Chances are you’ve heard the song, “Who Runs the World (GIRLS)” by Beyonce. Think of that song and then imagine all the incredible women in the world juggling chronic illness, their careers, and their personal lives. It’s no small feat.
Until recently, there wasn’t a group to celebrate and support us. But now that’s changed thanks to the Chronic Boss Collective. It’s the first and only professional membership designed for ambitious businesswomen living with chronic health conditions to help women dream big in their careers while prioritizing their health without tradeoffs. The international networking membership includes monthly in-person and virtual programming rooted in three pillars: professional development, connection, and wellness.
This incredible group is the brainchild of Lilly Stairs, a well-respected patient advocate and entrepreneur. At the age of 19, Lilly was diagnosed with psoriatic arthritis and Crohn’s disease.
Making the concept become reality
The concept for Chronic Boss Collective had been on Lilly’s heart long before everything came into fruition. As an ambitious businesswoman who prioritizes her health and self-care, she had yet to find a space that holds these two statements to be simultaneously true. So, she created it.
“Throughout my career, I’ve met remarkable women whose lives have been turned upside down by a chronic condition, but they choose to keep going. They choose to give back. They choose ambition in the face of adversity. Every time I encountered a new woman who fit this profile, I couldn’t help but wonder how powerful it would be to get them in a network together,” said Lilly.
Because of her unique lens as a driven businesswoman living with chronic conditions and working in healthcare, she identified a gap that most people didn’t realize existed.
“For the past decade, I’ve had the privilege of watching extraordinary women transform their struggle into their strength. There’s an undeniable magic to these women living with chronic conditions who choose ambition. By harnessing that collective power, the Chronic Boss Collective is taking off like a rocketship.”
Currently there are 100 Founding Members. There’s an open enrollment period going on right now and new members are being accepted. Lilly tells me she expects to triple the membership over the course of this year. You can learn more and apply on the CBC website.”
Let’s talk Member Benefits
The Collective Membership is jam packed with benefits designed to help you level up in your health and wealth. Rooted in professional development, connection, and wellness, the Chronic Boss Collective offers the following benefits:
✔ Chronic Boss Mastermind
✔ Boss Boosts: Professional Development
✔ Boss Breaks: Wellness Events
✔ Monthly in Person Meetings (Boston Only)
✔ Private Online Community
✔ Member Directory
✔ Member Feature
✔ Affiliate Program
✔ Exclusive CBC Curated Resources
Detailed Benefits
Private Community
A custom online platform is complete with a private member directory, resource library, and buzzing chat rooms for you to network away with fellow ambitious members.
Chronic Boss Mastermind
Virtual mastermind with the entire membership! This jam-packed event includes:
Kickoff: Led by our Founder designed to amp you up and set intentions to get after your health and career goals this month.
Networking: Expand your reach and visibility and deepen your connections with the Chronic Boss Collective membership
Mastermind: Opportunity to submit a challenge you’re facing ahead of the meeting and then break into small groups to harness the power of the collective and mastermind it.
“Boss Round”: Lightning round of your top “ask” to get support where you need it most!
Boss Boosts: Professional Development
Monthly Boss Boost webinars lead by members and industry leaders presenting in their “Zone of Genius” designed to help you level up in your career. Think building your brand, negotiating your salary, starting a business while living with a chronic condition…and so much more.
Connection
Monthly in-person meet-up for chapter-based members – a mix of networking and fun!
Boss Breaks: Wellness
Quarterly wellness event centered on taking care of you. From mindful movement to gluten-free bake-alongs!
Member Spotlight
Get featured on the CBC social media and have the exclusive opportunity to contribute to media stories.
Resources
Proven methods, tools, and guides to help you level up in your career while maintaining your health.
Affiliate Program
Earn 10% commission when you refer new members to join!”
The priceless power of community
The Collective launched this past January (2023), and it is remarkable the impact it is already making on the lives of members.
“Every day, members are buzzing about the magic happening in Chronic Boss Collective. Women are connecting online and IRL to give each other valuable health support and share their best career and business advice. Our conversations skip the small talk and get straight to a point of vulnerability. The coolest part is that now our members are collaborating on projects that will make a real difference in people’s lives, like mental health resources and patient platforms.”
