern.

Medications (Even When You’re Insured)

Biologics, immunosuppressants, steroids, you name it… IBD medications are often life-changing, but they’re also expensive. Before insurance comes into play it’s shocking when you hear how costly these medications are without coverage:

To break it down, without insurance, two auto-injector Humira pens cost an average of $10,782.36.

Without insurance, a Remicade infusion could cost you anywhere from $4,000-$7,000.

The list price of Skyrizi without insurance is approximately $32,566 per 150 mg injector pen, with variations depending on pharmacy and dosing method.

A 30-day supply of Rinvoq pills without insurance would cost between $7,000-$9,600, depending on dosage and pharmacy.

Without insurance, Stelara costs approximately $21,191 for a 45 mg syringe or $25,497 for a 90 mg syringe, with potential savings through discount programs and patient assistance.

… you get the idea.

And even with insurance, we deal with:

  • Monthly copays
  • Specialty pharmacy fees
  • Deductibles that reset every year
  • Prior authorization delays that interrupt treatment

And sometimes, the biggest cost isn’t financial, it’s physical and emotional when we’re forced to switch medications due to insurance, even when a medication is keeping our disease stable. There’s also the stress we face when switching employers and having to restart the process of getting coverage for our heavy-duty medications with a different insurance and specialty pharmacy.

 The Cost of Staying “Stable”

Routine monitoring is a non-negotiable part of IBD care. Annual lab tests, scans, and scopes add up.

This includes:

  • Bloodwork (often every 3-6 months and sometimes more depending on whether you’re flaring)
  • Stool tests
  • Colonoscopies and endoscopies
  • Imaging like MREs, CT scans, intestinal ultrasounds

These aren’t one-time expenses; they’re repeated regularly to track inflammation and prevent complications. And while they’re essential, they often come with recurring out-of-pocket costs that add up over time. Even after living with Crohn’s for nearly 21 years, it’s always a surprise how much my labs are going to cost. I try and get my colonoscopies in December before my deductible starts over at the start of the year.

Along with managing our disease with those costs, there are also the copays to see specialists to manage our care. A $40 copay to see a dermatologist, bone health doctor, ophthalmologist, primary care doctor, gynecologist…the list goes on, adds up quickly.

Travel, Parking, and Time Away

IBD care isn’t always close to home. My GI office is about 40 minutes away, compared to many people I know, that’s close by. Due to lack of access, many patients must travel to see specialists, infusion centers, or undergo procedures. That can mean:

  • Gas, tolls, and parking fees (I know some patients who take an airplane to appointments!)
  • Hotel stays for early morning procedures and out-of-state appointments
  • Time off work (for patients and caregivers)

These logistical costs are rarely acknowledged, but they’re part of the reality. There have been countless times through my patient journey when I’m stuck in traffic and resent the fact that I have to waste so much time just to manage my disease.

The Cost of “Safe” Food

Food is one of the most personal and frustrating parts of living with IBD.

There’s no one-size-fits-all diet, and many patients rely on trial and error to figure out what works. Often:

  • “Safe foods” can cost more
  • Specialty items aren’t always covered by assistance programs
  • What works one month may not work the next

The financial burden of constantly adapting your diet is real and ongoing. Working alongside a registered dietitian for nutritional guidance may or may not be covered by your insurance. Many insurers cover medical nutrition therapy for digestive diseases, so make sure to look into this.

The Everyday Essentials

Then there are the items no one puts on a medical bill, but every patient knows are necessary:

  • Extra toilet paper and wipes
  • Heating pads
  • Backup clothes and supplies for emergencies
  • Over-the-counter medications and supplements
  • The cost of colonoscopy prep (buying clear liquids, Miralax/Dulcolax, SUTAB pill prep is about $50 depending on insurance, etc.)

Individually, they may seem small. Together, they’re part of the cost of living with IBD every single day.

The Hidden Cost of Missed Work

IBD doesn’t follow a schedule. Flares, fatigue, appointments, and recovery time can all impact a person’s ability to work consistently. That might look like:

  • Missed work days
  • Reduced hours
  • Limited career flexibility
  • Lost income over time

For many, this is one of the most significant and least visible financial burdens. After my bowel resection surgery, I had to be on short-term disability for 2 months which was only 60% of my salary.

Mental Health Support

The emotional weight of IBD is just as real as the physical symptoms.

Therapy, stress management tools, and mental health support can be critical for coping, but they’re not always fully covered by insurance. Many patients pay out-of-pocket for care that helps them navigate:

  • Anxiety around flares
  • Medical trauma
  • The daily uncertainty of chronic illness

For many of us, this is not optional, it’s part of comprehensive care.

Even in Remission, the Costs Don’t Disappear

One of the biggest misconceptions about IBD is that remission means everything goes back to normal. But financially, that’s rarely the case.

Even in remission, patients are still:

  • Taking medications
  • Attending regular appointments
  • Monitoring for signs of inflammation
  • Planning for the unexpected

The disease may be quiet, but the costs are not. As chronic illness patients, we know how delicate our remission is and that on any given day we can be back in a hospital bed trying to navigate an obstacle that wasn’t on our radar a week prior.

Why We Need to Talk About This More

The financial burden of IBD is often invisible, but it affects real-life decisions every day:

  • Can I afford this medication?
  • Should I delay this test?
  • Is it worth taking time off work for this appointment?

These aren’t just healthcare questions, they’re quality-of-life questions. Often, we can feel like a burden to our partner and our family as the medical bills come in, with no end in sight.

And until we talk more openly about the economic impact of chronic illness, patients will continue to carry this weight quietly.

What Can We Do About It?

  • Ask about patient assistance programs
    Many drug manufacturers offer copay cards or financial aid.
  • Request itemized bills
    Errors happen more often than you think and can be corrected.
  • Talk to your care team about costs
    Doctors can sometimes adjust testing frequency or suggest alternatives.
  • Time big procedures strategically
    If possible, schedule costly tests after hitting your deductible.
  • Use HSA/FSA accounts if available
    These can help offset out-of-pocket expenses with pre-tax dollars.
  • Don’t skip mental health support—ask about coverage options
    Some therapists offer sliding scale fees.

Final Thoughts

IBD is more than a diagnosis. It’s more than symptoms. It’s a lifelong condition that comes with physical, emotional, and financial layers, many of which no one warns you about. But acknowledging those realities doesn’t make patients weak. It makes the conversation more honest. And that’s where change begins.

