There’s breaking news in the IBD community—and I can’t wait to share it with you! I’m thrilled to announce the launch of a groundbreaking new website dedicated to empowering women with Inflammatory Bowel Disease (IBD) by providing them with the critical information they need about family planning, pregnancy, and postpartum. This resource is a direct follow-up from the recent Global Consensus Conference on IBD and Pregnancy, which brought together a world-renowned group of scholars, physicians, and patient advocates from around the globe to review all available science, share information, experiences, and insights in the hopes of offering helpful recommendations designed specifically for women with IBD.
This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s a look at the website which launched today (March 4, 2025) and what this means for the patient community, along with sentiments from the one and only Dr. Uma Mahadevan.
Empowering Women with Accurate, Consistent Information
Women with IBD often struggle with overwhelming misinformation and confusion when it comes to family planning and pregnancy. I can speak from firsthand experience as an IBD mom of three kids ages 7 and under. Up until recently, there have been a great deal of gray areas that make family planning extra stressful for those with Crohn’s disease or ulcerative colitis.
From varying recommendations by different healthcare providers to conflicting advice from different countries, the lack of a consistent message leaves many women uncertain and fearful about the health of both themselves and their pregnancies.
Dr. Uma Mahadevan, the Chair of the Global Consensus Conference and the primary investigator of the Pregnancy in IBD and Neonatal Outcomes (PIANO) study, highlights this issue, “Women with IBD suffer from so much misinformation and fear. Recommendations vary from provider to provider and country to country. That is why the Global Consensus brought together GI’s, teratologists, pharmacists, surgeons, etc., from around the world to come up with one guidance document for all patients to have a consistent message.”
The new website, which is translated in six different languages, aims to deliver just that—a unified, trusted source of guidance for women with IBD. With contributions from a multidisciplinary team of experts, the website consolidates the latest, evidence-based advice to help women navigate their pregnancy journey with confidence.
As the Patient Ambassador for the United States, I had a chance to see the work that went into this remarkable resource, and I must admit seeing the site brought tears to my eyes. I can’t tell you how fortunate we are to have this information and scientific research available. Our community has needed this for so many years—and now, the patient experience of navigating pregnancy with IBD will be transformed in the best way.
Visited the FDA with Dr. Mahadevan in July 2024 to share the latest guidance from the Global Consensus Conference.
Addressing the Fear of Stopping Medications
One of the most significant concerns among women with IBD during pregnancy is the fear of medication use. Dr. Mahadevan points out that the absence of consistent advice can lead to a dangerous default, “When there is no consistent message, often the fear default is to stop the meds, which can be harmful to the pregnancy – both mother and child.”
The website’s primary goal is to ensure that women understand the importance of continuing essential medications where necessary and how to work with their healthcare providers to safely manage their IBD during pregnancy. The risks of stopping treatment without proper guidance can negatively impact both the mother’s health and the health of the baby, so providing accurate, clear information is crucial.
As a woman on Humira since 2008, I remember how scared I felt about continuing my medication throughout my pregnancies, but I trusted my medical providers (gastroenterologist, maternal fetal medicine, and OB) and had flawless, symptom-free pregnancies because my disease was so well managed. Yes, it’s emotional when you’re 35 weeks pregnant and feel the baby kick as you’re about to inject medication into your body, but I always told myself that by keeping myself healthy, I was protecting my babies. I also found great comfort in participating in the PIANO study with my youngest and MotherToBaby pregnancy studies with my other two children.
Providing Confidence and Joy for Women
Dr. Mahadevan hopes this website and these materials will give women the confidence to move forward with their pregnancy with joy, not fear, and the strength to resist the misinformation.
The resources on the website are designed to reassure women that pregnancy with IBD is possible, and they can be proactive in ensuring their health and the health of their baby. With expert advice, personalized care options, and up-to-date research, the website offers a beacon of support for women navigating this journey.
What Inspires Dr. Mahadevan’s Work in IBD and Family Planning?
Dr. Mahadevan’s dedication to research in IBD and family planning is rooted in both her professional expertise and personal experience. As a leader in this field, she is driven by the desire to make a tangible difference in the lives of women facing IBD-related challenges. “The science around pregnancy is fascinating, and there are always so many new questions to study. However, the most important thing is that I personally know how hard it is to have a family, and I want to do what I can to help other women complete their families, as there is no greater joy!”
Her compassion and commitment to helping women with IBD fulfill their family dreams are at the heart of this new platform, which seeks to bring scientific clarity and emotional support to those who need it most.
A Call to Action for Women with IBD
The launch of this website marks a major step forward in supporting women with IBD who are considering family planning or navigating pregnancy. It is a space where women can find reliable information, connect with healthcare professionals, and feel empowered to make informed decisions that prioritize both their well-being and the well-being of their future children.
If you or someone you know is living with IBD and considering pregnancy, this website is a must-visit. Please help me in spreading the word so patients across the world are aware of the information available right at our fingertips. Together, we can break down the barriers of fear and misinformation, helping women move forward with confidence, joy, and support.
Visit pianostudy.org/GCC_video/ today to access the resources, expert advice, and community support you need to make informed decisions about your pregnancy with IBD.
Be a Part of PIANO
The PIANO Study is a powerful opportunity for women to get involved in this groundbreaking research that could help shape the future of healthcare for women living with IBD. By participating in this study, you can make a direct impact on understanding the unique experiences and challenges that women with IBD face.
Being part of this research gives you a voice in advancing medical science and contributing to discoveries that could improve the lives of countless women in the future. This is your chance to be a part of something bigger than yourself, to make a difference for others who share your experiences, and to support the next generation of women living with IBD. Together, we can pave the way for a healthier, more informed future. I’m so grateful that my youngest child is a part of PIANO and that we’re contributing to the amazing research that is going on.
Many women with Crohn’s disease or ulcerative colitis are diagnosed during peak childbearing years. Despite ongoing advances and strides in research, many questions remain about female fertility as it relates to IBD. This inspired Dr. Marla Dubinsky, MD and Dr. Zoë Gottlieb, MD at Mount Sinai Hospital in New York and Dr.Eugenia Shmidt, MD at the University of Minnesota to create The Women with Inflammatory Bowel Disease and Motherhood (WIsDoM) study. Since launching at Mount Sinai and the University of Minnesota in 2023 about 170 women with IBD have participated, and thanks to a generous grant from the Helmsley Charitable Trust, WIsDoM will continue to enroll participants until the end of August 2025. The goal—to enroll about 500 women across the United States and Canada by the end of next summer.
This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s we hear from these leading trailblazers in the IBD field to learn more about their aspirations for this monumental research study and how you can get involved.
The inspiration behind WIsDoM
Dr. Dubinsky and Dr. Gottlieb tell me they care for hundreds of women with IBD who are considering pregnancy, including those with a history of IBD-related surgeries.
“These women, along with their partners and families, often ask how their IBD or surgical history might affect fertility. Unfortunately, the available research on this topic is limited. Much of it comes from retrospective surveys or large database studies, which fail to give us a complete picture,” says Dr. Dubinsky. “Additionally, most of the existing data focuses on women who’ve had open J-pouch surgery for ulcerative colitis; given that many IBD surgeries, including J-pouches, are now done laparoscopically, this information is often not relevant to our current patients.”
They recognized the need for more comprehensive, up-to-date data to help answer these important questions to allow them to provide the best possible guidance for family planning to their IBD patients.
“Unlike previous research, WIsDoM gathers detailed, long-term data, allowing us to better understand the impact of IBD on reproductive health and identify potential risk factors impacting fertility in this population,” Dr. Dubinsky explains.
Main questions about female fertility and IBD that remain
We currently have limited information on how most IBD surgeries, other than open J-pouch surgery, may affect female fertility.
“Many of our patients with IBD have undergone other types of surgery, such as subtotal colectomy or small bowel resection, but we don’t yet know how these procedures might impact fertility. In addition, there is very little data on how other factors—such as the type of IBD, medications, the length of time someone has had the disease, other health conditions, family history, or sexual health—could influence fertility. Our goal is to give women a thorough understanding of how their IBD, along with their overall medical, social, and reproductive histories, might affect their ability to become pregnant,” Dr. Gottlieb says.
Who can participate in the WIsDoM study?
You must be:
A woman with IBD
Aged 18 to 45 years old
Planning to become pregnant in the next 15 months
Able to consent to participation
Live in the United States or Canada
Click here to hear from Dr. Dubinsky and Dr. Gottlieb firsthand.
What does participation involve?
When women join the study, they will be asked to complete an initial questionnaire that covers their IBD, surgical, medical, reproductive, sexual, and social histories. This will be the longest form you need to fill out and may take about 15 to 30 minutes, depending on your individual experiences. After completing the form, participants will receive a $50 gift card. You will also be asked to help obtain some of their medical records so additional information can be gathered about your health history.
“Once they are enrolled, participants will receive a survey each month. In this survey, they’ll be asked whether they’ve tried to conceive, whether they became pregnant, and if there have been any changes in their IBD, surgical, or reproductive health since the last survey,” says Dr. Gottlieb. “They’ll also be asked to describe their IBD symptoms, including whether they’re experiencing a flare-up or if their condition is well controlled. Participants will continue to receive these surveys monthly until they reach 12 weeks of pregnancy or until the study ends in July 2027, unless they choose to opt out.”
When the study ends (either at 12 weeks of pregnancy or the study’s conclusion), participants will receive an additional $50 gift card. If you become pregnant and experience a pregnancy loss, or if you become pregnant, have a baby, and wish to try for another pregnancy during the study period, you can re-enroll and continue participating.
Being proactive with family planning
When women and their families have a clear understanding of how their IBD, surgical, and medical histories may affect fertility—based on comprehensive, real-world data—they can make informed decisions about seeking fertility help sooner.
“This early guidance can help them get the support they need during the family planning process and avoid unnecessary delays in trying to conceive naturally if it seems unlikely to be successful. At the same time, it will also allow us to reassure some women that their fertility is likely to be similar to that of women in the general population, helping them avoid the financial burden of fertility treatments until they truly need them,” says Dr. Dubinsky.
Final thoughts
Through WIsDoM, we have a unique opportunity to make a meaningful difference in how women with IBD receive guidance about pregnancy and family planning. By gathering important data over time and using this to predict a patient’s risk of reduced- or infertility, medical providers can offer early support, including information on how surgery might affect fertility before a patient undergoes an operation.
“We hope that our findings will help change how healthcare providers support women with IBD when it comes to fertility, especially in terms of knowing when to refer patients to a fertility specialist. Currently, there are few clear guidelines on when to make these referrals, and we believe that, too often, we wait too long to offer women the support they need to conceive,” says Dr. Gottlieb. “This delay can impact their family planning and create unnecessary emotional and financial stress. Our goal is to use the data we gather to develop a risk calculator that will help us assess each patient’s individual risk for fertility issues, allowing us to refer them to the right resources earlier and give them the best chance to become pregnant successfully.”
Every patient deserves the most accurate and evidence-based information to make informed decisions about their family planning, and the hope is that WIsDoM will provide this valuable insight for women with IBD. As an IBD mom of three following bowel resection surgery, knowing that research like this is underway for current and future families does my heart good. By participating in IBD studies like WIsDoM, you help paint a clearer picture for how patients and families can be most supported during family planning and beyond.
Interested in learning more about WIsDoM and getting involved:
If you’re a young girl or woman diagnosed with a chronic illness, prior or during your “childbearing” years, chances are you or your parents may wonder what this means for your future family. When I was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease at age 21 in 2005, the thought of settling down and having kids was not on the radar but ever since I was a little girl I always aspired to be a mom. Fast forward to 2008, I was hospitalized for an abscess and taken off Mesalamine and put on a biologic injection (Humira). I can still picture the discussion with my GI. My mom sitting on the couch alongside the hospital window, looking at me wide-eyed, and us wondering if I’d ever be able to have children on my new medication. A medication I was told I’d be on for the rest of my life. I was 24. Back then there was nowhere near the research or guidance available like we have today.
August 2008-One month after starting Humira and on heavy duty steroids.
It was the first time I really began to question and worry about whether I’d physically be able to be a mom. As the flare ups, ER visits, hospitalizations, and tests persisted for years, I honestly didn’t have the energy to think about what my life would look like down the road, I only had the energy to focus on what was going on in that moment. I was not a patient advocate and looking back I was a bit naïve and uneducated about what it meant to have not reached remission.
When I met my husband in 2013, little did we know that for the next two years I would be at my sickest. What we did know—is that we both wanted kids one day. After my third bowel obstruction hospitalization in 15 months, I needed bowel resection surgery in August 2015, which FINALLY put me into surgical remission. Ironically, I was engaged to be married. Babies were on the brain. Since I lived a decade without remission, we knew we were going to have to try for a baby as soon as we got married, as remission can be fleeting. At 32 years old, I didn’t want to take any chances.