While CBC is seeking women who are ambitious, high achievers, and making an impact, fitting that description does not mean you have to be working as a full-time professional or running a large-scale business.
“For example, stay at home moms and chronic illness advocates who have monetized their advocacy work or built a side hustle (think Etsy shop, Amazon storefront, social media influencer, etc.) could be fabulous members,” said Lilly.
Requirements and cost to participate
The Collective is an exclusive membership for high achieving career women and all members go through an application and screening process before being accepted.
“Our virtual international membership is $397/year. Our chapter-based membership, which includes a once per month in person meeting, is $497/year. This is currently only available in the Boston area, but we have ambitious plans to scale to new cities in the coming years.”
Hopes and dreams for the future
Lilly says plans are in the works to massively scale the Chronic Boss Collective.
“Not only do we plan to scale the membership, but we plan to scale our offerings. In addition to the membership, we’ve already launched the Chronic Boss Scholarship which has awarded $31,000 to 31 students living with chronic conditions who have persevered and succeeded. We have big plans to usher in impactful programming that will serve the millions of women who choose ambition in the face of living with a chronic condition. Stay tuned…we’re just getting started!”
Feedback from CBC members
“The Chronic Boss Collective has changed my life in many ways. Since becoming a founding member and acknowledging my worth, my life has changed in ways I never could have imagined. The connections, opportunities, and immediate camaraderie amongst intelligent, inspirational, and courageous women has been my biggest blessing in 2024! The degree to which we draw strength from each other is something I have never witnessed in my life and I’m profoundly grateful to share my Chronic Boss journey with so many astonishing women.” – Lisa Z.
“This group is amazing. Thank you for launching this. I feel like this is the sisterhood that I didn’t know I needed whether for my health, business, or career and I’m just so thankful for it especially at this time in my life.” – Erika P.
“I can tell in just a month that I made the right decision to join. The connections I’ve made and leads already generated through the community will help me grow my design business and allow me to work with my people — authentic and adaptable chronically ill women who are changing healthcare.” – Sarah S.
Everybody copes and has their own unique tips and tricks for undergoing an MRE. I received more than 100 messages with recommendations, there was some overlap and similar advice—but I know our community could benefit from this information and find comfort in it. One of the most challenging aspects of undergoing medical scans and procedures is the mental health aspect—the wait, the wondering. Oftentimes these results do not go in our way and may indicate we are in a serious flare or need surgery. So, while the actual process of drinking contrast and dealing with claustrophobia can be intense, the challenges are often amplified by the dread of finding out the story behind our symptoms. Understand you are not alone in that. I try and just prepare myself for the worst, while hoping for the best. Nobody wants “bad” news, but once you go through the scan and have a better idea of what is going on and then you can go after the flare and get to feeling better.
Here’s the link to Part 1 of “Everything You Need to Know Before an MRE with IBD” in case you missed it.
Advice from the community to ease the MRE experience
“Whether it’s laying there saying prayers (like the Rosary) or focusing on doing something (like walking through Sun salutations or walking through doing something you love to do) that has helped me.”
“As a pediatric patient, my mom was allowed into the MRE room, and she held my foot (the only thing she could reach). Just feeling she was physically there helps my anxiety a lot. Ask for goggles that let you watch a movie are gamechangers because you can’t see anything but the movie, even if you tried!”
“I close my eyes and pretend that I’m lying on a beach and listening to country music. I feel comfortable knowing I can see my feet at the other end, and they can communicate with me. Honestly, I close my eyes and sing my heart out!”
“I listen to the loud banging noises and try to find melodies or patterns. Then, I repeat them back in my head and by the time I’ve done it a few times I’m in a meditative state or the test is over.”
“I try to look up/behind me if I start to feel claustrophobic and you can see outside! I also find it almost relaxing to count the loud clips and beeps. It gets your mind distracted.”
“Picture yourself someone you like; use deep breathing to help soothe your vagus nerve.”
“I know it’s not ideal, but if you are extremely overwhelmed you can always get the test under general anesthesia.”
“I focus on my breathing and imagine I’m in my favorite place.”
“Eye mask with no metal clasps and ear plugs (or music) helps to reduce the sensory overload for me.”
“Before you get in the tube, ask for a towel. Put it over your eyes and do not take it off until they let you out.”