More Information:

4 Tips for When Insurance Doesn’t Cover Your Medication – GoodRx

How to save money on prescription medication: 13 tips

The Cost of Inflammatory Bowel Disease Care: How to Make it Sustainable – Clinical Gastroenterology and Hepatology

AGA-Economic-Burden-Infographic.pdf

The economic burden of inflammatory bowel disease – The Lancet Gastroenterology & Hepatology

Managing inflammatory bowel disease: what to do when the best is unaffordable? – The Lancet Gastroenterology & Hepatology

Global, regional, and national burden of inflammatory bowel disease from 1990 to 2021: findings from the Global Burden of Disease 2021 | Gastroenterology Report | Oxford Academic

Food, Flares, and Finding What Works: Real Talk on Eating with IBD

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Knowing what to eat with IBD can feel stressful and overwhelming. While research updates in our community are often exciting, the “news” isn’t always actionable for patients and caregivers. Food, however, is where the rubber meets the road—it’s a daily, practical touchpoint for those of us living with IBD.

Kristin Cunningham, MHA, RD, CSDH, LD, a registered dietitian at WashU’s IBD Center in St. Louis, understands this reality both professionally and personally. Diagnosed with Crohn’s disease more than 30 years ago, Kristin recently shared a presentation with her local Crohn’s & Colitis Foundation chapter focused on choosing snacks that are affordable while still meeting the unique needs of someone with IBD.

This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s, Kristin offers insight into how we can approach nutrition and everyday food decisions—whether we’re in a flare or remission.

Food Insecurity and IBD

A growing concern in the IBD community is access to food itself. Research shows that 13.5% of Americans with IBD experience food insecurity, compared to 9% of the general population.

“We know food costs have risen in the past three years, and SNAP benefits have decreased for some, so we can reasonably predict that food insecurity rates are even higher now,” Kristin explains.

Certain groups are disproportionately affected, including individuals who are non-Hispanic Black, uninsured or on Medicaid, or relying on SNAP benefits. Kristin emphasizes that clinicians should routinely screen for food insecurity and take a multidisciplinary approach, bringing in dietitians and social workers to better support patients.

Pain Points from our Community

One of the biggest emotional burdens Kristin sees? Guilt.

Many people with IBD blame themselves, believing they should have been able to pinpoint the exact food that “caused” a flare.

“I try to offer reassurance that active disease is much more complex than just something eaten,” she says. “Diet may play a role, but there are many other factors outside of our control that drive inflammation.”

Beyond that, patients commonly struggle with:

  • Fatigue that makes meal planning feel impossible
  • Limited time or cooking skills
  • The rising cost of food

Dealing with Diet while flaring

Kristin is quick to validate just how difficult eating can be when symptoms are at their worst.

“I struggle to eat well when my disease is active, too,” she shares. “Even water moving through your GI tract can hurt.”

Her approach is not about eliminating discomfort completely—but about minimizing additional irritation and maintaining nutrition while the body heals.

That often means focusing on foods that are easier to digest and gentler on inflamed areas, such as:

  • Peanut butter
  • Greek Yogurt: Select a yogurt with 7 grams or less of added sugar. The least costly way to achieve this while avoiding artificial sweeteners is to buy plain yogurt & flavor on your own. For example, with vanilla extract, fruit, 1 tsp of honey/sugar/maple syrup, which would add 4-6 grams of added sugar.
  • Canned Black Beans/Hummus: You can mash up any canned beans for tolerance. Rinse salted canned beans with water to reduce sodium content.
  • Avocado
  • Hard boiled Eggs
  • Cottage Cheese with fruit: Select cottage cheese that is 2% fat or less (unless trying to gain weight) & free of carrageenan. Select diced fruit in 100% juice to avoid added sugar or artificial sweeteners.
  • Cereal: Select a cereal with 2+ grams of fiber & 4 grams or less of added sugar per serving.
  • Microwave Baked Potato with Olive Oil: Avoid skin if stricture/short bowel/ileostomy or other difficulty with insoluble fiber
  • Unsweetened Applesauce
  • Soft-cooked carrots
  • Slow cooker shredded chicken
  • Smoothies
  • Mashed potatoes

Preparation matters just as much as the food itself. Chewing thoroughly, cooking well, peeling, mashing, or pureeing can all make a meaningful difference.

For those open to more structured approaches, Kristin may suggest:

While these options have stronger evidence in Crohn’s disease, early research suggests potential benefits in ulcerative colitis as well. That said, Kristin is transparent, she knows from firsthand experience, that these approaches can be difficult to tolerate and may take weeks to show results.

“Most of my patients aren’t interested in that level of structure, and that’s completely understandable,” she says. “But people deserve to know these options exist.”

Snacking with IBD

Kristin’s top three snacks are guacamole and chips, Cheerios, and snack cookies.

Snack Cookie Recipe

Serves: 6

Ingredients:

• 2 Ripe Bananas

• 1 egg

• ½ cup nut or seed butter

• ½ TB olive oil

• 1 tsp vanilla extract

• 1 cup Flour of choice (almond, white wheat, whole wheat, etc.)

• ½ tsp baking powder

• ½ tsp baking soda

• ¼ tsp salt

• 2 cups of cereal (ex. Puffed rice cereal, puffed millet cereal, cornflakes)

Directions: Preheat oven to 350 F. Line baking sheet with parchment paper. Add bananas to a large bowl & mash. Add remaining ingredients (except cereal) and mix well. Add cereal and mix well. Drop by 1-1 ½ TB scoops onto baking sheet. Makes 12 cookies. Store any not eaten same day in an airtight container in the refrigerator.

Final Thoughts

Food will never be a perfect science with IBD, and it’s not supposed to be. What matters isn’t control, but connection: learning your body’s cues, honoring its limits, and responding with flexibility instead of fear. Some days that might look like a well-balanced meal; other days, it’s a few safe bites just to get through. Both count. Both matter. Because living with IBD isn’t about getting it “right,” it’s about continuing to nourish yourself, in whatever way you can, even when it’s hard.

Kristin’s list of helpful resources for IBD-friendly recipes:

Gut Friendly Recipes | Crohn’s & Colitis Foundation

IBD-Friendly Recipes & Nutrition | GI Nutrition Foundation

Freebies | Wellness By Food

Pureed Pzazz: Pureed Food Recipes

Chef-Crafted Recipes for Gut Health & IBD Wellness | Chef With IBD

Recipes Recipes – Eat Well Crohn’s Colitis

IBD AID Recipes – Center for Applied Nutrition at UMass Chan Medical School

Quick Easy Recipes – African, Latin American, Asian, Vegetarian & Vegan OLDWAYS – Cultural Food Traditions

What I Wish Every Current and Future IBD Mom Knew

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This month marks nine years since I became a mom.

Nine years since my life split into a clear before and after.
Before motherhood.
Before learning how much my heart could stretch.
Before realizing I could love someone so fiercely while still carrying a body that has never felt predictable or safe since my Crohn’s diagnosis in 2005.