A lot has happened since we got married. We got pregnant a month after getting married. Lost our second baby around 7 weeks. And then had our rainbow baby in 2019 and our caboose of the family in 2021. If you’ve followed my advocacy and blog, you know I’m passionate about showing all that’s possible despite your IBD. I know each of our journeys is incredibly intricate and unique, each of us deals with our own set of challenges. But I also know that my younger self would have benefited immensely from seeing and hearing fellow women who’ve been there and done it and have families to show for it despite their chronic illness.
This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s we hear from several IBD moms—with kids ranging from newborn age to now adults—who offer amazing perspective that I hope will make you feel comfort in what the future could hold for you.
What IBD moms want you to know
Jennifer: “It’s 100000000 percent worth it! And be honest with your kids and spouse about how you are feeling and what you are going through. Of course, make it age appropriate, but they need to know the struggle.”
Liz: “Your kids will learn their limits and love on you when you need rest. It’s ok to go slow. Even if you flare after birth, you will come out of it.”
Amber: “I would tell a younger me that my body WAS capable of carrying and delivering healthy BIG (lol) babies. After struggling with fertility and then conceiving twins and carrying them full-term, I realized my body hadn’t failed me (how I think so many of us with IBD feel. Motherhood is possible for us and thank you Natalie for reminding us of that.”
“Find your people and be honest with them about how you are doing. Don’t ever feel bad asking for help. It truly takes a village to help.”
Brooke: “One day, you will be better. One day, you will coach little league and make the playoffs. One day, you will work on Capitol Hill. One day, you will live in another country. One day, you will be the best mom and you will thrive through IBD. You’re almost there!”
Jaime: “I would tell my younger self that fertility is not something you take for granted especially with a chronic inflammatory disease that can leave you prone to developing scar tissue. I’d also tell her that IBD may make life hard for awhile but with the right doctors, life will improve and the family you dreamed of having will happen.”
Jessica: “Motherhood is hard. It’s ever harder when you have an illness. It’s ok to rest when needed without feeling guilty.”
Kaitlyn: “Your kiddos are more resilient and adaptable than you think they are. I had a major flare about 7 months after my son was born. I put off being admitted to the hospital for weeks because I was so scared and felt guilty for leaving my baby and thinking he would feel abandoned without any way to explain to him that I was gone. He ended up having a blast with my husband for a week and I finally was able to achieve some sense of relief (slowly coming out of that flare, but there is a light at the end of the tunnel). Also, you’re not a bad mom for not being able to do the things you think you should be able to do (Spoiler Alert: Your baby doesn’t know other moms take their babies on long walks around the park and don’t have to drag you into every public bathroom you pass while running errands).”
Patti: “You only get one chance to raise your babies, so don’t sweat the small stuff. And frequently remind yourself (on the roughest days) that you really ARE doing the absolute best you can…and that is OKAY.”
Alyssa: “Sometimes you’ll be holding your baby on the toilet, but you’ll be okay, and your baby will be okay. The road will be tough, but so worth it. Some days the kids will watch more TV than you want, but you must take care of yourself too so you can be present for them. They’re resilient and will love you no matter what.”
Ally: “Rest when you can! Your body will most likely go into remission once pregnant so not need to get scared or nervous about it.”
Liv: “Make yourself and your health a priority. I went into a huge flare after having my first baby because I was SO focused on her and not eating properly or showering or taking care of me. Meal prep to make the mental load of eating easier! And ask for help!”
Patra: “Don’t be so hard on yourself when you feel the need to rest.”
Phoebe: “I would tell her to follow Natalie Hayden’s blog and IG account (haha)…seriously though, when I see you and other people share about their pregnancies and family life, it gave me hope to have my child. I would also tell my younger self it’s ok if you’re a mom with chronic illness! My younger self assumed I had to have a perfectly healthy body to have babies and raise babies.”
“Take care of yourself, even if it means asking your loved ones to look for signs of your anxiety and exhaustion that you may just be trying to push through or ignore.”
Jenni: “I would tell myself not to be so hard on myself. I would say don’t take on all the sick mom guilt. To let them watch movies and eat cereal without stressing about it when I wasn’t feeling well. I would also say…you don’t have to pretend to be brave all the time. It’s ok for them to see you cry or feel frustrated or be sick. They can handle it, and it is creating such strong, caring, empathetic humans!”
Courtney: “I would tell my younger self that I am enough for my kids and that they will be better people because of what they learn and see.”
Mallory: “Your children are strong, and they understand that it’s not your fault.”
Meg: “You did the right thing by staying on your meds through pregnancy and your baby is perfect.”
Kelly: “You are enough. Don’t feel like you’re not able to be as great of a mom as a healthy mom is.”
Ryann: “All you need is love. While I’m sure my son loves the active days when we’re doing lots of activities, he’ll be fine on the days that I’m laying down on the couch as long as I show him love.”
Rachel: “You’re stronger than you know, and everything will work out no matter what happens.”
Amanda: “Not to let fear of the “whatifs” cripple you.”
Brenda: “You will do great and be sure to find a selfless hands-on partner.”
Kristin: “Give yourself some grace. I didn’t get diagnosed or have any Crohn’s issues until my son was 15 months old. The symptoms came on like wildfire and it took a village to help until I figured it all out.”
Anna: “I want to jump in this convo as a 50 year old who wanted to be a mom, but due to the severity of my disease (diagnosed at 18), was told at 29 to have children by 35 due to being high risk and at 34, I was told not to carry due to complications and unfortunately adoption was not in my future as a single woman with severe illness no another option (freezing eggs, etc.) at that point in time. I feel like that is the MAIN thing Crohn’s stole from me! After many years of therapy, I cope with it very well now; however, I still from time to time mourn not being able to have children that aren’t four-legged…#dogmama!”
Courtney: “I would tell my younger self not to worry about having to use the bathroom urgently so much and that you’ll be carrying around diapers, wipes, and a little potty in your car for years. Your kids will also be able to relate to having accidents. I would all tell her that fertility declines a lot faster for people with chronic inflammation and to get your AMH levels checked early. Or think about freezing embryos if you want a big family in your mid to late thirties. Lastly, that breastfeeding won’t stop your kid from having IBD, so don’t worry about giving them formula.”
Ashley: “So, one time I posted on Reddit about how I have ulcerative colitis and didn’t know if I should have kids…I got a lot of responses. I got 56 that told me not to do it. How they were miserable. Or how their mom had it and they suffered as a kid. It was honestly traumatizing. And int that moment, I made the decision not to have kids.”
Tricia: “There will be some really tough days with your illness, and trying to take care of your kids, but you’ll get through this, and better days are ahead.”
Shannon: “Nap when the baby naps is legit. But also, when the baby is 12, you’re still going to need to take a nap. And that’s okay. It doesn’t make you less than because your body requires rest and reset. It is productive to take a nap if it’s necessary.”
Chanel: “That this chronic illness has a direct effect on pregnancy. Having this disease since 7 years old, no doctors ever thought it would be helpful to mention how important being in remission was before getting pregnant or trying for a baby until I was 26 years old and happened to nonchalantly mention to my doctor at the time that we were going to start trying.”
Jennifer: “Don’t worry! You will be blessed with two beautiful children and IBD will not define who you are and will not hold you back from anything!”
Stephanie: “Be easy on yourself and don’t put high expectations on yourself. It will all be worth it. Take it a day at a time and do what you need to do to feel better. Your kids will learn and be more empathetic and compassionate people for it.”
Bhavna: “It’s going to be hard. More emotionally than physically. You will even doubt whether you should have kids for fear of passing it on. I know eventually I did. My daughter now has an autoimmune condition. But despite all of this, you will make it through. Stronger. Resilient. Sometimes a tad sadder.”
Rosanne: “Kids are more resilient than you think. Motherhood is worth having to potentially miss a few things because of a flare or a difficult day. Your kids will understand and be stronger because of it.”
Pie: “Mum guilt will chew you up on the days that you can’t get out of bed. It’s okay, your little one will grow up to be empathetic and understanding of others.”
Amy: “I was completely well for the 8 years I was pregnant and breastfeeding my three boys. Almost a year after finishing feeding my youngest, I immediately went into a massive flare and have not managed to recover yet (10 months now). I felt betrayed all over again by my body, just at the time when I needed it to be strong. I would tell her that the most important thing is that you’re well, so that you can be the best version of yourself. Children are beautiful, they will take you exactly as you. Try to follow their lead. You are enough. They will forget at times you were absent due to resting, appointments, etc. But they will remember how hard you fought for your health. My middle school boy now seems to be suffering with gastro issues and it’s essential to me that I show him that I have the disease, it does not have me (enough though some days that doesn’t quite work out).”
Megan: “Some days are hard, but you can do it! You will be shocked at how much compassion it gives your children. They understand “mommy doesn’t feel well” at such an early age and really want to help take care of us. Vivi asks me daily, “Mommy, does your belly hurt today?” and says, “I’ll take care of you, Mommy.”
Kara: “Don’t forget to take care of you before it’s too late! You are doing your best and your children will only remember that later. My kids are 8 & 10 now, but when I was pregnant with my youngest, I went into a flare and refused to tell anyone or acknowledge it, thinking it would make me a bad/weak mom…so dumb right? By the time my youngest was 1, I was making an appointment for a temporary ileostomy bag. But my kids only remember the sweet stuff.”
Stephanie: “Simply, it’s possible! It was worried for so long that it wasn’t possible, especially once on a biologic and your Instagram page, Natalie, gave me so much hope! Now, less than 2 weeks from delivering my second baby (but my first pregnancy on a biologic).”
Marnie: “I would tell my kids your disease becomes part of your everyday routine, but it doesn’t define you.”
Crystal: “Make sure your baby learns to take a bottle in case you end up in the hospital with a flare.”
Leslie: “Don’t be scared to be on all the medication you need. You’ll get pregnant one day like you always dreamed.”
Keyla: “This journey will be hard but no matter what your little one becomes stronger through it with you.”
Christine: “Here I am celebrating my 47th birthday with my teenagers! One of the first questions I asked my doctor, according to my mom, was will I be able to have kids? That was when I was 23 years old. Here I am at 47, and they have seen me at my best, and unfortunately, my worst. They are truly the reason why I keep going and want to keep fighting at the worst of times.”
Amy: “Your journey might look different than others, but you can still have a family. Also, accept help when you need it.”
Robin: “My kiddos are 27 and 25 now and I was diagnosed when the 27-year-old was 2.5 and the 25-year-old was a baby. She turned one and took her first steps in the family visiting room at the hospital. So, I have the benefit of living with the fruits of my parenting labor. My IBD has taught me that life is precious. Each moment is precious. Because of this, I really tried to take advantage of life when I was feeling well. AND ALSO, I tended to push through when I wasn’t feeling well if something was important to my family, specifically my children. Your first instinct as a parent will be to protect your children from what you are going through – but it’s ok to be open about what you are experiencing in age-appropriate ways. There is no one perfect way to be a parent, much less be a parent with a chronic illness. Give yourself some GRACE.
If dads, or aunts, or family friends, or grandparents are jumping in to chauffeur your kiddos and/or take them to do fun things that you can’t do – IT STILL COUNTS! Your kids are still getting to do the thing. Your kiddos will benefit from having other adults they know and trust in their lives.
Parenting isn’t for the faint of heart. Connect with people that can share the burden. It’s ok to ask for help. I write this while remembering my mantra was “suck it up and figure it out” when they were little. Granted – I was a single parent for a lot of their young life, and I was fortunate to have a strong support system. Even with the support it was difficult to ask for help. SO, ASK FOR AND ACCEPT HELP.
I don’t know what kind of mom I would have been without IBD, but based on who my girls are now, I’m ok with the mom I was and am with IBD.”
Final Thoughts
Hearing this firsthand perspective from all these incredible IBD moms is so inspiring and comforting. It’s a reminder we are not alone in our struggles or our fears—and let’s face it, motherhood isn’t all sunshine and rainbows. But the beauty motherhood brings to our lives and the unbelievable love you feel for your children is the sunshine and the rainbows that makes it all worth it. When you’re an IBD mom, yes there’s a lot of internalized pain and worry. But there’s also so much motivation and joy found in looking into the eyes of your children and knowing that you are enough and will always be enough for them because you’re you.
There are times when their diapers and bathroom habits may set off alarm signals in your head. Don’t think I haven’t brought one of my kids to the ER because I was fearful, they had IBD…wasn’t that. There have been moments where I’ve been bent over making school lunches. There are times I’m on the couch with a heating pad during bedtime stories or in the bathroom mapping out my game plan of how life will go on if I’m hospitalized, and all the moving places I have to orchestrate if I’m out of commission. But SO much overshadows those moments.