“Deep breaths. Visualize you’re in your favorite place and ask for music. Ask your GI if moving forward Intestinal Ultrasound can replace getting an MRE.”
“I’m normally able to tilt my head up to see out the end of the tube. It helps me so much!”
“Breathing exercises can help.”
“Ask if there is a bariatric imaging machine so you have more room.”
“Slow deep breathing helps me prepare for it and calm down.”
“I close my eyes and envision being on a bench or somewhere hard but with open space for me.”
“Gadolinium has a high allergic reaction. Even if you have not had it before. Communicate with your care team and ask about taking Benadryl.”
“Meditation and Guided Imagery.”
“I take deep breaths and remind myself I am going to be ok. It was quicker than I had expected.”
“Take extra Xanax! I take it for flying and always need more than I think.”
“If they let you pick the music, pick it! Having my music really helps me.”
“See if an Open MRI is available. Otherwise, a big dose of benzos.”
“I’ve been Twilight sedated before, it’s the only way to go!”
“I took Zofran. I also wear MRI safe clothes, so I don’t have to change. I make sure there’s no metal in my bra.”
“Focus on breathing. Close your eyes before being rolled in. Think of something like planning a party or a holiday.”
“I hate it. Hate it. Hate it. Someone told me just don’t open your eyes and it worked.”
“I take Ativan and do breathing exercises.”
“Always ask for a towel or wash cloth to cover your eyes.”
“Keep your eyes closed the whole time. Do not peek. And ask for your favorite music to play.”
“I keep my mind focused on other topics and talk to God.”
“Take anxiety meds! If I have to do this again, I will take something.”
“Let your care team know before you enter the room that you’re claustrophobic.”
“Say Affirmations or imagine being on a vacation on a sunny beach. Anything to divert your mind.”
“Last time my nurse gave me an orange smelling strip that helped so much.”
“I close my eyes and pray or sing songs I like the most in my mind.”
“Slow breathing and counting (in for 4 seconds and out for 4 seconds) or listening to music while in the tube.”
“I always have a Life Saver candy between the contrast drinks.”
“I asked them to bring me back far enough so I could tip my head back and see the ceiling.”
“My sister needs to take 3 anxiety pills for the MRE.”
“Try to find your happy place and go to that in the tube.”
“Have all the good and happy plans run through your mind and ponder them. Daydreams! Mantras!”
“I write stories in my head—like manifestations.”
“Think of a beach on a sunny day.”
“Make lists in your head.”
“Definitely have anxiety meds on hand.”
“Bring a personal blanket. This always helps me.”
“Bring ear plugs in case they don’t have some for you.”
“Use a wedge pillow for your legs (ask for it).”
“Visualize the best vacation, start to finish. Try to remember every detail. Distract your mind!”
“Ask for a heated blanket, it can be chilly in there.”
“When your mind wanders, count. Count breaths in (5) and out (5) and focus on the numbers.”
“Some MRI machines offer a mirror, almost like a periscope. It shows you the outside!”
“Fast paced work out music helps me.”
“I ask before we start that they give me a time update every 15 minutes.”
“It makes me less anxious when I hear the weird and terrible sounds the machine makes if I have NSYNC playing. Have them play music you like that’s also light and funny. (As in 90’s boy bands!)
“My office gives lavender stickers to help calm you to place on the robe. It helped me!”
“I’m SO claustrophobic but I always self-talk “I’m a mother and set the example for my kids.”
“Tell the tech you are nervous. Ask them to check in with you more than they usually would.”
“Remember you can squirm out of the bottom if you need to. Knowing that makes me feel less trapped.”
“Lavender essential oil.”
“I took half a Xanax and enjoyed every second…haha.”
“Take the meds and extra, if possible. I’ve taken up to 4-5 mg of Ativan!”
“They let you choose your radio station or podcast, which can help.”
“I’ve listened to the Hamilton soundtrack. I struggle more with getting the contrast down.”
“Meditation! I always do it before, during, and after.”
“Prepare a playlist or an audiobook and ask if the tech can play it over the speaker.”
“I pray the entire time, so I don’t panic.”
“Try not to investigate too much about the details, it may worry you too much.”