I entered motherhood already shaped by chronic illness. Crohn’s disease had been part of my identity for years before I ever held a positive pregnancy test in my hands. I knew what it meant to live with uncertainty. I knew how to navigate flares, fatigue, medications, and fear. What I didn’t know was how those experiences would transform me into an entirely new version of myself—an IBD mom. When I got pregnant, I only knew of one woman, my cousin’s wife, who has Crohn’s, and stayed on her biologic throughout her four pregnancies.

This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s a reflection on my patient journey and what it felt like to go through family planning, pregnancy, and motherhood as a woman with IBD and what I want others to know.

When I Was “Just” the Patient

For a long time, my world revolved around survival. Appointments. Side effects. Lab work. Scopes. Injections. Recovery days. Canceled plans. Hospitalizations. Weaning off steroids. Learning how to read my body’s subtle warning signs. Learning when to push and when to rest.

Crohn’s taught me resilience long before I knew I would need it in motherhood. But it also taught me hyper-awareness. A constant scanning of my body for what might go wrong next. A relationship with fear that felt both protective and exhausting. As time passed, I learned to listen to how my body was speaking to me through symptoms.

When I imagined becoming a mom, that fear came with me. I had bowel resection surgery two months after getting engaged, I was planning a wedding, and for the first time after a decade of living with Crohn’s I had FINALLY heard the word “remission” for the first time. My fiancé (now husband) and I knew once we got married 10 months later, that we would need to capitalize on that remission and hopefully start our family while we knew I was well enough to do so. Despite being in remission, I still had many questions and thoughts racing through my mind:

Would I be healthy enough?
Would my medication be safe?
Would I flare during pregnancy or postpartum?
Would my disease rob me of moments I dreamed about?
Would I be hospitalized and away from my child?

…the list went on. If you’re an IBD mom or one day aspire to become one, you know the questions we all face.

I wanted to become a mom more than anything, but I carried quiet doubts about whether my body was capable of sustaining not just a pregnancy, but a lifetime of caregiving.

Becoming a Mom with Crohn’s

The day I became a mom everything shifted. Not because my Crohn’s disappeared. Not because my health suddenly became perfect. But because my why expanded.

Suddenly, my body was no longer just something I endured. It was the home my child lived in.
The vehicle through which I would show up, nurture, protect, and love. That realization changed the way I approached my overall health as a mom with IBD. My pregnancy with Reid gave me a renewed sense of love and appreciation for my body.

Taking my medication wasn’t just about me anymore.
Advocating at appointments wasn’t just self-preservation.
Resting wasn’t weakness.
Prioritizing sleep wasn’t indulgent.

It was parenting. I began to see caring for myself as an extension of caring for my child. That mental shift — from “patient” to “patient who is also a mother” — was subtle but seismic. Rather than waiting until I was too weak to even walk through the emergency doors by myself, I started to alert my care team within days of recognizing that my Crohn’s seemed a bit “off” so that we could nip any issue that arose in the bud.

Learning to Mother Through Difficult Days

Motherhood with Crohn’s is not picture-perfect. But regardless of your health status, there is no such thing as perfect when it comes to being a mom. You must remind yourself of this and give yourself grace.

There are days I have shown up with heating pads tucked under sweatshirts.
Days I’ve read stories from the bathroom floor.
Days I’ve powered through school drop-offs on pure adrenaline and grit.  Days I’ve shown up to PTO meetings and coached soccer on pain medication.
Days I’ve cried because I felt like I was failing at both having a chronic illness and being a mom.

I’ve been in “remission” since 2015, the entire time I’ve been a mom, which I’m eternally grateful for, but just because I’ve been in remission does not mean I don’t face countless struggles with this disease. That’s something I wish people would understand. IBD is a chronic illness, just because someone is in remission doesn’t mean they are free of pain, stress, and more.

I’ve had to learn that good motherhood doesn’t require constant physical perfection. Some seasons look like big adventures and energy. Others look like quiet cuddles, movie days, and choosing rest over outings.

Both count.

My children are being raised by someone who understands empathy, flexibility, and listening to their body. That matters. You’ll notice as a parent with chronic illness how quickly your little ones develop empathy. It’s next level. And so beautiful. You don’t even have to teach it, it’s innate in them because of their daily reality.

Raising a Child Who Understands Illness and Compassion

One of the unexpected gifts of being an IBD mom is watching compassion take root early.

My three children know that bodies work differently.
That medicine helps people live.
That rest is sometimes necessary.
That we don’t judge what we can’t see. They’ve learned that strength isn’t always loud.

Sometimes strength looks like getting up anyway.
Sometimes it looks like asking for help.
Sometimes it looks like choosing yourself.

Those lessons feel just as important as anything in a textbook.

How Motherhood Changed My Relationship with My Body

Before becoming a mom, there were times my body felt like the enemy.

The source of pain.
The reason plans fell apart.
The thing holding me back.

Motherhood complicated that narrative.

This body carried three children.
This body nourished three children.
This body continues to show up, even when it’s tired, inflamed, or aching.

It isn’t perfect.
But it is more than capable.

I still have hard days. But honestly, I have a lot more amazing days. I never take a feel-good day for granted.
Even after more than two decades of living with Crohn’s, there are still moments where I fantasize about what it would be like to just be a healthy person and not have the burden of my disease.

But I also hold more gratitude now. A grounded, honest one. My three children are my greatest motivation to push through and be my healthiest self.

From Surviving to Advocating

Becoming a mom didn’t quiet my voice.

It amplified it. Ironically, this blog, Lights, Camera, Crohn’s, launched July 23rd, 2016… I found out TWO days later I was pregnant with my oldest son, Reid. So, this blog truly captures every moment of pregnancy, family planning, and motherhood from the perspective of someone who learned as I went.

I advocate not only for myself now, but for a future where my children grow up in a world that understands chronic illness better than the one I grew up in.

I speak out because I want fewer people to feel dismissed.
I share stories because I want fewer people to feel alone.
I push for better care because I want better options for the current and the next generation.

I want couples to feel empowered by their decision to have a family, however that may look for them.

I hope women feel comforted by all the constant research going on to address what’s safe and effective as they bring life into this world. I participated in IBD pregnancy studies with all three of my kids, my youngest who turns five in July will be followed through the PIANO study until age 18!

Motherhood turned my survival into purpose.

Nine Years In: Who I Am Now

I am still a patient.
I am still navigating Crohn’s.
I still face uncertainty at times, but through a much different lens.

I am also a mom of nearly a decade.

A mom who has learned how to hold fear and hope at the same time.
A mom who knows that love is not measured in energy levels.
A mom who shows up imperfectly, consistently, and wholeheartedly.

I didn’t become a mother despite Crohn’s.

I became a mother with Crohn’s.

And over the past nine years, I’ve learned that those two identities can coexist, not in conflict, but in strength. I swear I blinked and somehow my sweet Reid, my baby, is nearly double digits. I don’t think there will ever be a time in my lifetime that I don’t stare at all of my children in awe of their existence, I’m sure if you’re a parent you feel the same way. It’s a miracle they are here, healthy, and thriving. So much of why I share my family so openly is to show how my children, who were all exposed in utero to Humira, are doing so beautifully in school, sports, and socially.