As an IBD mom of three, my kids give me such purpose to celebrate each day and soak in each experience I’m blessed to share with them. They provide me with renewed faith in my body and all that I’m capable of. They remind me to laugh and not take life so seriously. When I’m in pain or going through prep for a scope or an uncomfortable procedure my thoughts float to their sweet faces and the incredible memories we’ve shared and it’s the best reprieve from my painful current reality.
When you’re a mom with chronic illness, sure the days can feel long and the years short…but you have a different level of gratitude for what may seem mundane to others. You will second guess yourself more than your children ever will. They are sponges, watching and soaking up their lived experience with you and without even doing anything you’re raising a children with innate empathy and compassion that you’ll see play out as they grow up—I’ve seen it for YEARS with my kids—and while I wish they weren’t the way they are because of my health, I also wouldn’t have it any other way. IBD is a family disease, it impacts way more than just the patient and know that if you choose to carry children, adopt children, or have babies through surrogacy, you are never a burden to your family. You are enough and always will be to your beautiful babies.
My family planning advice for you
My advice family planning
Have the discussion about your future 3-5 years out (if possible) so you can get a game plan in place. Something as simple as letting your provider know…”someday I hope to be a mom”…is sufficient. This sets the stage for what makes the most sense medication wise, targeting and tracking remission, planning scopes so you can get the ‘green light’ before conception, etc.
Do not try and conceive if you haven’t been in remission for at least 3-6 months. Sure, pregnancies are not always planned and can be a surprise but try not to get pregnant while you’re flaring or have active disease as that increases the likelihood of flaring during pregnancy and after delivery.
Once you find out you’re pregnant, alert your GI the same day as your OBGYN and get the ball rolling on finding a maternal fetal medicine (high risk OB) to be part of your care team.
Do not try and go rogue and go off all medications for pregnancy. Talk with your care team. Do the research so you can see firsthand about the safety and efficacy of most IBD meds in pregnancy and breastfeeding and be confident that by keeping yourself well and your disease controlled in pregnancy, you are helping you and your baby.
Check out the PIANO study and MotherToBaby research opportunities so you can help pave the way for future IBD moms and contribute to research. It’s so rewarding, and your voice and input makes a world of difference. My older two were part of MotherToBaby studies and my youngest is part of PIANO, he’s being “followed” until age 18!
Never hesitate to reach out to fellow women with IBD on social media who are moms and receive firsthand advice about their journey so you can feel a bit more at ease about yours.
If it’s happened to you, you know the feeling all too well. When I received a letter in the mail informing me that the biologic injection, I had been on for 16 years was no longer going to be covered, my stomach flipped, and my heart sank. When you live with a complicated disease like Crohn’s or ulcerative colitis and find a therapy that keeps your health in check and your IBD well-controlled, it’s extremely stressful and daunting to face the worry of being forced to switch your medication to a biosimilar or a different biologic all together.
Like many patients, I asked my gastroenterologist to appeal the forced medication switch. Even though I was almost positive we would be denied, I did not want to go down without a fight. As expected, within days of my GI’s appeal, we were told by insurance that Humira would no longer be covered and that I would need to choose a biosimilar or a different drug class all together moving forward.
I chose to go on the biosimilar Hyrimoz for many reasons—the first being that anti-TNF drugs have worked well for me for YEARS, by choosing to go off it and switch to a different drug class, I ran the risk of building up antibodies and possibly not responding as well to treatment. I also have a comfort level with self-injections and know how I have typically responded to anti-TNF medication in the past.
The emotions and heartache of having to say goodbye to a medication that carried me through for 16 years, allowed me to bring three healthy babies into this world, and stay out of the emergency room and hospital since becoming a mom 7.5 years ago tore me apart. I sobbed. I stressed. I was anxious.
Switching to a biosimilar—the emotional and physical toll
Much to my dismay, I started Hyrimoz in July 2024. The first eight days I felt the same and then my health began to crumble. I lasted four injections—and during that time I went from being in deep remission for years to needing pain medication to make it through elementary school PTO meetings and while coaching my kindergarten soccer team. I went from feeling well most of the time to running to the bathroom 15+ times a day and almost having accidents in public. I went from being able to eat whatever I wanted to worrying about how consuming anything was going to make me feel. I spent nights curled up in pain and days feeling bloated and on edge about whether every decision I made was going to make me unwell.
I knew something had to change. I refused to have my quality of life ripped from me without speaking up. I kept a detailed journal every single day since I started the biosimilar. I articulated my concerns to my care team repeatedly over the Patient Portal. We ran extra labs, I did a telehealth appointment, I spoke with GIs around the United States I have come to know and trust through my patient advocacy work. My care team told me that meeting in person for a clinic appointment or over telehealth would help build our case, as that carries more weight than just communicating over the Portal. Keep that in mind.
This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s I offer tips for building your case, writing your appeal letter, and making sure your voice is heard. Patients are constantly made to feel less than. It’s all about the profits and not about the patients. This needs to stop. Insurance companies and specialty pharmacies need to stop making our lives so damn difficult and start to recognize the havoc they cause by delaying treatment, blocking treatment options, and forcing us to change a medication that finally controls our disease. Living and managing chronic illness is a full-time job in this country. The hours and days wasted and spent on the phone dealing with all the red tape is an absolute nightmare, and unless you’ve experienced it, you have no clue the headaches it causes, the time suck it is, and how it puts the quality of our lives in jeopardy.
Keeping track of it all
When living with IBD, the bad days come and go and oftentimes we forget just how often or how horribly we feel because our “normal” is not normal. By journaling or writing in the Notes app on your phone anytime anything with your health is awry, this helps paint a clear picture for not only you, but your providers. If you can say, “On Tuesday, September 24th I went to the bathroom 10 times, I couldn’t eat, I had joint pain in my hands, and abdominal pain that required a heating pad”—this illustrates the complexity of your symptoms. Imagine having that type of intel for two months. These details help your appeal in a big way. My IBD Nurse told me that she believes my typed-out symptom journal made all the difference in winning our second appeal.
So, take notes and be as descriptive as possible. If you have a random headache and you’re not sure why, write it down. If you get new pain, you haven’t experienced before keep track of it. If you eat and must run right to the bathroom or start feeling pain jot it down.
Many of my symptoms I’ve dealt with since switching to the biosimilar feel exactly like a Crohn’s flare. After weeks of this, I started to freak out that I was losing my remission all because of a forced medication switch. A world-renowned GI took the time to call me as I was making dinner for my family one night to hear more about my situation. He did this out of the goodness of his heart to provide additional guidance and support. After hearing more about my situation, he believed it was my body having adverse side effects to the biosimilar rather than a Crohn’s flare, since my labs were checking out fine. Everything started to make sense. While he wasn’t sure our appeal would be granted, he listened and empathized with what I was going through.
Writing your own appeal letter
My IBD team recommended I also write a patient letter that they would include with their second appeal. I was happy to take the time to offer my voice and share what the experience of being on a biosimilar was like for me. At the same time, I had never written an appeal letter. Before I started I did my research on how to approach and craft the wording.
I made sure not to come off angry or accusatory. I kept the letter as professional as possible, while also explaining very clearly how horribly I was responding to the medication. I backed up my letter with science and attributed research that’s been done regarding biosimilars. I learned from research published in the Journal of Crohn’s and Colitis (2020) that while around 80% of patients have a seamless transition, 10-20% have a negative response. It’s important to note that just because you are switched to a biosimilar, does not mean your health will deteriorate. Many people thrive and don’t notice a difference, but the issue is—you don’t know how you are going to respond. I went into the transition with an open mind and as positive as possible, but the unknown looms over and it’s emotionally draining to constantly wonder if you are going to feel unwell because of the forced switch.
Tips for expressing yourself in the appeal letter
I will use Humira as an example since that was my experience, but this goes for any biologic/medication.
Start with basic information—your name, date of birth, insurance ID number, and the policy number.
Provide the name of the medication you’ve been switched from (in my case Humira) and the one you’ve been switched to (Hyrimoz).
Mention the date when the change was made.
Clearly state the purpose of the letter. For example, “”I am writing to formally appeal the decision to switch my Crohn’s treatment from Humira to Hyrimoz.”
Briefly provide an overview of your health history with IBD, diagnosis date, and the treatments you’ve tried, hospitalizations/surgeries. If you’ve been on the same treatment for years and it’s helped you, highlight how effective the therapy has been. Mention the stability you’ve achieved with Humira—humanize your story. For instance, “While on Humira I was able to work full-time, have three healthy pregnancies and babies, and be a mom without my health holding me back.”
Reference any previous experiences with other medications that may have failed you or caused side effects.
Emphasize the risk of switching medications after long-term success. For IBD patients, changing medications can result in loss of response, worsening of symptoms or disease progression, potential adverse reactions.
Have your gastroenterologist provide their own letter that emphasizes the risks of switching, the stability you’ve achieved, and their professional recommendation. They will reference any studies that are available and be able to provide medical records showing your history on the medication.
If applicable, reference and cite insurance company policies that include provisions for medical necessity, or any pre-authorization that was previously approved.
Emphasize the impact on your health and finances and highlight the potential cost to both your health and your insurance provider if switching leads to disease flare ups, complications, hospitalizations, or the need for additional screenings, scopes, or treatments.
Close with a strong, respectful request. End the letter with a clear statement, such as:
“For the reasons stated above, I respectfully request that you reconsider your decision and allow me to remain on Humira as prescribed by my doctor.”
I signed my letter:
My family deserves more and so do I.
Sincerely,
Natalie Hayden
Ironically, when I wrote my appeal letter I was dealing with horrible abdominal pain, lying in bed with a heating pad.
Finding out we won the appeal
Once my appeal letter and journal of symptoms were finalized, I sent them to my GI and IBD nurse over the Patient Portal. I was on pins and needles wondering what was going to come next. I sent over the materials on a Friday morning and the following Monday, I received word from my nurse over the Portal that the insurance denied the 2nd appeal because back in June when my GI submitted the first appeal, he deemed it “urgent”—in doing so, the insurance company considers those appeals “2nd level appeals”—if those are denied, they consider the case closed. Imagine that— “closing a case” before a patient has even started a different medication. Makes sense…right?! Can’t make this stuff up. When I heard this, I felt incredibly defeated.
My care team was unaware of that and asked for a clinician to review our materials—the insurance company agreed and said there would be a decision in 72 hours. That same night, while I was making dinner for my family, I received an email from CVS Specialty pharmacy saying my prior authorization for Humira had been approved. I couldn’t believe my eyes. I’ll never forget how it felt to see those words and read that email.
My kids all smiled and laughed and danced with me, no idea what was really going on. But the celebratory moment was so incredibly jubilant they were smiling ear to ear. These last two months they’ve witnessed me unwell way too many times. It’s a side of my Crohn’s I’m not sure they even knew existed prior to now.
This past Friday night the same abdominal pain I’ve been dealing with began as the kids got off the bus. I had to take a pain pill before an advocacy call that was ironically about How to Deal with Insurance—for an upcoming panel discussion at a medical conference I’m speaking at in December. After my call and rushing through a makeshift meal, I took all three of my kids to my son’s soccer practice and told my friends on the sidelines how sick I felt. I came home and had to take another pain pill, had difficulty with the bedtime routine, and laid on the couch with a heating pad. But it helped to know these shitty days will hopefully be ending.
Looking to the future
This blog article is coming out the same day as I go back on Humira after winning my insurance appeal. While it’s a big win for me, it’s a small win for our community because at the end of the day an incomprehensible number of people are forced off their medications or denied off-label dosing, all so insurance companies see a better bottom line. As patients we can’t stand for this. Medical providers should and need to have the FINAL say in what medications their patients are on and they should always be willing to go to bat for their patients and appeal even if they “know they’ll get denied.” I hear all too often from fellow patients that their GI won’t even appeal in the first place and does not empathize with the fear of being forced on a biosimilar.
For those providers, I ask…can you guarantee, 100%, no doubts whatsoever that your patient will thrive and do just as well on a biosimilar as they did their originator biologic? Does the benefit really outweigh the risk? Should IBD patients who already live with an unpredictable and complicated chronic illness have to endure the stress, medical trauma, and anxiety that result from forced medication switches or denials related to off-label dosing?
As patients, caregivers, and medical providers we are a team. We know what’s right. Doctors and nurses should not have to waste so much energy on fighting for off-label dosing, necessary treatments, and keeping their patients on medications that are working. A HUGE thank you to all the providers and nurses who go above and beyond and out of their way to fight for us and do everything in their power to make sure we receive the medical treatments we need to keep our IBD in check. Your efforts, whether successful or not, are not going unnoticed.