“It’s easier to go in feet first, I don’t know why…but it is.”
“Use the help/panic button and take a break midway through if needed.”
“Be prepared to hold your breath a lot—the tech will guide you.”
“Request a helmet with a mirror. It’ll help you see out of the tube.”
“Try and see how many song lyrics you can remember.”
“Tell them you are nervous. They are more understanding and will talk you through it more.”
“Make sure you give the anxiety meds at least 30 minutes to work their magic.”
“The pills help tremendously, but I also bring an eye mask.”
“Thank you for doing this article, I’ve canceled my MRE twice now out of fear.”
Nearly 19 years of living with Crohn’s disease and this past week I experienced an MRE (Magnetic Resonance Enterography) scan for the second time. I felt nervous, overwhelmed, and scared leading up to the test. The only other time I had an MRE was in July 2015 while hospitalized with a bowel obstruction. The scan was used to determine whether I needed surgery. I was out of it and have little to no recollection of the experience. The results from my MRE in 2015 informed my GI team back then that I needed 18 inches of my intestine removed. Fast forward to the present day, and after being in deep remission since that surgery, I started to experience a worrisome uptick in symptoms beginning in early March 2024.
It took a month to get in for the MRE, but I knew in my heart-of-hearts I needed to get answers. Leading up to the scan, I crowdsourced questions on Instagram and received an outpouring of support that helped make the experience nearly seamless for me. This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s I provide a behind-the scenes look at what it’s like to get an MRE and share firsthand advice from a patient advocate who is truly an “MRE pro”. Due to the amount of information, we’re breaking this bad boy up into two parts.
Walking you through the process
I had to arrive at the medical center at 10:15 am and was advised not to eat or drink four hours prior. I set my alarm for 6 a.m. and drank some water. When it was time to get in the car with my husband to head to my MRE, I took a Zofran to help prevent nausea from drinking all the contrast. After arriving at the imaging center, I was brought back to a room where I answered health questions and changed into a hospital gown and pants. I wore a sports bra without metal but was told I couldn’t wear it due to some synthetic fabrics. Then, I received my IV. The nurse took one look at my arms and grabbed a vein finder machine. For those who don’t know, this looks like a wand and puts a light over your arm to highlight veins so the nurse can pick the best option. My husband held the wand for her as she did my IV and she got it on the first try. That was a big win for me.
Once the IV was in, an MRI tech brought me three bottles of contrast (450 ml) to drink, about 46 ounces of fluids. I was told I had 20 minutes for each bottle and hopefully that I would have all three bottles down in an hour. Worst case the tech said I needed two. She told me not to chug too fast as that might make me nauseous. I took it with a straw and scrolled on my phone to distract myself. The contrast tasted like a super flat Sprite with a dull citrus taste. I’ve heard many people must do this in a public waiting room, I was grateful to be in a private room with my husband.
Due to my claustrophobia and anxiety about the test, my GI prescribed pre-meds for me that I picked up from Walgreens prior to the day of my test. He prescribed me four, 0.25 mg Xanax. I had never taken Xanax and did not know how it would make me feel. I called the Radiology center the day before the scan to ask whether I’d be able to get anything in my IV if I was too anxious, and they said if you’re outpatient you can only take anxiety meds orally.
Fellow IBD patients advised I take one Xanax the night before to have an idea of how it made me feel. I followed that advice and I’m so glad I did! Knowing how I responded took a bit of the stress off my shoulders. I took my first Xanax the moment I started the contrast (1 hour prior to the MRE) and then 30 minutes later I took .50 mg (2 pills) because I didn’t feel calm enough. For me, that was the perfect dosage. I felt completely coherent but chill and relaxed.
When I walked into the MRI room I asked if I could have headphones and listen to music. The techs asked me what kind of music I wanted; I said something upbeat like Taylor Swift. Then, I asked for a washcloth to put over my eyes. The scan took 45 minutes, I didn’t have one moment of fear or anxiety. There are lots of loud banging sounds and you hear the tech’s voice instruct you when to hold your breath and when to breathe. I felt very at ease and at the end started to doze off!
Since I had been NPO all day and it was 1 p.m. I was given a bag of pretzels and a bottled water after I changed back into my clothes. My husband had to leave during the scan to pick up our younger two from preschool, but the timing was perfect, and he swung back and grabbed me, so I did not have to drive after the scan. I felt tired afterwards.