To the IBD Moms (and Future Moms) Reading This

You are not broken.
You are not behind.
You are not failing.

You are doing one of the hardest jobs in the world while managing one of the hardest diseases. That deserves recognition.

Later this month, my Reid is nine.

Nine years of learning.
Nine years of adapting.
Nine years of loving fiercely in a body that isn’t always kind.

And I wouldn’t trade this evolution for anything.

IBD Pregnancy Studies

Global Consensus on IBD and Pregnancy

PIANO (Pregnancy in IBD and Neonatal Outcomes) Study

WIsDoM Study: A Study Focused on Female Fertility and Pregnancy

MotherToBaby

A New Study Suggests Crohn’s Disease May Be Detectable Years Before Symptoms Begin

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New research published in Clinical Gastroenterology and Hepatology offers a glimpse into what Crohn’s disease may look like before it officially begins and the findings could have major implications for how we understand, monitor, and potentially prevent the disease in the future. As an IBD mom of three kids ages 8, 7, and 4, research like this always feels a bit bittersweet. While I’m grateful for the strides in research, I’m apprehensive about the burden and grief I would feel if I was able to know if my children would one day receive the same diagnosis.

As someone diagnosed with Crohn’s at age 21, I’m grateful for my two decades of blissful, perfect health. Had I known a complicated chronic illness would one day riddle my body, I’m not sure how I would have coped and dealt with that news.

This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s a look at what the latest research discovered, the complicated emotions IBD parents may feel, and what the future may hold for us all as a community.

Why This Matters: Crohn’s May Start Long Before Diagnosis

The study found that certain immune responses in the blood, specifically elevated IgG antibodies targeting a conserved region of bacterial flagellin (a protein found on gut bacteria) were present years before people were diagnosed with Crohn’s disease. In other words, the immune system appeared to be reacting to gut bacteria long before symptoms like abdominal pain, diarrhea, or weight loss ever showed up.

This study followed 381 first-degree relatives of Crohn’s patients, 77 of whom went on to develop the disease. Among them, 28 (more than a third) had elevated antibody responses.

One of the most important takeaways from this research is the timing. Most Crohn’s biomarkers are identified after the disease is active. This study, however, suggests that immune dysregulation may begin well in advance of clinical disease. This supports the idea that Crohn’s develops gradually rather than suddenly.

That distinction matters. If Crohn’s truly has a long preclinical phase, it opens the door to earlier monitoring and potentially earlier intervention, especially for people who are already at higher risk, such as first-degree relatives of those living with Crohn’s disease. A first degree relative is a parent, child, or sibling.

According to the Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation, 36% of children born to two parents with IBD will develop the condition at some point during their life. The risk is substantially less when only one parent has IBD, with The National Human Genome Research Institute sharing there’s a 7-9% chance.

A Potential Blood Test for Risk, Not Diagnosis (Yet)

It’s important to be clear: this is not a diagnostic test and it’s not something patients can request from their doctor today. But it does raise the possibility that, one day, blood-based immune markers could help identify those who are more likely to develop Crohn’s before symptoms begin.

For families affected by IBD, this kind of risk stratification could be meaningful. Instead of waiting years for symptoms to escalate, or for damage to occur, high-risk individuals might one day be monitored more closely or offered early preventive strategies. As an IBD mom, I feel as though I would struggle with knowing whether this was something I wanted to dig deep for, while also not wanting to get in the way of stopping disease progression. It’s not a black and white situation by any means. If these types of blood tests are available when my kids are teenagers, and I were to get results that broke my heart, I’d feel obligated to be transparent and share—would I really want my kids, who have witnessed me living with Crohn’s their whole lives, to know this would one day be part of their own story? It stresses me out just trying to imagine it.

What This Could Mean for Prevention Research

Another compelling aspect of the study is that the immune response was directed at a conserved portion of bacterial flagellin. This means it’s shared across many gut bacteria. That finding has sparked discussion about whether future therapies or vaccines could target these immune pathways in people who are high risk for Crohn’s.

While prevention remains a long-term goal rather than a current reality, this research reflects a broader shift in IBD science: moving upstream to understand why Crohn’s starts, not just how to treat it once it’s already established, and as an IBD mom I am certainly grateful for that.

What This Doesn’t Mean (Yet)

As exciting as this research could be, it’s not a crystal ball. Not everyone with these immune markers will develop Crohn’s, and many people with Crohn’s were never tested years before diagnosis. Larger studies are still needed to validate these findings across diverse populations and to determine how predictive these markers truly are.

For now, this study adds another piece to the puzzle, one that reinforces what many patients already know intuitively: Crohn’s disease doesn’t start the day you’re diagnosed.

The Bigger Picture

Our community often experiences years of delayed diagnosis, misattributed symptoms, and unanswered questions, so research like this matters. It shifts the narrative from “why didn’t we catch this sooner?” to “how early can we understand and intervene?”

While we’re not there yet, this study represents an important step toward a future where Crohn’s disease is identified earlier, monitored more thoughtfully, and one day possibly prevented altogether.

For parents living with IBD, research like this can carry an added emotional burden. The idea that Crohn’s disease may be detectable years before symptoms begin can stir complicated feelings, especially for those who worry about whether they’ve passed on a genetic risk to their children. Some parents may want every possible tool to protect their child’s future health, while others may find the thought of early testing anxiety-provoking or guilt-inducing. There’s no right or wrong response. I get it and struggle with how I’d handle this, too. Living with IBD already requires navigating uncertainty, and this research underscores how deeply personal decisions about risk, knowledge, and monitoring can be for families. As science moves forward, it will be just as important to support parents emotionally as it is to advance early detection tools.

Additional Research

Crohn’s Disease May Be Detectable Years Before Symptoms

Familial and ethnic risk in inflammatory bowel disease – PMC

Targeting Disease Prediction and Prevention: The New Frontier in IBD

Deciphering the different phases of preclinical inflammatory bowel disease | Nature Reviews Gastroenterology & Hepatology

The GEM Project – The GEM Project – Crohn’s and Colitis Canada

Traveling with IBD: Real Talk, Hard Truths, and the Courage to Keep Exploring

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Traveling with inflammatory bowel disease (IBD) is rarely as simple as packing a suitcase and showing up. It’s logistics, emotions, planning, and flexibility. It takes a bit of hypervigilance. This layered on top of a disease that doesn’t take vacation days. But it is possible. And for many of us, it becomes one of the most empowering reminders that life with IBD can still be adventurous, and rich with new experiences.