At the end of the day, the big argument is all about “accessibility” and “cost savings” in the United States, but are patients really reaping this benefit here? I paid at most 0-$5 for Humira injections, I paid $0 for Hyrimoz. Do you know how I paid? I paid with living more than two months with health issues that would bring the average person to their knees. I went from being in deep remission to re-living the trauma of how unpredictable life with IBD can be. I paid by being on a biosimilar for 71 days and spending more than half of them with debilitating pain and symptoms.
Big pharma can step up to the plate and lower their absurd pricing on biologics (originator drugs) so that biosimilars are of no monetary benefit to pharmacy benefit managers. Let’s make it an equal playing field and see what happens. Would Big Pharma rather lose all their patients because their biologic is being removed from the insurance formulary or keep patients, lower their costs of the drugs, and keep insurance companies from choosing biosimilars because it saves them money?
As a vocal IBD patient advocate and leader, I understand and feel for those who haven’t been able to go back on therapies or receive different dosage recommendations they depend on for their well-being. While I’m thrilled to be back on my biologic, now I have the worry about whether my body will respond the same as it did previously.
The medication I’ve depended on for 16 years to bring me comfort is finally back in my fridge and going to be back in my body today. The prior authorization lasts one year, so I’m not sure what the future will bring, but I’m focused on getting my health back on track right now and worrying about that later. I’m grateful my energy in dealing with my own appeal is over and now I can pour my efforts into trying to drive change for our community. We all deserve so much more. Let’s go after what is right and make forced medication switching and off-label dosing delays and denials by insurance companies illegal in the United States.
More than 4 million babies are born in the United States each year, many to mothers who live with chronic illness. Historically, pregnant women are excluded from research, consequently there is limited to no safety data at the time of drug approval. Enormous gaps remain regarding the clinical impact of exposure to biologics and medications when so much is at stake for both mom and baby. July 11-12th the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) hosted a public workshop entitled, “Evaluating Immunosuppressive Effects of In Utero Exposure to Drug and Biologic Products.”
As a patient leader in the IBD community and mom of three children who were all exposed to anti-TNF medication in pregnancy, I was invited to provide the patient voice during this two-day discussion. I spoke on three different panels to share my perspective. This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s I’ll share what I learned and what I heard from top researchers and doctors at the workshop. The key overall message—healthy moms lead to healthy babies and a healthy society. Healthy meaning—having disease well-controlled in pregnancy so flares don’t lead to adverse outcomes for both mom and baby.
Pregnant women and lack of research
Often due to ethics, pregnant women have been omitted from research and clinical trials. The absence of human involvement in pharmacology studies can lead to uncertainty about what is deemed “low risk” and “safe” to the fetus, and the impact medications have on the placenta. Women who become pregnant must drop out of clinical studies, even if the drug class has known safety or is deemed low risk (anti-TNF, IL-23s).
It’s clear that reducing or stopping medications can put mothers at risk for flares, which in turn can lead to adverse effects in pregnancy. With my own children, I stayed on Humira until 39 weeks with my oldest (who is now 7), and 37 weeks with my other two children (who are now 5 and 3). All three of my children were a part of pregnancy studies (MotherToBaby and PIANO). My youngest will be followed until age 18! My oldest was followed through kindergarten. The current recommendation, globally (which has changed since I had my children) is to keep women on biologics throughout the entire pregnancy.
One of the key areas of discussion is whether animal data from research ever tells us the whole story about the safety and efficacy of medications—the answer is no. There is no substitute for a human placenta, but the challenge and dilemma are what can be done to get this human data. Approaching clinical trials in pregnant women is challenging and takes time to develop. Currently, animals are the best tool we have for educated guesses.
The benefit vs. risk discussion for Mom and Baby
Oftentimes decision making with chronic illness is a risk versus benefit thought process, whether you are pregnant or plan to carry a baby in the future or not. During the FDA workshop, there was an incredible presentation that really resonated with me about the multiple decisions women have to make for both themselves and their unborn children. The discussion highlighted the complexity and why it’s not a black and white decision. These series of decisions are nested in each other and revolve around the decision maker (Mom/Dad) and medical providers.
Key considerations we deal with as IBD moms:
Continue or discontinue medication?
Should we breastfeed on medication?
Should we give an attenuated live vaccine as scheduled or delay?
When making these decisions it’s imperative that patients feel heard and that communication take place between the parents and medical providers (gastroenterologist, maternal fetal medicine, and OBGYN). Knowledge is power and educating yourself going into these conversations and before and during pregnancy can make you feel more empowered in your decisions.
The power of the placenta
There were placentalogists at the workshop—yes, those exist!! And it was amazing to learn how dynamic the placenta is and how it changes throughout pregnancy. The placenta is not just a conduit, its function changes across gestation and with fetal sex and medical condition. It serves as the endocrine function, lungs, pituitary, drug processing center, neuro connections, and growth factors for the baby…to name a few.
For instance, according to this study, there are differing levels of placental chemokines and cytokines and even reduction of placental antibody transfer in male placentas.
Once the placenta is impacted it effects the fetus. There was also discussion about how Inflammatory Bowel Disease impacts placenta—and the possibility of looking at the placenta of an IBD women at delivery to compare them to women without the disease. Even when a woman has well-controlled disease or is in remission, it’s believed our placentas may appear differently at delivery due to the inflammatory nature of our disease. I joked during on one of the speaking panels that I would have gladly given all my placentas to research upon delivery! It’s win-win for researchers and patients alike to do so.
Medication safety in pregnancy
There was also discussion about the importance of developing medications that are safer in pregnancy, much like children’s medications are created with a different formulation.
Prednisone causes minimal fetal exposure. Solumedrol at infusions is fine, and it’s ok to breastfeed on steroids, but high dose daily oral steroid can cause cleft palate and cleft lip.
Azathioprine has also been found to have no impact on breastfeeding, babies born to moms on Azathioprine have normal development and they do not have increased susceptibility to infection.
A graph outlined a study that looked at 107 pregnant women with IBD on Infliximab/Adalimumab:
Detectable anti-TNF levels after birth:
3 months of age—94%
6 months of age—23%
9 months of age—7%
12 months of age—3%
This illustrates why babies exposed to anti-TNF after believed to be immunocompromised until 6 months of age.
Vaccine response and impact of immunosuppressive medications
It is believed that women on immunomodulating medication who get the TDAP vaccination in pregnancy have the same immune response as healthy controls and that the baby receives the same benefits.
The recommendation for Rotavirus (which is the only live vaccine given the first 6 months of a baby’s life), is now to give this vaccine to babies. This updated guidance also applies even when babies are exposed to anti-TNF or immunosuppressive medications in pregnancy.
There’s no difference in vaccine response for babies across different biologics.
Limiting the burden on mom and baby in pregnancy and postpartum studies
Once babies are born and they are part of research studies to measure how their exposure in utero impacts or does not impact their future health, there’s often a burden on the mother about following up. As an IBD mom myself, I wasn’t big on having my babies get blood draws for medical studies—but that data is paramount in helping further that research. And knowing what I know now, I wish I would have been more willing to do so.
So how can studies ease this burden and stress on families?
This can be done by having well-trained phlebotomists who have experience working with children and using techniques to optimize venipuncture success to limit discomfort and pain. By timing blood draws for research at the same time of doctor’s appointments, it reduces the number of needle sticks and blood draws.
Dr. Mahadevan’s Presentation at the workshop
One of my favorite presentations was given by Dr. Uma Mahadevan. She is the key investigator of the PIANO (Pregnancy Inflammatory bowel disease and Neonatal Outcomes), and a well-respected gastroenterologist at UCSF. PIANO started in 2007 and looks at the safety of IBD medications on the pregnancy and short-and-long term outcomes of children. My youngest son is part of PIANO. We participated throughout pregnancy, provided cord blood from delivery, as well as blood draws. I just submitted his 3-year forms online.
I recorded Dr. Mahadevan’s presentation and have transcribed everything she said below so you could hear her expertise firsthand:
“Women of childbearing age—women of reproductive potential are not given JAK inhibitors—even though it may be the most effective medication for them. This is a result of fear—that maybe they’ll get pregnant and maybe there will be some harm. Medications with well-established safety records like anti-TNFs are discontinued in pregnancy now—68% of women who go off their anti-TNF did so from the advice for their rheumatologist, so these are the doctors telling them to do this.
What’s the importance of treating immune mediated disease in pregnancy?
Disease activity is the biggest driver of adverse outcomes in pregnancy. Women with IBD compared to general population have an increased risk of spontaneous abortion, pre-term birth, small for gestational age, hypertensive disorders of pregnancy including preeclampsia , post-partum hemorrhage, and 44% rate of C-section, most of them elective out of fear of disease.
Stopping the biologic which again is out of fear—you’re on a biologic, it’s stopped in pregnancy, still is in many rheumatology and psoriasis cases, less so with IBD, but when you stop it…reducing or stopping leads to an increase of disease flare.
Many of my colleagues who are rheumatologists say “oh many with rheumatoid arthritis get better in pregnancy…there is not a single study that shows that. In fact, this study from The National Inpatient Samples shows women with rheumatoid arthritis were more likely to develop complications of pregnancy both during pregnancy, but also in post-partum and in their neonates.
The American College of Rheumatology conditionally recommended continuing anti-TNF during pregnancy despite the available safety data and the voting panel agreed that if the patient’s disease is under control these medicines can be discontinued. This is happening now.
In this article from a prospective registry from Sweden and Denmark that looked at 1700 patients with RA, there was increase in pre-term birth and small for gestational age in RA compared to the general population and that odds ratio increased to three-fold with active disease.
So, there is data that it increases harm in not just IBD but RA as well. We know there’s a strong role for inflammation in pregnancy and in pregnancy outcomes. So, the significant increase in pregnancy and neonatal complications is closely linked to disease activity and inflammation and stopping these low-risk meds and steroid sparing therapies lead to increased suffering for the mother, and post-partum flares and worst outcomes for the infant.
Healthy mother=Healthy Baby
So, what are some of the study designs and limitations-these have been brought up before. Pregnant women are not included in clinical trials. There’s unmeasured confounding in uncontrolled studies. Disease activity impacts the decision to continue or discontinue therapy. It’s not random. The choice of therapy is not random it is linked to their disease severity and what they have.
If you have a series of 100 patients or 1000 patients or 10,000 patients, you may not pick up the signal. The types of studies that are used for the most part are large data sets, so birds eye view and the highest quality study are large population studies from countries in Scandinavia usually where they have longitudinal assessment, parent-child linkage, and a good assessment of diagnosis in pregnancy outcomes. However, these are limited by a fair assessment of medication because they can only measure prescription and not whether the patient is actually taking the medicine. At a very poor assessment of disease activity and very granular data.
People are more likely to report a complication than a healthy pregnancy—incomplete info.
Let me tell you about PIANO—this is a prospective national registry of pregnant women with IBD started in 2007. PIANO divides people into four groups:
The unexposed—which could include people on steroids, 5 ASAS, antibiotics.
We define exposure as anytime within 3 months of conception through pregnancy. We compare the offspring of women exposed to a medication to offspring of women with IBD who have not been exposed. We looked at multiple different outcomes including pregnancy and neonatal outcomes , we administered questionnaires each trimester of pregnancy, three times in the first year of birth and then annually and we continue to follow these patients out to age 18.
So, here’s some of the data that has been published:
Corticosteroids –I often hear from providers, “oh I’ll just stop their medication and if they flare, we’ll give them steroids.” This actually leads to increase rates of pre-term birth, low birth weight, and NICU admission. Of course, the use of steroids is mostly tied to disease activity. It’s hard to separate the two. But the whole point is that you don’t want disease activity, you don’t want steroid use, you want them to be on a steroid sparring effective therapy.
The primary results of PIANO were published in 2021 in Gastro. We looked at 1,400 IBD pregnancies, 379 were not on drugs, 242 were on thiopurine, 642 were on biologics (Primarily anti-TNF), and 227 were on both biologic and thiopurines so about 1,000 biologic exposed pregnancies. We found no increase in birth defects, spontaneous abortion, preterm birth, low birth weight, or infections in the first year of life. We saw an increase in spontaneous abortion with disease activity and we used the Ages and Stages questionnaires to look at developmental milestones and saw no reduction.
We measured placental transfer and we measured maternal and cord blood for inflammation on day of birth. The highest transfer was with infliximab—the lowest was certolizumab, which doesn’t have the FC portion. Vedolizumab had a lower level in the infant than the mother. When this data first came out the first reaction was – “oh we should stop the biologic early”…so in Europe they have more of a glass is half empty look at medications in pregnancy…US tends to be glass is half full. So, they decided to stop at 22 weeks and that was in their official guidance. And it was not until 2 years ago that that was changed to match US recommendations because their own data showed an increase in disease activity and worse outcomes with doing that.