After about 3 hours I started to get excruciating abdominal pain that I was not expecting. I’ve since been told by fellow patients that this is a result of the contrast and that it’s not unusual. I was very uncomfortable for about four hours. I spent a long time in the bathroom and on the couch with the heating pad. By about 9 p.m. I felt back to normal.
Guidance from a Veteran IBD Warrior and MRE Pro
Rocio Castrillon has lived with Crohn’s disease for more than 20 years and underwent countless MRIs specific to her IBD, but also for a multitude of other reasons including—Brain, Face/Sinus, Shoulder, Cervical Spine, Lumbar Spine, Legs, and Knee. She’s a true patient advocate in every sense of the word and someone I admire greatly. Through my recent experience, Rocio helped me immensely and even texted me the morning of my scan on her own accord, throughout my test as I drank the contrast, and after when I was stuck in the bathroom in pain. This is a true example of someone who goes out of their way behind the scenes to be a source of comfort and support for others. We have never met in person (yet!) and there’s this level of friendship between us.
“While MREs are specifically used for IBD patients, due to the contrast ingested, as well as injected, they are more complex than the traditional MRI and tend to be lengthier in time. Due to my anxiety and claustrophobia, I’ve had to utilize coping techniques to undergo MRIs and although they are still challenging, it’s yet another aspect of my IBD I’ve overcome. While these recommendations are primarily for IBD patients, many can be considered for a traditional MRI,” explained Rocio.
Check out Rocio’s step-by-step advice as your gear up for your next MRE:
PLANNING
At the time that an MRE is ordered by your gastroenterologist, there are a few considerations to keep in mind. MREs will require prior authorization which may take weeks. Fortunately, this time will allow you to explore options for locations.
In most cases, the MRE is ordered to be performed at the imaging facility that is affiliated with your provider, but you do not have to do your MRE there.
Oftentimes, there are private imaging centers, not affiliated with an academic institution, which can be more cost-effective.
MRI machines are now available in a wider bore design to help reduce anxiety and are recommended for claustrophobic patients. The feeling of a more “open” machine is beneficial. But to locate one, you must call around to determine if your recommended imaging facility has them and/or if you need to seek out an external facility.
At the time of your gastroenterologist appt., and if you have anxiety and/or claustrophobia, Rocio strongly suggests requesting a prescription for a sedative used for panic disorders, such as: Ativan, Klonopin or Xanax, which are short-to-intermediate in duration. While you will only need a prescription for one pill, keep in mind that there are many states that now require identification to pick up controlled substances.
Please note that if you do take a sedative, you will be required to have a driver to accompany you, as you will not be allowed to drive yourself.
Also, at the time of your gastroenterologist appt., and if you have nausea, Rocio strongly suggests requesting a prescription for Zofran to be utilized prophylactically.
Once the prior authorization for your MRE is approved, you will be able to schedule. Request an appt. time that works with your personal eating schedule. Because MREs require fasting, as well as contrast ingestion, patients may find it challenging to drink contrast early in the morning. Rocio tends to have more nausea in the mornings, so she prefers to schedule mid-day scans. While this does mean a longer fasting time, it also allows her to drink more contrast.
DAY BEFORE
Rocio eats a light diet the day before the MRE to prevent nausea as much as possible. While this is not necessary, she’s found it helps with nausea and vomiting.
HYDRATE…before AND after your MRE. While the technicians will explain the need to hydrate following an MRE, hydrating beforehand will allow for easy access to veins for the IV needed to inject the contrast. Hydrating after is crucial to eliminate the contrast from your body.
DAY OF MRE
Before leaving home, be sure to remove all jewelry and/or metal from your body. Because an MRI machine uses a magnetic field, you cannot have any metal on you. Women will be asked to remove their undergarments which have metal.
Additionally, if you continue masking in medical facilities, your mask will be switched out for a mask without metal that the technician will provide you.
An hour prior to the scheduled arrival time, take the prescription Zofran so it has time to kick in before needing to begin the contrast. It will help prevent/reduce the level of nausea and/or vomiting from the contrast.