This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s you’ll hear from two incredible IBD advocates, Kelly Dwyer and Rachel Verbanac. They both open up about their diagnoses, their anxieties, their coping strategies, and their go-to travel essentials. Their honesty and wisdom offer a roadmap for anyone who wants to explore the world without letting IBD call all the shots.

Meet Kelly: 21 Years of Symptoms, 7 Years Diagnosed

Kelly may have been diagnosed with Crohn’s disease in 2018, but she’d been living with severe perianal fistulizing ileal Crohn’s since the early 2000s.

“Before diagnosis, I avoided significant travel whenever possible because I was so ill. And when I did travel, I tried so hard to plan for every single scenario that it became stressful for me and everyone around me.”

Now in deep remission thanks to medication, Kelly still plans intentionally, but the difference is that the planning empowers her instead of holding her back.

She structures trips around:

  • Her injection schedule
  • The time of day she flies or drives
  • What foods she eats before travel
  • How to pace her energy
  • And what she needs to stay healthy while surrounded by crowds

“I wear a mask, use sanitizer constantly, wash my hands as much as I can… it all helps me feel like I’m doing what I can to set myself up for success.”

Kelly on Travel Anxiety: The Trauma Stays with You

Despite years of remission, Kelly still carries fear rooted in lived experience.

“I constantly worry about not making it to a bathroom. Even though it has not happened in years, that trauma stays with you.”

Kelly also experiences nausea, anxiety and a whole lot of gas and burbling guts when she travels.

“Finding the right medication cocktail that keeps things calm and in order in my guts (and brain!) took a lot of trial and error, but was worth it for me to find a combination to give me confidence that I’ll feel like I’ve done everything I can to get the trip off on the right foot. I would recommend you ask your doctor or GI about Zofran, anti-anxiety medications in small doses, Gas-x, antacids, and other OTC medications that might help you to make sure they’re safe for you to take.”

She’s built a system that helps her feel confident when she’s traveling:

  • A “Can’t Wait” restroom access card
  • Depends or heavy-duty panty liners on days she’s unsure
  • Change of clothes and wipes in her purse, not her carry-on
  • Imodium and emergency meds ready to go
  • Small meals before and during travel days
  • Medication for nausea, anxiety, gas, and gut discomfort

“I had to learn to relax into the chaos of travel and not panic when plans change. Travel is unpredictable—but so is Crohn’s.”

The Power of Protection: Insurance (Both Emotional and Literal)

Kelly is adamant that travel insurance is non-negotiable.

“I have used travel insurance many times for flare-related cancellations. It can be heartbreaking to miss something important, but it’s not your fault. This is your reality, and you’re doing your best.”

She also communicates openly with travel companions, so expectations are clear and compassionate from the start.

“Find as much peace as possible. Asking for everyone’s understanding and compassion, is so important. I remind myself that it’s not my fault that I am unwell. It’s not anything I did to cause the flare. This is simply my reality, and I am trying my very best, even if it doesn’t always work out the way I’d hoped.”

Kelly’s Must-Have Travel Kit

Here’s what she never leaves home without:

Kelly’s biggest piece of advice?

“Treat yourself with compassion, always. Build in extra time everywhere. Your comfort is worth it. Having a few extra hours at the airport to sit and read a magazine is much preferable to rushing through security lines and not being able to use the bathroom before getting on the plane because you’re late.”

Meet Rachel: A Travel-Lover Who Refused to Stop Exploring

Rachel was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease in 2021, right as she was going back to nursing school. Before that, she spent months living a nomadic lifestyle in New Zealand and expected to spend her twenties exploring the world. Her diagnosis meant rethinking what travel could look like. Requiring infusions changed everything.

“Hiking the Appalachian Trail used to be a dream, but with the need for insurance, pharmacy authorizations, infusion clinics, and access to university health systems… that lifestyle just wasn’t realistic anymore.”

But Rachel didn’t stop traveling. She adapted.

How Rachel Travels Now

Rachel describes herself as someone who “packs her anxieties,” but in a productive way.

Her prep includes:

  • Bringing a med kit stocked with small doses of essential meds
  • Monitoring hydration closely on travel days
  • Planning meals and bowel habits ahead of time
  • Understanding bathroom access in each country
  • Carrying small local currency bills for paid restrooms
  • Bringing a letter from her provider outlining her diagnosis and meds

“After many international trips, I’ve proven to myself that how I feel at home reflects how I feel on the road.”

Rachel also buys comprehensive travel insurance that covers pre-existing conditions, often from TinLeg, and encourages others to read the fine print carefully, especially regarding upfront payment rules.

“I feel much more secure knowing all medical bills will be paid for should I need anything abroad. Beyond health insurance, I have used the insurance for trip interruption and costs of delays. I also have my provider write me a letter stating my disease, common side effects, and my current medications. This letter can be useful when seeking care at a new clinic or if TSA should ever give you a difficult time (I have never experienced this). I like having the physical letter in the med kit.”

Bathroom Access: A Cultural Learning Curve

When traveling with others, Rachel gives them a heads up that access to bathrooms is a priority for her. Especially when traveling in Europe.

“Europe often requires a purchase to use a restroom. You cannot just run into a McDonald’s.”

Her strategy?

And she always tried to keep everything in perspective, even when the unexpected happens.

“Accidents are embarrassing, but you will most likely never see these people again. It is okay. You are okay.”

Travel Anxiety: You’re Not Alone

Rachel acknowledges the fears that come with IBD, but her message is clear:

Do not let IBD keep you from seeing the world.
Start small and your confidence will grow.

She now travels to Mexico annually and cannot imagine winters without it.

Nurse-Approved Safety Tips from Rachel

Some of her favorite reminders:

  • Even healthy travelers get GI bugs—be cautious with food and water. Taking general precautions like only drinking bottled water in areas where the water might not be safe to drink, sanitizing your hands often, and avoiding touching your eyes and mouth are still the best ways to prevent infections.
  • Avoid buffet sushi
  • Choose made-to-order stations
  • Read resort and food reviews. She checks out Google reviews, TripAdvisor, and Hotels.com to see what people have to say before she books a trip.
  • Wear an N95 on flights to avoid illness and see if your travel companions will do the same to help keep germs at bay.
  • Advocate for yourself with travel companions
  • Read Google reviews quickly if you’re unsure of a restaurant, locals and travelers will share if they got sick eating there. Look for highly frequented places.

As a nurse, Rachel has these words of wisdom for our community, “Don’t let IBD keep you from seeing places and experiencing new cultures. Often as patients we have anxiety and unknown destinations can seem overwhelming and scary. Start small and your confidence will grow, promise.”