The concern was if you have this placental transfer, if you have therapeutic drug levels in the infant for several months after birth, do they have higher rates of infection? And we showed in PIANO there is no increase in infection at 4 months of age and at 1 year and we looked at if infection rates were relative to the level of drug in the infant at the time of birth, and there was no association to drug level at birth and recent infection.
So based on that now, we don’t stop the biologic at all during pregnancy, we continue it throughout. A systematic review and meta-analysis looking at 8,000 women with IBD who were exposed to biologics showed no increase in infant infections, antibiotic—- showing that biologics do not cause harm.
This data from Antoine Meyer who uses a French patient sample looked at women on anti-TNF and thiopurines and showed no increase in the risk of early life malignancy in children.
We ask about infection—we ask about immune suppression—we ask about malignancy and so far in these 3700 thiopurines and 3400 anti-TNFs from 3 years of age going out to 11 years of age, no increase. Very reassuring data.
PIANO looks at developmental milestones—out to 12 months and up to 4 years—shows no decline, we actually showed patients on TNF had statistically superior developmental milestones in every category compared to the national average and even within PIANO—not to say that TNF’s make your kid smarter…but the whole idea of controlling inflammation is what allows these kids to lay down their neural pathways.
What about the newer biologics?
Ustekinumab and Vedolizumab—again showing no increase in harm for both pregnancy and infant outcomes.
Antoine Meyer again from the French database looked at 398 vedolizumab pregnancies, 464 Ustekinumab pregnancies…again, no increase in harm for all these important outcomes.
It’s not just congenital malformations, what else can happen with these medications?
We’re working with Susan Fisher who is a placental scientist at UCSF, a question was raised about Vedolizumab inhibits alpha 4 beta 7, which can inhibit MAdCAM, which is involved in the process of plasmatation—so if you inhibit MAdCAM are you going to have issues in plasmatation. This was just a pilot study. The first one here the patient also had pulmonary hypertension—this is a normal placental at birth…you can see how this looks distinctly abnormal. The second patient was born 39 weeks, mother was completely healthy with her UC had no other issues during pregnancy. Compared to normal placenta…so are there other things we are missing here?
We are conducting a larger study now with multiple biologics the question is it’s not the Vedolizumab is my hypothesis, it’s more a result of inflammation, having IBD…but it will be interesting to see what these placentas look like when we finish. But maybe this is why these patients have higher rates of preeclampsia, higher rates of hypertensive disorders in pregnancy, and preterm birth. It may be related to the impact of inflammation on the placenta.
Small molecules—I feel very comfortable when a new biologic comes out to continue in pregnancy, I feel reassured by the minimal to lack of transfer in the first 14-16 weeks of gestation, with small molecules—they will transfer and Tofacitinib showed teratogenicity at super therapeutic doses, Upadacitinib showed teratogenicity at the doses we use in humans at 30 mg daily—so that does raise concern. There is now some data, again from clinical programs—no increase in birth defects, in pregnancy loss.
Same for –in press—looking at Upadacitinib …128 maternal exposed pregnancies, 80 of which were in clinical trials…similar rates of live births, spontaneous abortion, compared to what is expected.
What about breastmilk? In PIANO, we do collect samples and found the amount of transfer was really miniscule. But all biologics had transfer—we found no increase rates of infection or impact on developmental milestones with patients who were breastfed while the mother was on an immunomodulator.
We talked about vaccines—if these patients had detectable level of biologics—the first 6 months of life will they have normal response to vaccines? We looked at Tetanus — and found the rates of response were similar to infants of mothers who were not exposed to biologics…that was reassuring. We had 40 inadvertent Rotavirus exposures in our TNF babies, they did just fine. This has also been shown in European data as well. And I want to make sure you are all aware of the study from Lancet looking at Rotavirus vaccine—this was a prospective study looking at infants exposed to biologics, they gave 168 biologic exposed infants Rotavirus vaccine—can only be given the first 3-4 months of life, after 6 months it’s not given—so if you say no in the first 6 months, baby never gets it. They found no harm—at this point, we are letting patients on TNF get Rotavirus vaccine, you can argue the US and most areas because of herd immunity, Rotavirus may not be that important, but in other parts of the world it is—and it’s fine to give to patients exposed.
BCG vaccine is different—especially in an anti-TNF exposed baby, it does have a higher rate of TB, having to do with mechanism. There was one death in a European study given vaccine at 1 month of age. BCG can be given after 6 months of age. So Rotavirus is fine within 6 months, but BCG is still recommended after 6 months.
MMR in high-risk populations can be given at 6 months—why did the Europeans, Asians, and Americans have such different guidelines? This May (2024) we all got together for the Global Consensus Conference to create one standard for pregnant women globally and to help spread the word.
Our recommendations are to continue 5ASA, continue sulfasalazine, continue steroids when necessary, stop methotrexate, and continue thiopurine, continue anti-TNF therapy. The US and Europe agree we will not be stopping TNF early, we will continue it on schedule. We’ll continue vedolizumab and ustekinumabon on schedule, and it’s ok to start these medications in the middle of pregnancy.
Biosimilars have equal safety as originator. The Europeans didn’t understand why we wanted to include this, but this is a common question that comes up in the US. We consider biosimilars safety to be equal to the originator drug.
IL-23 therapies… even though not well studied, we feel based on mechanism they can be continued.
Small molecules should be discontinued—but particularly for the JAKS though, unless there is no effective alternative, they can stay on them. I have had patients where they have to stay on Tofacitinib and Upadacitinib because there was nothing else that worked for them.
Inactive vaccines should be given on schedule. we suggest live rotavirus can be given to children exposed to anti-TNF and recommend BCG be avoided in the first six months.
Final thoughts
A recording of this two-day FDA workshop will be available online in the next two weeks. I will share the link as soon as it becomes available. on my Instagram (natalieannhayden). There were fantastic discussions and as an IBD mom who has gone through pregnancies while on a biologic I am grateful for the consideration and the research that’s going on to help couples feel more confident and at ease about bringing life into this world while juggling complicated health conditions. The conversations and presentations at the workshop were extremely complex, I did my best to translate the information, so the patient community has a better grasp of where we stand about IBD pregnancy research.
If you have IBD and are planning to be a mom or if you are currently pregnant, please consider joining the PIANO study and being a part of this life-changing research for our community.
Summer is officially here and while the sun and break from school and a routine is welcomed by many, the shift in schedules can be a struggle for parents with chronic illness. As a mom with Crohn’s disease with kids ages 7, 5, and almost 3, some days are easier than others on me. Even though I’ve been a stay-at-home mom and freelancer since my first child was born in March 2017, it’s a lot to juggle when every day can feel like Groundhog Day and when you get little to no breaks from mom or dad life. This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s some tips for navigating the summer months, when school is out and everyone is home, looking to be entertained and fed snacks around the clock.
Dealing with the unique challenges
Mom and Dad guilt can feel like it’s reaching epic proportions when you go on social media as a chronic illness parent and see all the daily adventures and trips other families are posting about. When fighting fatigue and coping with pain, making those efforts with kids can feel like an uphill battle. You want to be present and do all the things and make all the core memories, but it can be extremely difficult and exhausting physically and emotionally when you aren’t feeling well and trying to do it all in the heat of summer. The combination of managing a chronic illness and the increased demands of having children home from school can be overwhelming. However, with some careful planning and strategies, IBD parents can navigate the summer months more smoothly.
I try and remind myself that whether we have an adventure-filled day or a day at home playing in the backyard and having popsicles, my kids are having fun. It’s ok to have an “old-fashioned” summer, hanging out with the neighborhood kids and playing outside. Now that my youngest is about to turn 3 in July, I feel like I’m in a sweet spot this summer where I don’t need to lug the stroller and a diaper bag everywhere we go.
Tips for Managing IBD During Summer
Plan Ahead:
Summer Camps: Prior to summer and even during, I try and sign up my older two for camps and activities that I think they’ll enjoy. So far this summer, my kids have done soccer camps, volleyball camp, dance camp, and Vacation Bible School. Most of the camps are only 2-4 hours, but even having one child entertained helps ease the dynamic back at home. At the same time, I try not to overschedule camps, because it can be stressful to try and get everyone out of the house by 8 am and all the drop-offs and pick-ups can make some days stressful and overbooked. There’s a delicate balance!
Activities: Choose activities that align with your energy levels. Opt for outings that require less physical exertion or allow for breaks. Having a game plan ahead of time, and keeping it to yourself rather than getting your kids excited and then not being able to deliver on the promise is key.
Backup Plans: Have a backup plan for days when your symptoms are more severe. This could include indoor activities, quiet time, or arranging for help from friends or family.
Communicate with Your Children:
Honesty: Age-appropriate honesty about your condition can help children understand your limitations. Explain why you may need to rest or take breaks.
Involvement: Involve older children in planning activities and chores. This can lighten your load and teach them responsibility.
Create a Support System:
Family and Friends: Don’t hesitate to ask for help. Whether it’s babysitting, meal preparation, or just lending an ear, a support system is crucial. I find it a lot easier when I go on playdates with other moms and my kids can be entertained with their kids. Having downtime to talk with adults (or even be out of the house and in the same vicinity as other moms and dads) is a breath of fresh air. I’ve even see moms post about simply going for a drive to get everyone out of the house.
IBD Community: Connect with other IBD parents through support groups or online forums. There’s solidarity and understanding on social media and so many people living your reality. While summer is fun, it’s also a lot to get acclimated to when you are used to having children in school.
Utilize Resources:
Apps and Tools: Use health management apps to track symptoms, medication, and appointments. Parenting apps can help organize activities and chores. Chances are there are people in your town or city with accounts that highlight the best parks, pools, and activities to check out in the summer months. I follow a bunch of St. Louis parenting accounts and save or screenshot reels or posts so I have ideas of places I can take my kids that are “mom-approved”.
Professional Help: Don’t hesitate to consult your healthcare provider for advice on managing IBD during the summer. They may suggest adjustments to your treatment plan.
Prioritize Self-Care:
Rest: Make time for rest even amidst the chaos of summer activities. Create a schedule that includes downtime to help manage fatigue and reduce stress.
Diet: Stick to a diet that works for you. Avoid foods that trigger flare-ups, and keep healthy snacks readily available.
Hydration: Summer heat can exacerbate IBD symptoms. Drink plenty of water to stay hydrated. I never leave home without water for myself and my kids.
Stay on top of your health: Summer is not a break from doctor appointments, lab work, scans and scopes. Make sure you don’t let your IBD management go by the wayside. Unfortunately, we can never take a break or vacation from keeping tabs on our disease.
Activities and Coping Strategies
Indoor Activities:
Crafts and Games: Keep a stash of craft supplies and board games for days when going out isn’t feasible. Some days it’s just too hot to go outside. Hitting up the DollarStore or Hobby Lobby can be helpful for picking up easy crafts when you’re in a pinch.
Reading and Movies: Create a cozy reading nook or have a movie marathon with your kids. It’s ok to have slow, snuggle days. I try not to beat myself up about screen time when I’m feeling overwhelmed or need a chance to breathe. A trip to the library with the kids is always a nice reprieve from the heat and then you can return home, snuggle and read together.
Outdoor Fun:
Parks and Beaches: Choose locations with amenities like bathrooms and shaded areas. Bring a comfortable chair or blanket to rest. I love packing lunches or picking up food on the way to the park and having a picnic with my kids. I also brought one of those trendy snack containers off Amazon with the different dividers for snacks, and that’s a great way to save on having to buy food while you’re out and about. Splash pads are also great so that kids can burn off energy and get refreshed, without you having to keep a close eye with them in a pool or having to get in yourself.
Mindfulness and Relaxation:
Yoga, Meditation, and walks: Incorporate gentle yoga or meditation into your routine. These practices can help manage stress and improve overall well-being. After dinner, when the temperatures begin to drop, it’s a great time to take a solo walk outside, if your partner can stay back with the kids or ask friends to join you. It’s nice to decompress and get steps in, without having to deal with the sweltering sun.
Quiet Time: Speaking of quiet time for you, establish a daily quiet time where everyone in the household engages in calm activities, giving you a chance to recharge. It’s difficult for me to find quiet time these days, but I try and decompress after bedtime at least.
Final thoughts
Managing IBD while parenting during the summer requires a blend of planning, self-care, and support. By prioritizing your health and setting realistic expectations, you can create a summer that is enjoyable for both you and your children. Remember, taking care of yourself is not only beneficial for you but also sets a positive example for your kids. In moments of high stress, where my kids are not getting along, I try and remind myself that someday I’ll look back on these times as the good old days.
One of the main challenges and worries women face when it comes to pregnancy and IBD is feeling comfortable and confident staying on their medication. The first-ever Global Consensus Conference on Pregnancy and IBD was held during Digestive Disease Week (May 2024) and part of the discussion focused on the latest recommendations for medication during pregnancy and lactation. Last week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s we covered the global guidance regarding pre-conception counseling and family planning.
Hear from the co-chairs of the Global Consensus Conference and esteemed gastroenterologists, Dr. Uma Mahadevan and Dr. Millie Long about what they want the IBD community to know about medication during pregnancy and postpartum.
The latest recommendations for IBD women
All biologics can be continued through pregnancy and lactation
5ASA can be continued
Thiopurines can be continued, but monitor liver enzymes for intrahepatic cholestasis of pregnancy
S1P agents and JAK inhibitors should be avoided in pregnancy unless there is no other viable alternative
Biosimilars are equally safe to originator drugs (biologics) in pregnancy
Wound healing after C-section/episiotomy: Thiopurines delayed wound healing with episiotomy, but there’s no impact of biologics on wound healing with C-section, tear, episiotomy
These recommendations were voted on and determined by more than 50 medical providers and IBD patient advocates from around the world. The hope is that this guidance will leave couples feeling empowered and more comfortable in their decision to stay on medications that are deemed low risk.
“We have learned that there are many different practice patterns in various locations globally regarding treating women with IBD during pregnancy. The goal of this Global Consensus was to have a consistent, evidence-based framework for management of pregnant women with IBD that will improve the quality of care globally. Most importantly, treating inflammation and continuing appropriate medications (such as biologics) improves outcomes for both mom and baby,” said Dr. Millie Long.
When I was pregnant with my children, I trusted what my care team (GI, OB, and Maternal Fetal Medicine doctors) told me regarding Humira and the risk versus benefit of staying on my medication through pregnancy and after. I credit my medication for keeping my Crohn’s under control while I carried my babies and after I brought them into this world. But I’m going to be honest—when you are 36 weeks pregnant and you feel the baby kicking and moving as you’re about to do your injection, it can feel emotional. At the same time, I always told myself I was doing what was best for me and for them. Now that my kids are 7, 5, and almost 3 (all perfectly healthy), I am reminded every day that I made the right choice for our family.
Handling the hesitations
Dr. Mahadevan says when patients come to her worried about staying on their medication while they are pregnant, she discusses the “very clear data” that shows disease activity is the strongest predictor of pregnancy complications.
“This includes having difficulty conceiving, higher miscarriage rates, higher complications of pregnancy, including pre-term birth. Pre-term birth has a strong correlation with reduced socioeconomic status and other issues later in life. Plus, if women are so sick and worn out by their IBD, they aren’t able to enjoy their new baby and struggle to take care of their child as well as they would like to. For medications like monoclonal antibody, where there is good safety data, it really makes sense to continue.”
“Women should stay on biologics during pregnancy without any alteration when they are pregnant. This reduces the risk of flare during and post pregnancy for the mom and improves outcomes for the baby. The strongest predictor of pre-term delivery (and the complications arising from this), is active inflammation,” said Dr. Long.
Clinical trials in pregnancy and drug safety rely on observational data. There are no randomized trials where one person is chosen to get therapy, and another is not.
“This is where the PIANO study and other such prospective (where we follow patients before we know the outcome) registries are so important. We can collect data quickly… as soon as a medication is approved for use. We also get data from large population datasets from countries such as France, where all patients are registered, and their outcomes can be collected. This takes longer but will have much larger numbers,” explained Dr. Mahadevan.
All three of my kids were part of research studies while in utero and after. My youngest who turns three in July was part of the PIANO study. I can’t say enough about the importance of contributing to research and helping to pave the way for future IBD families. We have the guidance we have today because of all the moms who took it upon themselves to be a part of studies like PIANO.
Biosimilars in pregnancy
As more and more patients are switched from a biologic to a biosimilar, there’s a great deal of interest in how this impacts family planning and pregnancy.
A total of 89 pregnant women with IBD enrolled in PIANO on Infliximab were included as part of a study presented at Digestive Disease Week entitled, “Use of Biosimilars to Infliximab During Pregnancy in Women with Inflammatory Bowel Disease: Data from the PIANO study” that Dr. Long and Dr. Mahadevan were a part of.
In the study, 76 women were on the originator drug (Infliximab/Remicade), while 13 women were on an Infliximab biosimilar.
“Though this study is small, Europeans noted that they did not differentiate between biosimilar and originator in their studies. There were no difference in clinical characteristics or significant differences in any pregnancy complications between the two groups. Developmental milestones were assessed at 12 months, with no differences in communication, fine motor, gross motor, personal/social interaction, or problem solving between groups,” said Dr. Mahadevan.
This data and ongoing research can reassure mothers with IBD on biosimilar IFX who wish to pursue pregnancy.
Avoiding S1P agents and JAK inhibitors in pregnancy
For those who don’t know—S1P agents and JAK inhibitors include: Ozanimod (Zeposia), Tofacitinib (Xeljanz) and Upadacitinib (Rinvoq).
If you’re currently taking one of these medications and finally have your IBD under control, it can be daunting to know what to do next for family planning.
“It is a case-by-case situation .In general, we would like to avoid these agents as, unlike with biologics which are antibodies, these agents are pills and cross the placenta during the first trimester during a key time in the baby’s development,” said Dr. Mahadevan. “Animal studies have shown harm with supratherapeutic (higher than human doses) levels of drug. Upadacitinib (Rinvoq) had birth defects in animals even at human doses. For S1Ps, usually there is another effective medicine patients can try. An exception may be if they also have multiple sclerosis as S1Ps are used to treat both conditions. For jak inhibitors, they are often the only effective therapy for a patient. We will discuss the risks, the benefits, and the options – using a surrogate, etc.”
Lactation considerations
The benefits of breastfeeding are similar in IBD and non-IBD moms.
“We do not have robust data that breastfeeding will specifically reduce the risk of IBD in offspring, but there are many studies in the general population that demonstrate that breastfeeding is beneficial to infants. The choice to breastfeed is an individual one, and it is important to support each family’s decision,” said Dr. Long.
Breastfeeding research is more challenging than pregnancy studies, as this is not collected in medical records or large databases.
“Breastfeeding research is data from registries like PIANO and individual studies from different IBD centers, which measure transfer in breastmilk and outcomes,” said Dr. Mahadevan.
She went on to say that breastfeeding is allowed on thiopurines, and there should be low to no risk to the infant.
“Ideally, if the mother can wait four hours, there is no drug transferred, but even earlier the amount that is transferred is very low,” explained Dr. Mahadevan.
As an IBD mom who fed each of my babies differently, I want to reiterate that whether you choose to breastfeed or not is a personal decision and you are not less than or a failure if you need to supplement or formula feed. Juggling chronic illness, postpartum, and motherhood is a lot. Give yourself grace and trust your child will thrive no matter how they are fed.
My oldest was only breastfed for three days because I wasn’t well-versed about the data regarding biologics and breastfeeding and because I was nervous about flaring and not being able to feed my baby. I breastfed my middle child for 6 months while supplementing, and my youngest was exclusively breastfed 14 months—all while on Humira. Your journey and your experience are personal to you. Try not to allow outside or societal pressure to contribute to your guilt as an IBD mom.
Gaps and strides in IBD research Dr. Long says we need more data on the safety and efficacy of novel small molecules during pregnancy.
“This includes medications like tofacitinib, Upadacitinib, Etrasimod and ozanimod. This is why registries like PIANO are so important, to capture this information and inform patients and providers alike. Some of the strides being made in IBD pregnancy research include the effectiveness of pre-conception counseling, novel assessments of disease activity during pregnancy (such as intestinal ultrasound), data on novel biologics during pregnancy and lactation (including newly approved therapies such as Risankizumab or Mirikizumab) and data specifically on biosimilars. Through this data and the Consensus recommendations, we can improve pregnancy outcomes for many women with IBD,” said Dr. Long.
The overall hope is that the Global Consensus Conference recommendations will provide women with IBD all over the world with consistent and evidence-based care prior to, during, and post pregnancy.
When you live with a disease like Crohn’s or ulcerative colitis, family planning takes thought and special consideration. The first-ever Global Consensus Conference on Pregnancy and IBD was held during Digestive Disease Week (May 2024) and part of the discussion focused on the latest recommendations for pre-conception counseling and family planning. This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s hear from Dr. Uma Mahadevan who co-chaired the conference, along with Dr. Christopher Robinson, a maternal fetal medicine specialist. As an IBD mom of three kids and the patient lead for the United States on this initiative, I’m excited to start sharing the latest guidance for our community.
The latest recommendations for IBD women
Couples should get pre-conception counseling.
Remission prior to conception for at least 3-6 months with objective evidence of remission.
All women with IBD should be followed as high-risk pregnancies (however that monitoring works in each country)
Pregnant women should take low dose aspirin daily by 12-16 weeks gestation to avoid preterm pre-eclampsia.
These recommendations were voted on and determined by more than 50 medical providers and IBD patient advocates from around the world. They are the gold standard, and the hope is that the recommendations help clear up the gray area and bring clarity to couples who are planning to grow their family and wanting to conceive.
“Our goal was to have a universal guideline that was the same worldwide. This would reduce confusion and avoid the default of just not giving women appropriate therapy. The Consensus really tried to advise what we, as pregnancy in IBD experts, do with our patients, so that women everywhere can have the same high level of care,” said Dr. Mahadevan.
Considerations for women prior to conception
Dr. Mahadevan says when a woman starts medication, she generally tells her whether it is a compatible with pregnancy or not.
“I also tell them when they are ready to consider conception to meet with me first. So generally – the education and family planning discussions should start before you are even ready to consider pregnancy. For couples, they should give their GI a 6-month window ideally to make sure there is remission, a chance to optimize medication, and get any testing done that is needed.”
Personally, I had bowel resection surgery in August 2015 while I was engaged. We knew our wedding was in June 2016, and following the surgery I reached remission for the first time in a decade, so timing was of the essence. I told my GI at a post-op appointment in November 2015 that we were planning to start trying for a baby right after our wedding. Knowing that, she put me on a prescription prenatal and folic acid to start prepping my body for pregnancy, I also had a colonoscopy the month prior to my wedding to confirm I was in remission.
Recovering in the hospital after my bowel resection surgery, with hopes of one day being a mom.
Dr. Mahadevan recommends patients start 1 mg of folic acid daily when she learns they are considering conception.
“The prenatal with iron can be bothersome to some patients so I wait for the OB to start that. I check Vitamin D, B12, and iron labs to make sure those are all good.”
Dr. Christopher Robinson, MD, MSCR, Charleston Maternal Fetal Medicine says preconception care is an excellent way to plan out a pregnancy path.
He went on to say, “We recognize that the best outcomes are achieved when preconception care is employed prior to conception for optimization of disease management. This is especially true of IBD where there can be a number of misconceptions about safety of medications and goals for nutrition and surveillance of the pregnancy. Thus, I would recommend preconception counseling and establishing a care plan with Maternal Fetal Medicine early in pregnancy (first trimester).”
What does pre-conception counseling entail
Preconception counseling can be extensive. You should expect to go through an entire healthcare maintenance checklist of the following:
Checking labs—vitamin levels, sometimes drug levels
Updating vaccines
Cancer screenings—pap smear, colonoscopy if appropriate
Ensuring the patient is in remission which may require a colonoscopy, intestinal ultrasound or other imaging
Making sure medications are compatible with pregnancy
Reviewing prior pregnancy and if there were complications
Discussing mode of delivery, referring to a Maternal Fetal Medicine doctor prior to pregnancy if prior complications or if a woman is extremely high risk (for example, prior blood clots), has an ostomy, or if there is evidence of malnutrition or difficulty with weight gain.
Discuss starting aspirin at week 12 and set up a visit schedule with your GI, as you’ll generally see them once per trimester.
I had four pregnancies—three healthy, full-term babies and one miscarriage. As soon as I found out I was pregnant I alerted my GI. From there I set up an appointment with my “regular” OB for the initial ultrasound at 8-10 weeks, and then moving forward I had monthly ultrasounds with a maternal fetal medicine doctor, appointments with my GI each trimester, and the regularly scheduled in-office visits with my OB. Even though I had flawless pregnancies each time (aside from the baby I lost around 7 weeks), I was considered “high risk” because of my history of Crohn’s disease and prior surgery.
I had three scheduled c-sections, not because I had perianal Crohn’s, but because my care team allowed me to decide what I felt most comfortable given my health history. If I could do it all over again, I’d do it all the same. I appreciated the extra surveillance for my children and for me, healed beautifully after each abdominal surgery, and was grateful that by staying on Humira until 39 weeks with my first child and 37 weeks with my younger children, I maintained my remission throughout pregnancy and after.
Dr. Robinson said while each pregnancy has specific needs, in general he also follows pregnancy with serial growth checks every 4 weeks across pregnancy (following the targeted anatomic scan).