Rachel’s Travel Med Kit

She carries:

  • Doctor’s letter
  • Hand sanitizer
  • Tylenol
  • Imodium
  • Pepto
  • Tums
  • Fiber
  • Gas-X
  • Benadryl
  • Dramamine (also helpful for intense nausea)
  • Zofran
  • Liquid I.V.
  • Band-Aids that are a few sizes
  • Contact solution or small vial of artificial tears (I wear contact lenses) 
  • A few doses of Dayquil and Zyrtec—when changing the container medication comes in, be sure to write the dose (mg or ml or the number of pills) and how often you take it.
  • A tube of triple antibiotic ointment and hydrocortisone ointment (for scrapes and bug bites)

Final Thoughts: You Deserve to Experience the World

Traveling with IBD takes more planning, more flexibility, and more courage than most people will ever understand. But as Kelly and Rachel show, it’s possible and it can even become empowering.

As someone who was diagnosed with Crohn’s more than 20 years ago traveling can still make me feel a bit uneasy. I always keep pain medication, Zofran, and Dramamine in my carry on. If you have to pack your biologic medication, keep that on you as well. It’s important to check how long your injection can be out of the fridge. Nowadays, Humira for example, can be unrefrigerated for up to 14 days. If you have to do your injection while away from home, make sure to have alcohol swabs and an ice pack (if you are used to using one).

I never drink caffeine prior to flights or long road trips, and I eat very light until I am at my destination. I try to dress as comfortably as possible, and do not restrict my belly in any way. The moment I get to my hotel room I take off my travel clothes and shower. If you are traveling and feeling symptomatic, it can be helpful to alert your care team at home and also do research beforehand about local hospitals so you have a game plan in place should you be facing an acute flare that may require a trip to the emergency room.

Whether you are taking a weekend road trip or boarding a long-haul flight, remember:

You’re allowed to take up space.
You’re allowed to prioritize your needs.
You’re allowed to choose comfort over speed.
You’re allowed to protect your energy.

And most importantly:

You deserve to make memories that reach far beyond the walls of your disease.

Additional resources

Traveling with IBD | Crohn’s & Colitis Foundation

Crohn’s Disease: Plan Ahead to Make Travel Easier

Travel Tips When You Have Ulcerative Colitis

Tips for Long Travel Days When You Have Crohn’s Disease

Snacks for Crohn’s Disease: 10 Easy Grab-and-Go Ideas

I’m a Frequent Traveler With Crohn’s Disease—Here Are My Packing List Non-Negotiables | Condé Nast Traveler

21 Tips for Traveling with IBD – Romanwell

The Power of Community in IBD: What New Research Reveals About Connection, Stigma, and Support

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Community and chronic illness can be thought of as a beautiful tapestry. Our lives and experiences, while unique, become intertwined, and once we recognize we don’t have to embark on the isolating journey alone, we are forever changed. We are so much stronger together. Johnson & Johnson’s published White Paper developed through IBD Social Circle entitled, “The Power of Community in Inflammatory Bowel Disease: Coming Together to Reduce physical and psychosocial impacts” highlights key touchpoints of the patient and caregiver experience and shows the ripple effect of Inflammatory Bowel Disease and how complexity and intricacies of Crohn’s and ulcerative colitis reach far beyond the gut. IBD impacts our careers, our relationships, our identities, our mental and emotional health, and it often dictates how our life stories unfold.

This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s, I’ll walk you through the valuable insights from the white paper and show what the research uncovered when it comes to stigma, mental health, online communities, and more. You’ll hear heartfelt reactions from IBD patients and caregivers about the findings and hear what two leading gastroenterologists have to say about the research.

Leaning on the lifeline of community

Jessie Magaro was diagnosed with IBD when she was 15 years old. Her reaction to the white paper speaks volumes.

“I was almost in tears reading this research. When I was first diagnosed as a child, there was no readily accessible community to lean on. It was isolating, depressing, and incredibly lonely. But when my disease returned in adulthood after years of remission, I realized the world had changed,” she recalls. “Suddenly, there was visibility. People sharing their stories openly online, entire communities forming on social media. For the first time, I could connect with others who were like-minded and like-bodied, people who understood my fears, my choices, and my fight.”

That connection wasn’t just comforting; it was lifesaving. It became essential to Jessie’s mental health and gave her the strength to make the hard, necessary decisions about her body and her health that helped her survive.

The white paper digs deep into how and why patients and caregivers crave additional information and resources within the IBD community. According to the survey, “Nearly all people with IBD (95%) are looking for IBD information and resources beyond what their physician provides or discusses with them.” The survey found:

  • 42% of people with IBD have participated in online IBD support groups
  • 37% have engaged with social media forums or group chats on platforms like Facebook and Reddit
  • 28% have followed influencers who share their IBD journey on social media platforms.

Dr. Jami A. Kinnucan, MD, is an IBD specialist at the Mayo Clinic Florida. She says, “This research is profoundly impactful for the IBD community, as it highlights many of the challenges that patients experience but often do not share with friends, family, or even their healthcare team. It opens the door for important conversations within the IBD community and reinforces the need for clinicians to explore the broader effects of disease beyond physical symptoms.”

The pediatric caregiver perspective

Cindy Hancock’s daughter was diagnosed with Crohn’s at age eight, she tells me if there can be a “best” part of being an IBD caregiver, it is “absolutely the online community she’s been so grateful to find and learn from.”

As a result of how heavily her and her daughter have leaned on and benefited from the support of others who “get” the reality of life with IBD, Cindy was not surprised by the findings of this white paper that highlight the power of community.

“The courage to seek out a second opinion, and bring info shared by the second-opinion gastroenterologist to our established gastroenterologist? CHECK. Information about how to interpret iron blood work that helped me advocate for transformational care for my daughter, CHECK. Learning what intestinal ultrasound is, and why it presents an amazing opportunity for IBD care and joining forces with other patients to informally advocate for its increased usage in the U.S., CHECK. Anecdotes about drug interactions via lived experiences of other people with IBD, CHECK. Recommendations about favorite heating pads, CHECK. Learning from another Crohnie that gummy bears who aren’t red or purple are part of a colonoscopy prep diet, CHECK!! I could go on and on all day!” says Cindy.

She feels fortunate that her daughter has a good team of physicians, and they always seek their opinions first of course. But Cindy feels the tidbits they’ve gleaned from the IBD community online are what have transformed her daughter’s quality of life with Crohn’s. “The impact is incalculable.”

Cindy credits patient advocates for helping guide healthcare decisions, saying “the IBD community is akin to a warm blanket. We very rarely interact with people in the “real” world who live with IBD, but every day we get to interact virtually with people just like us who understand this life… and that sense of community is priceless.”

Bridget Brown’s daughter was diagnosed with Crohn’s two years ago when she was eight. She says, “Humans are built for connection—but when you’re handed a diagnosis that isn’t widely understood, it can feel incredibly isolating. Most families reach an IBD diagnosis after some really dark, confusing months and years. The IBD community brings the light back in.”

She says as a parent, hearing other people’s stories and experiences is everything.

“I don’t know what it feels like to live inside my daughter’s body, but the insight gathered from the online IBD community helps me support her better. There’s real strength in shared stories, and there is nothing more valuable than being heard from someone who truly gets it.”

Dr. Hilary Michel, MD is a pediatric gastroenterologist at Nationwide Children’s Hospital in Ohio. She says in reading this white paper she could not help but think about how the concepts also apply to children and adolescents with IBD.

“In addition to physical symptoms, youth with IBD are also at increased risk for anxiety and depression and school absenteeism. In a period of life characterized by marked changes in development, independence, and relationships, the diagnosis of a chronic disease like IBD can be incredibly impactful,” says Dr. Michel. “Access to the IBD community for education and support is likely to be equally as important to young people with IBD and already exists in formats including in person and online groups, advocacy efforts, and camps, such as Camp Oasis. Just knowing they are not alone with IBD is so powerful. Additional attention should be paid to privacy and safety concerns when developing interventions for young people.”

Dr. Michel also feels support for parents and caregivers of youth with IBD is essential.

“Parents are at risk for missed work themselves and experience immense guilt and stress related to caring for their child. Connecting with other parents who have “been there,” sharing tips and tricks to navigate their journey, or simply having a listening ear can go so far in allowing parents to feel supported.”

The Power of the IBD Social Circle: A Veteran’s Perspective 

Suzy Burnett is an IBD mom of three and blogger at Crohnie Mommy was diagnosed with Crohn’s in 2008. She says when the white paper was published, she read, and re-read, the IBD Social Circle’s latest report.

“The first reading left me stunned by the raw reality encapsulated in the statistics. The second reading became a series of nods: “Yes, that’s me,” I found myself thinking with every single finding. I found the white paper to be fascinating, maddening, raw, and often heartbreaking. Mostly, because I have personally walked down, or known someone in the IBD community who has walked down, every single path described. Simply put, this report is SPOT ON.”

Suzy says her own patient experience deeply resonated with the segment that focused on the critical role our community plays in every aspect of life with IBD: from the shock of diagnosis and the struggle with relationships to the relentless search for answers and navigating new medications.

The Birth of a Community

“When I was first diagnosed, Crohn’s disease was relatively unknown. The internet was not the wealth of knowledge it is today,” explains Suzy. “I was handed a packet of paper, told there was no cure, and left to grapple with denial, depression, and severe flares for years.”

As Suzy grappled with her disease and the years ticked on by, she felt as though the IBD community was born.

“Or we all simply started emerging from the woodwork, bloggers, patient advocates, and a growing number of patients sharing their stories. It felt as if we made an invisible pact: to stick together, stay strong, and fight for each other. It felt like a window of hope opened: I found others. Others like me.””

Suzy says the research done in this report should be shared with every newly diagnosed patient and every “old veteran”.

“We are IBD warriors, and this white paper embodies that truth to the core. It is an invaluable resource for all who suffer from IBD, as well as for the caregivers and family members who stand by their side.”

Recognizing the importance of treating the whole self

Katie Connelly has lived with Crohn’s disease for more than 20 years. She says hearing that patients are afraid to share their emotional burdens with their HCPs is defeating and eye-opening.

“As someone who is lucky enough to have one of those GI specialists who sees me as a whole person, it is imperative that I let her know how I am feeling about my quality of life. It helps her gauge where I am both physically and emotionally with the treatments I am on,” she shares. “With the mind/gut connection being such a real thing, it needs to be instilled in every HCP’s practice to inquire on how their patients feel in life. The responsibility cannot always fall to the patient to disclose everything.” 

As a woman living with perianal fistulizing Crohn’s disease, Katie knows firsthand how isolating and complicated the patient journey can be. She credits the patient community for helping her cope and get educated about the questions she has had about intimacy and sexual dysfunction.

“I have had fistula for six years now and have both dated and ended up married while living with them. It has been far from easy, and there is a lack of understanding and communication around it. I hope to start bringing up my own sexual experiences and helpful tips through my own community, Badass with a Bad Ass in hopes to help lower those numbers. I just want us all to feel less isolated in this.”

Being wary of misinformation shared online and in person

Kelly Dwyer says she’s benefited from both in person and online IBD communities over the many, many years of living with her disease. While she’s grateful for community support, she believes misinformation is one of the greatest threats to IBD patients.

“When I attended my first support group after I was diagnosed, I found a community of people who were anti-biologic and unsupportive of many questions I had about treatments and medical care for IBDers. I was so dismayed to see that they were the only in-person support community in one of the US’s largest metropolitan areas, and promoting non-science backed theories of IBD care,” recalls Kelly. “Commitment to strict content moderation and upholding science-backed information is one of the reasons that support communities affiliated with national IBD organizations are an essential part of IBD care and connection.”

While she agrees the online community is beneficial, she also wants patients and caregivers to always have their guard up and be aware of the misinformation and opportunists who go after vulnerable IBDers by attempting to spread fake cures and push “snake-oil” treatment to a make a quick buck.

“As with many chronic illness communities, the newly diagnosed are uniquely susceptible to bad actors because of the desperation and grief that comes with being diagnosed with this incurable, devastating disease,” says Kelly.

While she believes many patient advocates seek to promote accurate and data-driven information, such as advocates like Tina Aswani-Omprakash and Brooke Abbott Abron who are cited in this study, Kelly wants to warn others that just as many others are publicly sharing their support for dangerous treatments, unregulated supplements, and potentially harmful lifestyle and diet choices.

“National organizations, physicians, patient advocates, and support communities like IBD Social Circle are doing their best to create easily accessible, data-driven, and science-backed resources for education for IBDers at all levels of managing their disease, and from diverse cultural and racial backgrounds. Making sure these resources speak loudly and spread far online will be a vital step to combatting the harms of misinformation. We all need to do as much as we can to educate and inoculate fellow IBDers against the dangers of anti-science rhetoric,” advises Kelly.

The financial trade-off and workplace woes with IBD

Ian Goldstein has lived with Crohn’s since 16 years old. The white paper’s discussion on disclosing diagnosis in the workplace and requesting accommodations hit home for him.

“I was fearful of mentioning my disease on job interviews and at work because I did not know if my co-workers would view me differently, if they would think I was less equipped for my role or more expendable. For a long time, I had to get weekly iron infusions, and I don’t know if my employer didn’t like that I worked remotely because of this, says Ian.

The white paper highlights a 2024 survey from the Crohn’s & Colitis Foundation that found more than 40% of people with IBD have made significant financial trade-offs to afford their healthcare, including giving up vacations or major household purchases, increasing credit card debt, and cutting back on essential items such as food, clothing, and basic household items.

“YES! 1000% YES. If I ever take a vacation, it is a weekend trip upstate because I need to make sure I have money set aside to afford my one thousand dollar a month health insurance premium in addition to the deductible and copay costs. If healthcare didn’t cost so much, my life would look quite different,” says Ian.