“It is possible, if a patient has longstanding, well controlled disease, and an optimum prior pregnancy outcome history, to check a 32- and 36-week ultrasound for growth. However, in the first pregnancy, I agree with serial growth scans.”
What remission before pregnancy really looks like
Remission is often a difficult word to define when it comes to living with IBD. As Dr. Mahadevan tells me, “Not everyone can achieve complete remission.” So, what are doctors looking for and what should your target be?
“We are looking to give moms-to-be the best chance at conceiving, keeping the pregnancy, and having a health pregnancy. I like to see normal labs, normal calprotectin, normal colonoscopy, and imaging without visible inflammation. Not everyone can achieve this, but that is the ideal three to six months prior to conception,” explained Dr. Mahadevan.
“IBD has both genetic and autoimmune underlying components that can interfere with development of the placenta and affect maternal nutrition across pregnancy. In these cases, optimization of disease management can improve care and reduce risk for both mother and fetus. The goal of interventions is to reduce the risk for mother and infant through coordinated care with GI, MFM and OB/Gyn in pregnancy,” said Dr. Robinson.
Stay tuned to Lights, Camera, Crohn’s next week when the latest recommendations for IBD medication in pregnancy and lactation is disclosed. A full manuscript with all the recommendations and guidance is in the works, with hopes of the information being publicly available by the end of this year. I’ll be working on the companion piece for the manuscript dedicated specifically to the patient community.
Kids are more intuitive than we tend to give them credit for. They are always watching us and even before they’re able to speak in sentences they have an innate sense of empathy and understanding. As an IBD mom of three, whose kids are almost 7, 5, and 2.5, I’ve started to think more lately about how to explain my Crohn’s disease to them in a way that will educate them, without scaring them. It can be a difficult balance.
I know my older two know mama gives herself shots, often needs to run to the bathroom, and gets “tummy aches” but I haven’t yet dropped the term “Crohn’s” or “disease” to them quite yet. It can be hard to explain and sometimes when I start trying to share more, I feel like it’s still going over their heads. Their concerned eyes when I’m in pain and how they watch me do my Humira injections is a reminder to me that they are aware something is going on. As we potty train my youngest, he commends himself for going on the potty by saying he’s “just like mama” …ah, what a great analogy!
This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s hear from several IBD parents about how they transparently communicate their experiences with Crohn’s disease and ulcerative colitis. It can be a fine line educating and being open, while also trying not to overwhelm and scare kids. I’ve found it extremely helpful tapping into the community and gaining input from others and I hope you do, too!
Helpful Guidelines for Navigating the conversation with your kids
Choose the right time. Pick a time when you won’t be interrupted and can focus on the conversation. Ensure it’s a moment when you and your children are feeling calm, at ease, and open to discussion. My recommendation as an IBD mom would be to have this conversation on a “feel good” day—rather than when you’re flaring or in the hospital.
Prepare yourself. Decide in advance how much detail you want to share based on your child’s age and maturity level. IBD is complicated, be ready for a range of emotions including sadness, fear, and even anger.
Use age-appropriate language. Explain your IBD in a way that is understandable to your child. Avoid using confusing or technical terms. For younger kids, it might be helpful to compare your illness to something they already understand.
Be honest but reassuring. You can be transparent and truthful, but also reassure them about all you do to manage and control your IBD. Empathize with the aspects of your daily life that won’t change, to provide them with a sense of stability and comfort.
Focus on practical impacts. Explain how your IBD might affect your daily routine or activities with them in a straightforward way. Use examples such as—“Mommy’s Crohn’s can be unpredictable, I may say we’re going to the park, but then I don’t feel well so we have a movie date and snuggle instead and plan to go to the park another day.”
Encourage questions. Allow your children to ask questions and express their feelings and know this will be an ongoing conversation throughout life. Go into the conversation without expectations. It’s ok to admit if you don’t have all the answers. You can explore some of the questions together.
Provide continuous support. Let your kids know that it’s okay to have and express their feelings about your IBD. Offer them ongoing support and reassurance. Let them know they can always come to you with questions or concerns at any time.
Seek support when needed. Consider enlisting the help of a therapist or a counselor, especially if you or your children are struggling to cope. Joining support groups and tapping into the online patient community and connecting with fellow IBD families in similar situations can be beneficial.
Keep the conversation going. Check in with your children regularly about your IBD and how you’re feeling. Be casual about it. Share when you see an opportunity to teach or calm fears that your kids may be internalizing.
Highlight the positives. While acknowledging the challenges, also focus on the positive aspects, such as the strength of your family unit or the support you have from friends and community. I always tell my kids when I’m doing my injection that mommy is strong, and we can all do hard things.
By approaching the conversation with honesty, sensitivity, and openness, you can help your children understand and cope with your chronic illness in a healthy way.
My 2-year-old trying to make me smile during a rough day in the bathroom.
IBD as a family disease
There’s a common saying in our community that IBD is a family disease, in that whether you have Crohn’s or ulcerative colitis or not, if someone in your nuclear family has it, the disease impacts your living experience in some way.
Emily and her husband have IBD and so do their three daughters, so discussions about IBD are frequent in their home since it’s a living reality for all five of them. She tells me the conversations tend to fall in one of the following categories:
1) Explanations of IBD details, procedures, surgeries, or diet needs for a member (or members) of the family.
2) Discussions to calm anxieties in one child about the presentation of IBD in themselves or in another family member.
She says the second category tends to be the more challenging conversations, by far.
“In the first category, we tend to stick to factual, age-appropriate explanations. For example, when our five-year-old needed to know about scopes and surgeries, we explained that a specific family member has “belly problems” and the doctor is helping by taking pictures of their belly and fixing the parts that were causing trouble,” explained Emily.
As the girls have gotten older, Emily says they add details about how the doctors do different procedures – always led by their child’s level of interest and desire for the knowledge.
“We are always honest about pain or discomfort related to medical procedures. Many things are NOT painful, and we want them to trust us that something does not hurt if we tell them. This has served us well. When surgery was needed for one daughter, we discussed how she would be sore afterwards, but we had ways to help the pain until it would subside. This was undoubtedly a challenging time for us, but our daughter did amazing,” Emily said.
As Emily’s girls have gotten older, as a preteen and teen, they understand more about their parents,’ and their own, IBD. They have lived through surgeries and many medical procedures in their family. Emily says now the more challenging conversations have started, related to knowing the possibilities around IBD.
“For example, I had a colon perforation following a routine monitoring scope for my IBD. It was a rare event that we are all warned about prior to a colonoscopy. It resulted in a more significant repair surgery and several days in the hospital. My daughters are old enough to realize that they also have scopes regularly and we had to have some discussions about the chance that the same thing could happen to them. It was challenging for our family for a few rounds of scopes!”
Emily says they addressed this topic mostly by focusing on the “helpers” as the iconic Mr. Rogers would! Yes, bad things can happen, but she reminded her daughters that they are so lucky to have doctors and medical professionals to “fix” these problems. She reminds them that they are lucky to have family and friends to help when they are not feeling well. She also talks about how they are lucky to have each other – who understand the ups and downs of this disease.
“This narrative has gotten our family through many challenges! I talk with my oldest daughter much more now about the details of her IBD. She is a teen and has had more than her fair share of IBD troubles. She has watched me deal with my challenges too. We are open with each other about the negative parts, and our frustrations having to deal with IBD. It is a double-edged sword to have her growing up! On the one hand – I hate that she is old enough to really understand the negatives. But she is also turning into an amazing young woman who is one of my closest confidants with this disease. We understand each other’s highs and lows like most cannot. We supported each other in challenging times and celebrate together for each win!”
Sari says she bought a couple of children’s books that feature a caregiver with chronic illness.
“One of them is titled ‘Some days’…it’s about a mom with multiple sclerosis, but it works for IBD, too. It goes over how some days are more exciting and others are simpler more restful days. If there are other kids’ books people have found, I’d love to hear about them!”
Kate also has a book by someone with Crohn’s, but says they’ve also always been very honest and open about it with her son.
“I always worried he would tell people too much, but I’ve found he’s incredibly respectful and it has made me feel less shame in my body because I talk to him so positively about it. Especially the perianal disease, which has been really hard to talk about with people. My son is six and understands my immune system attacks my digestive tract. We also have a puzzle of the body we have played with for years and he knows the colon, intestines, rectum, etc. because of that.”
Becca says one of her favorite memories as an IBD mom is when her daughter was learning body parts and said, “Mommy and I have vulvas, Daddy has a penis, Daddy and I have butts, and mommy has a bag!” She also often asks to see her “cut” on my belly (c-section scar), but I constantly remind her that she shares her “cut” with a lot of intestine.”
Becca also says for the longest time her daughter thought that EVERY mom gets an ostomy bag when they’ve had a baby.
“She didn’t realize I had mine for four years before she was born!”
As an IBD Dad, Brandon said he stumbled upon a video series when his son was around age five that provided a solid explanation. At the time his son had a broken arm.
“The video explained people have booboos you can’t see. I explained that I had what the girl in the video has. Nowadays, I show both my boys’ photos from my colonoscopies.”
You can watch the video Brandon showed his son here.
Here are additional books about chronic illness that others have recommended:
When you’re diagnosed with Crohn’s disease or ulcerative colitis it’s a lot to process. When I started this blog in 2016 and after living with Crohn’s for nearly 19 years, my focus has always been to be the voice I needed to hear upon diagnosis and what it was like to experience young adulthood with a chronic illness. As a 21-year-old, fresh out of college, I had to navigate my career, finding love, and becoming a mom with IBD on my own. The first decade I wasn’t publicly sharing my story and didn’t know there was a patient community to tap into online for support.
The first week I started experiencing Crohn’s symptoms-March 2005, Senior Spring Break in the Bahamas
Often as the years go by and we get beyond the initial shock of hearing the news and what this means for our lives, we tend to forget the challenges we faced to gain our footing. This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s I share some tokens of knowledge I’ve gained along the way that I hope will help you on your own journey, no matter where you find yourself at this moment.
Healing—physically, mentally, and emotionally is not linear. We all experience IBD uniquely—some people’s disease course is milder, others have it severe. We all cope differently with knowing and living with a chronic illness. Give yourself grace in the difficult moments. It’s ok to feel resentment or anger. It’s understandable to wonder at times “why me.” It’s “normal” to feel scared and anxious whether you’re a few weeks or a few decades in. Sometimes it’s taking things one hour at a time, other times it’s taking them one day at a time. Because of how quickly a flare up can strike, I try to live in the now and not worry about tomorrow.
You didn’t have control of getting your chronic illness, but you can control how you react and choose to heal from it. It’s easy to feel like you may be to blame if your health takes a turn for the worse. But understand this is not your fault. The unpredictability of IBD makes it feel like we’re often in the passenger seat and spiraling in circles, but this disease cannot control how you react, respond, and choose to heal from it. No matter what, you’re in control of the healing process. Whether it’s finding support through fellow patients and caregivers or through professional therapy, you won’t look back and you’ll be setting yourself up to take this on to the best of your ability.
There is no comparison game. Since the majority of people are diagnosed with IBD in their teens and into their 30s, it can be easy to try and measure your timeline and accomplishments to that of your peers who do not have chronic illness. It can also be tempting to look at people in the patient community who seem to have the world by the tail, when you’re struggling to get out of bed each day. This isn’t a competition of the sickest or a ploy to see who can smile through the pain and get more done. The only person you need to answer to, is who you see looking back in the mirror. You determine what you’re capable of and what you want in life. Your roadmap is yours and you’re right where you’re meant to be.
You set the benchmark for what’s possible. Your IBD is part of you, but it’s not your entire identity. Remember that even patient advocates are posting somewhat of a highlight reel. Even those who are working, in love, and parenting are dealing with their own struggles, too. My best advice would be to think about what you hope for in life (don’t even think of your IBD as part of the equation) and go after it. Yes, your health may cause some detours and roadblocks, but you won’t find your way unless you try.
No one knows your body better than you. I don’t care how many letters someone has after their name, they aren’t living in your body and experiencing what you feel each moment of every day. Be vocal when you need to be. Communicate as much as you can with your care team and paint the clearest picture of your reality. If you keep parts of your struggles to yourself or dumb down the severity of your day-to-day life, the only person you’re hurting is yourself. Learn about nutritional bloodwork and advocate for yourself to be tested for a full iron panel with Ferritin and Vitamin D. Get labs every 3-4 months so you can keep a finger on the pulse of what’s going on with your body. If you feel like your provider is being lackadaisical, don’t hesitate to get a second opinion. Take ownership of your health and find a provider who in your darkest moments you would feel most comfortable by your bedside in the hospital.