Everything from career impact to diet resonated with Ian. The focus in the research on foods and beverages that are staples for most but may be on the list of foods people with IBD should avoid (such as fried or greasy foods, spicy foods, sugar-sweetened drinks, and whole-fat dairy). Ian believes it’s important that people understand that it is not just the “unhealthy” or “junk” foods that can exacerbate symptoms.

“For 10 years I avoided vegetables and nuts completely because they put me at risk of having a bowel obstruction. The same foods that would make me healthy could also send me to hospital,” explains Ian.

Falling back on community for overall well-being and treatment decisions

The white paper highlights that, through IBD community engagement and support, patients have reported positive impacts on:

Physical well-being and treatment decisions

  • 39% reported that it has helped them identify ways to make improvements in their physical health and well-being
  • 39% learned how to improve their ability to communicate with their HCPs
  • 39% became more informed about IBD treatment options, including different treatment options they did not know about before
  • 32% learned how to better advocate for themselves with their HCPs

Ian couldn’t agree more, “Community has been a game changer for me. Because of two friends I met from social media, I learned about an amazing surgeon in New York who did an outstanding job with me in 2025, and I haven’t felt this good in years.”

He puts on comedy shows in New York centered around healthcare and because of one show called, “The Autoimmune Saloon,” Ian crossed paths with an audience member who mentioned Intestinal Ultrasound. “No doctor had ever mentioned it to me, but this random audience member did. Because of her, I’m able to get this test, which is much less invasive and informative when it comes to my Crohn’s. This is how community makes an impact: we teach others what we know, things that doctors may never think to tell us.”

Facing the music and fighting the stigma across all races and cultures

According to the white paper, up to 84% of adults with IBD feel that there is perceived disease-related stigma against them, which results in social stereotypes making them seem unreliable or antisocial.

IBD has historically affected White populations at a higher prevalence than other groups; however, the research shows the incidence of IBD is increasing in all races and ethnicities across the US, including in people who are Black, Hispanic, Latino, and East or Southeast Asian. Research also suggests that Black, Asian, and Hispanic individuals with IBD may have a higher incidence of more severe disease.

Kimberly Hooks says, as a Black woman living with IBD, she knows exactly what it feels like to be dismissed, overlooked, and told that her symptoms didn’t fit the picture.

“I was diagnosed late, and even after that, there were delays in getting the medication I truly needed for my severe Ulcerative Colitis. That delay cost me my colon. My story isn’t unique; it reflects what so many Black and Brown patients experience when our pain is minimized or our symptoms aren’t taken seriously,” Kimberly shares. “That’s why this research matters so much. It confirms what we’ve been living. IBD does not discriminate, and our communities are being affected at rapidly increasing rates. This is why I advocate, because visibility saves lives, and every person deserves to be heard, believed, and treated with quality care.”

Kimberly went on to say how incredibly grateful she is for the IBD Social Circle creating a safe space for patient voices and grounding this work in real lived experiences.

“Partnering with advocates to highlight our real stories and pairing those stories with research exploring the physical and psychosocial factors impacting patient care is powerful. It shows the benefits of community and how connection can support people with IBD in every part of their disease management. This kind of work gives me hope. When patients and community come together, we don’t just raise awareness, we help shape a better, more equitable future for everyone living with IBD,” she says.

Acknowledging the struggles IBD can present in motherhood and beyond

As a patient leader and an IBD mom of two small kids, Michelle Pickens appreciates the white paper for a multitude of reasons, especially the notion that we can appear “fine” even while we’re struggling. She also valued the discussion around the wide range of symptoms patients face and how this variability can delay diagnosis and access to support.

“That “in-between” period—when someone is sick but unsure where they fit or where to turn—is incredibly challenging. You experience symptoms consistent with IBD, yet you don’t quite feel part of that community without a formal diagnosis,” Michelle explains.

The section of the white paper on remission really resonated with Michelle. There is often an expectation that once you begin treatment, you will immediately feel better, but that is not always the case. She says it’s important to acknowledge the need for community support when clinical measures indicate remission, but physical symptoms persist.

“I was glad to see the impact on the family unit addressed, especially in areas such as domestic responsibilities and parenting. These are areas where I personally struggle at times. In the workplace, accommodations can be requested to help manage IBD symptoms, but parenting offers no such structure,” Michelle shares. “As a mother, it can be difficult to find someone who can step in and keep things running the way you would, so the responsibilities often fall back on you, even when you’re unwell. This contributes to significant “mom guilt,” and while mom communities exist, the parenting experiences of those without chronic illness differ greatly from my own.”

Addressing mental health struggles

The white paper reveals that more than half (52%) of people with IBD consider the impact of IBD on their mental well-being as negative. Other research studies have shown that individuals also experience depression and anxiety—with as many as 40% and 30%, respectively, experiencing these comorbidities, even while in remission.

The body image issues that stem from IBD such as weight loss, hair loss, steroid-related weight gain, ostomy bags, fistula, and other extraintestinal manifestations make life feel like a minefield. We are constantly up against the unpredictable nature of living with a disease that can rear its ugly head at any given moment. We are constantly forced to pivot and make decisions that often have a direct impact on our overall body image. I remember when I was in college (prior to my Crohn’s diagnosis) that I loved being on camera, working in TV news. Fast forward to five months post-graduation and three months post-diagnosis, and I was mortified anytime anyone tried to take a picture of me. Looking in a mirror was a stark reminder of what I was now and what I used to be.

These photos were taken 3 months apart. Pre-diagnosis and while on 22 pills a day.

Please know that if you struggle with this, you are not alone. As the white paper notes, “as many as 75% of women and 50% of men experience body image issues because of their IBD.”

Final thoughts

This white paper is a gift to the IBD community. As someone who was diagnosed with Crohn’s in 2005, I would have given anything to have a resource like this at my fingertips to validate my struggles and recognize my fears. We are at a pivotal point in patient advocacy and leadership where we can help shape the future of what it means to live with IBD and thrive despite the dark days.

Dr. Matthew Ciorba, MD, a gastroenterologist at Wash U in St. Louis says, “This work offers patient-identified, doctor-approved insight. It brings together perspectives that clinicians alone often cannot fully grasp. The document fills a unique niche in the IBD space. It bridges the lived experience of patients with the expertise of leading clinician advocates. There is truly nothing else quite like it.”

Our community, everyone from patients to caregivers, and medical providers, is so unique. For many of us, these connections and friendships (whether online or in person) have helped us to reclaim a sense of purpose within our disease journeys. My hope is that medical providers and GI psychologists use this research to empower and educate the community by providing this incredible research to patients and caregivers.

Check out the Executive Summary of the White Paper

For Patient/Caregivers

For HCPs