Make sure your GI specializes in IBD. There are gastroenterologists and there are gastroenterologists who specialize in Crohn’s and ulcerative colitis. Once you’re diagnosed with IBD, it’s imperative you try to find a GI who is an IBDologist. This can be tricky if you live in a rural area, it may mean you need to travel several hours to find a provider who fits the bill. If you move or are unsure of a good GI to check out, it’s helpful to reach out to your local Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation chapter and often they can help point you in the right direction.
Diet and stress levels matter. Read that again. Any doctor who tells you diet, and stress doesn’t impact your disease process is wrong. There are incredible registered dietitians throughout the US who specialize in IBD, and many of them have IBD themselves! Before you start restricting yourself or your child, make an appointment—most provide virtual options and this will help you get educated on what works best for you. What is a trigger for one person, isn’t necessarily a trigger for another. There isn’t a one-size-fits-all diet or else we would all do it.
Emotions will strike when you least expect them. Even almost 19 years in, I’ll sometimes break down and cry when I think about my Crohn’s or how it makes me feel. Just because you become a veteran patient doesn’t necessarily mean you fully ever heal from the hurt life with a chronic illness causes. It’s ok to have these moments where you may feel like you’re allowing your disease to control your emotions, you’re not. You’re human. It’s healthy to feel frustrated and to get emotional about what your life is like because you have IBD.
You’ve endured more than you give yourself credit for. As chronic illness patients we go through so much that often we don’t even bat an eye over experiences that would be extremely painful or stressful to the average person. Think about what a bad ass you are and how that carries over into each and everything you do in life. If you’re newly diagnosed you will get there—but even those initial weeks and months, you’re enduring more than the people who have their IBD under control and have a good handle on their body. No matter how many surgeries, scopes, scans, and IVs I’ve had, I always get a little teary eyed because it brings me back to 21-year-old me and then all the trauma that comes along with living with Crohn’s for 19 years. While those tears are sad, they also come from the strength of reflecting on what I’ve gone through to bring me to now.
Stay in tune with how your body is speaking to you through symptoms, do not ignore them. It can be challenging to communicate what you’re feeling to someone who does not have IBD. I get that. But by protecting loved ones, friends, and doctors from what you’re experiencing you’re preventing them from stepping in before it’s too late and before you know it your flare has gotten out of control and requires hospitalization. I used to be that person all the time. I would always internalize the pain, silently fighting through each day, doing anything possible to stay out of the hospital until the symptoms were simply unavoidable and required medical intervention. One hospitalization always sticks out in my mind. It was May 2009. I was a 25-year-old morning news anchor in Wisconsin. I was solo producing a 2-hour morning show dealing with horrible abdominal pain that kept making me throw up in the garbage can next to my desk in the newsroom as I struggled to put together the show. Finally, I couldn’t take it anymore and I had to call my co-anchor, who rushed me to the hospital. I was released from the ER hours later after my parents had driven from Chicago in the middle of the night only to return to the hospital that afternoon and have my dad carry me in his arms through the automatic doors. I was finally admitted and given the medical intervention I needed. Take it from me, you’re creating even more of an uphill climb for yourself if you don’t start speaking up when you initially notice something is awry.
The worst moments are just that, moments. When you hit your breaking point, when the pain seems overwhelming, and you can’t see the forest through the trees try to breathe. Go to your happy place. Recognize this is one day, one moment, I always tell myself “This too shall pass.” Go to your happy place mentally. Do mindfulness exercises. Shut out the outside world and focus on your breath. Detach from your body as best you can. Think of people who inspire you and bring you joy. Everything is fleeting. Each flare, each recovery, each prep, procedure, and surgery…it has a start and a finish. One day it will be a memory you talk about.
Pay attention to who is there when you when are quiet and when you’re going through the thick of it. IBD is too big to deal with alone. Lean on people you can trust, who you genuinely feel safe sharing your health woes with. This will be fewer people than you’d ever imagine. Be prepared to realize that many of the people you thought would be front and center to support you will be non-existent. It’s fine to mourn those friendships or relationships, but don’t waste your time or energy on them. Your disease will give you the ability to see who loves you and who wants to be present in not only the good times, but the bad. You can’t change people. Hold on tightly to the people who show up consistently, expecting nothing in return. Those are your people.
Emmanuel Acho shared a reel on Instagram recently that really hit home for me and caused me to reflect a bit on the people in my life and their roles. In the video he explains that friendship is like a house. You have your window, door, and floor friends. Window friends are outside looking in, they don’t know what’s going on in your house. They don’t have intimate access to what’s going on in your life. You can only let so many people into your house. Door friends come in and out of your life depending on the season. When life gets too hard or when your world turns cold, they might exit. Your friends might not be equipped for that season. Floor friends—aren’t going anywhere. You might track mud, but they will last regardless of the season. They are there to catch your tears and hear your fears. Remember—a house has more windows than it has doors and more doors than it does floors…if it has one good floor, you’re set.
Just because you need medication does not mean you’re taking the easy way out. I’ve been where you are. I remember lying helpless in a hospital bed and what it felt like to be told I needed to “break out the big guns” and start a biologic medication back in 2008 when there were only two options on the market for those with IBD. In that moment, we all naturally want to learn about side effects and what this could possibly mean for the long term. But please try and focus on the actual risk versus the benefit. As someone who has been on Humira since July 2008, I’m so grateful for my medication for allowing me to live a full life, bring babies into this world, and be a present, able-bodied, and active mom. It’s not all medicine, or all diet and lifestyle, often for many of us who have moderate to severe IBD we need a mix of both, and that’s ok. You can still thrive and be healthy, despite being on a medication with a black box label.
You are not a burden, and you deserve love. Any romantic partner who makes you feel less than, isn’t present when you need them most, or doesn’t show any empathy or interest in your daily reality isn’t going to stand the test of time. Use your IBD to your advantage to see your partner’s true colors. Be honest and upfront when you start dating and if you ever feel like you need to defend their actions or make excuses consider that a major red flag. Dating and marrying a person with a chronic illness isn’t for everyone, and that’s fine—but when it comes to people like you and me, we need a partner who is willing to take the challenge on beside us every step of the way. Find someone who you feel comfortable communicating openly with, who sees you for more than your disease.
IBD is not a battle to be “won” or “lost.” One of my pet peeves with any health condition or disease is when people say “so and so lost their battle”…they didn’t lose shit. Diseases are not a game. Oftentimes reaching remission is due to luck, disease severity, or surgery. I spent a decade of my life with active disease and have been in remission (thanks to surgery) for almost nine years. I don’t give myself credit for that, I’m not “winning.” It’s because of my efforts to stay diligent with my biologic, vitamins, safety labs, daily decisions, and check-ins with multiple specialists, but I also don’t think I’m at this point because of something special I’m doing compared to someone else. We’re all dealt a different hand of cards in life. Your IBD isn’t a win or lose situation—you’ll celebrate big victories and small ones, too, your disease can rob you at times, it’s a never-ending exchange and game of back and forth. You are not less than because you are flaring. You are not lazy for taking medication or failing because you struggle to follow a strict, regimented diet that may or may not help you. Once you stop thinking of everything as a “fight” it takes a bit of the stress, anger, and onus off your shoulders. IBD is a chronic illness, until there’s a cure, we’re in this situation until the day we die…that’s simply too long to be “fighting” anything.
Get ready to be extra proactive with your health. Due to the nature of our IBD and the medications many of us take, we are at greater risk for additional health problems. It’s important to get annual skin checks at the dermatologist. Make sure whether you have good vision or not that you’re seeing an eye doctor. Get cleanings at the dentist at least every six months. If you’re a female, make sure you get your well woman visits. We are greater risk for cervical cancer because many biologics don’t allow our bodies to fight off HPV, this may mean annual Pap smears. We’re also at an increased risk for breast cancer, so don’t delay your mammogram. Get a bone scan every 3-4 years, get one as close to diagnosis as you can so you have a baseline. Your GI may say it’s not necessary, it is. Steroids put us at risk for osteopenia and osteoporosis from an early age, this may mean you need to see a bone health doctor (yes, those exist). Those of us with IBD are at greater risk for pelvic pain, it can be helpful to see a Pelvic Floor Therapist who addresses those unique needs.
Faith can give you added strength and comfort. I understand faith is very individualized and looks different for each of us, but I can tell you as someone who is Greek Orthodox who has always been a faithful and prayerful person that I rely on my faith to guide me through my IBD each and every day. There’s a sense of comfort and hope that comes with believing God is watching over you through the good, the bad, and everywhere in between. When you’re diagnosed or flaring, it can test your faith. Hold on tightly to what you believe and lean on that (however it looks for you). I truly believe God gives his toughest lessons to his greatest teachers. One of my biggest fears as an IBD mom of 3 is that one of my children will get my disease one day. Each night before bed, I always pray with them and say, “keep my babies healthy, safe, and strong.”
My why. My motivation to push through each and every day.
Family planning takes time and effort. Just because you have IBD does not mean you can’t be a biological mom or dad one day. The journey will look a bit different, but this disease does not necessarily need to rob you of the experience if that’s what you want in your life. Communicate these desires with your GI so they can help prep your body for a baby. This can mean starting a prenatal vitamin and folic acid several months before trying. I had a colonoscopy before every pregnancy so that I could be given the ‘green light’ by my GI that we were cleared to try for a baby. When I was pregnant, my care was overseen by my OB, a maternal fetal medicine OB (high risk), and my GI. Unless you have perianal disease, you can have a vaginal birth, but oftentimes this is a discussion left to you and your care team. I personally chose to have 3 scheduled c-sections, because while I don’t have perianal Crohn’s, I didn’t want to risk tearing or causing a fistula to form. I would make the same choice if I had to do it all over again. I also stayed on my biologic through conception, pregnancy, and breastfeeding. These are all personal choices but there are many, many research studies available that show the safety and efficacy of doing so. If you feel you could have internal scarring due to past surgeries that could hinder your fertility, check in with a fertility specialist and have them help you investigate if there could be issues.
Educate yourself on insurance, prior authorizations, specialty pharmacies, and Pharmacy Benefit Managers (PBMS). Unfortunately, with IBD we are forced to do so much behind-the-scenes work to simply receive treatment and medication. You will waste countless hours and endless energy on the phone as these people give you the run around. Nobody ever seems to want to take ownership. Work with your gastroenterologist if you are denied a medication so they can write an appeal letter to insurance and go to bat for you. Stay on top of everything, don’t worry about annoying anybody. You gotta hustle. You gotta be frank and assertive. It’s not about hurting feelings; it’s about making sure people are doing their jobs and ensuring your course of treatment doesn’t get delayed because someone fumbles some paperwork. Our medications are time sensitive. Light a fire under people’s ass if you’re not getting responses you deserve. One of my friends on social media posted this over the weekend, “Managing specialty medications in January is an annual slap in the face to chronically ill people.” It sure is. This week will mark the first time I’ve ever received my injections late in the mail, due to a misstep in my GI office that I had to follow up on for over a week. Be extra proactive at the start of each year. Make sure your GI informs you about all the patient savings programs available, these can help you not only emotionally, but also financially.
You get the final say. No one but you gets to say what you do with your body. If a doctor wants you to do an enema before a scope and you don’t want to, don’t. If you don’t feel comfortable with taking a certain medication and your care provider keeps pushing it, they can’t physically make you pop a pill, take an injection, or receive an infusion. You must do your research, educate yourself every day, feel empowered by all you know and be ready to deal with the ramifications if you go against the grain or determine you want to try something differently. There’s not one “right” way to live with IBD. Be honest with your provider. Don’t say you’re taking a medication and then not take it, that’s not helping anyone or anything. Be a compliant patient, but an educated and empowered one at the same time. Measure all the risks and benefits and what your hopes and dreams are for your present life and for your future. Don’t ever feel like someone else can or should dictate what path your journey takes. Just because one biologic is a magic bullet for one person doesn’t mean it will be for you. You never fail treatments, they fail you. If a provider says “oh, you failed Remicade” … please correct them. “No, Remicade failed me.”
I write this as a 40-year-old mom of three—ages 6, 5, and 2.5 years old, married for almost 8 years, who has been on a biologic since 2008, who was diagnosed at age 21 in 2005. So much has changed for the better regarding the patient experience since that time. My perspective has come a long way. I used to be right where you are, so many are living your current reality. Instagram is the bread and butter for the patient community, that’s where you’ll find the most patients and caregivers transparently sharing. Follow the accounts, send a DM, comment on reels and posts, get engaged. Never hestitate to connect and reach out to me–natalieannhayden. Educate yourself through lived experiences and people who have paved the way for you, rather than Google. You don’t need to recreate the wheel, but this is your experience and your story. You get the final word on how you want each chapter to play out. Know each time you fall you will bounce back and that there’s a massive community of support here to catch you and cheer you on every step of the way as you rise once again.