Upon arrival at the imaging facility, you can take the sedative, as this will allow it time to kick in before you begin the imaging. Because there will be a window of time when you need to consume the contrast and when the imaging begins, this typically works well.
Contrast! While many academic institutions have shifted to a new contrast, Breeza, which is lemon-lime flavored, it is not always available to patients. In the past, Rocio has consumed other contrasts. She wholeheartedly agrees that Breeza is certainly better “tasting” than those in the past. But in full transparency, it still is contrast…haha.
For all her MREs, Rocio has been provided with three bottles of Breeza. Unfortunately, she cannot consume all of them, and at best, she’s drank a maximum of one bottle. While this is certainly not ideal from an imaging perspective, and is NOT medical advice, she’s been fortunate to have been “allowed” to perform the test with just one contrast bottle. The imaging that has resulted has sufficed for the radiologist to review and for her gastroenterologist to see results.
Insider Tip: While this may not be available to all patients at all facilities, Rocio always requests to sit near a bathroom and/or near a trash can if she is in the main waiting area. She says she already has enough anxiety about the MRE, and having people watch her drink contrast tends to make her more anxious. Note this is NOT always readily available, and you will have to adapt to what is available at your facility.
MRE START
Upon finishing the contrast, the technician will take you back to the MRI machine where you will be laid flat. If you have anxiety and/or claustrophobia, be sure to alert the technician as they can make you more comfortable in a few ways.
Typically, a technician will ask for your music preference as they’re able to control the music that you hear via headphones (provided to you)
Rocio prefers relaxation/spa music as it helps to keep her calm.
Depending on your facility, there are mirrors that can be placed to allow you to “see” the surroundings and not actually have a view of the MRI tube. It enables patients to have the “illusion” that they can see the outside – either images displayed on the ceiling, or the room where the technician is sitting. This has been a lifesaver for her!
During the MRE, the technician will explain everything to the patient through a speaker that you can hear in the machine. You will also be able to respond to the technician and they can always hear you. You will also be provided with an emergency panic button to press, should you need to come out of the machine for any reason.
During the MRE, the technician will advise when they are starting the contrast through your IV. You should not feel anything except a quick sensation of nausea that passes immediately. This doesn’t happen to everyone, but it’s common.
Rocio says for some patients, like herself, who have been unable to consume all the contrast or who have slow motility, sometimes an injection called Glucagon will be utilized. This improves the quality of the images, but it does cause side effects. You will be instructed to ease into resuming eating and avoid any high protein foods due to slow digestion.
At the conclusion of the exam, you will be instructed to hydrate and begin eating slowly. Much like post-colonoscopy, Rocio recommends light meals for a few hours.
Due to Rocio’s extreme nausea and vomiting, she typically does not tolerate the contrast after the exam and tends to get sick shortly after. This is NOT the norm, but she recommends having an emesis bag in your car. As a reminder, if you have taken a sedative, you will not be allowed to drive yourself.
Considerations regarding contrast
While the actual scan experience was more pleasant than I had anticipated, about 3 hours after getting home I started getting terrible stabbing pains in my abdomen and had to run to the bathroom multiple times. At one point my husband came upstairs to check on me because I had been in the bathroom for so long. I was not aware or told that the contrast could cause this type of response. When sharing this on Instagram and after talking with Rocio, I learned how common this is within our community, especially for those who are symptomatic.
An IBD mom whose daughter has Crohn’s shared helpful insight for those who are on special diets or have difficulty tolerating contrast drinks.
Kristen tells me for MRE’s her daughter mixes Miralax in a specific amount of water that the MRI tech recommends, if she had to guess 40-60 oz over an hour. She says this helps prevent stomach cramping and uptick in symptoms. Kristen says some patients on the Specific Carbohydrate Diet (SCD) also drink pineapple juice (Lakewood brand or another organic fresh pressed brand) with Miralax.
“I found through this experience with my daughter that there was not much knowledge about how what you put in your body in the way of contrast, may affect inflamed intestines. Large amounts of sugar alcohol in contrast causes my daughter terrible pains for hours afterwards. Everyone is obviously different, and this disease is unique to each person, but I did a lot of research and we have found that the combo of a biologic plus SCD diet has really helped my daughter maintain remission, for now anyway.”
Kristen’s daughter had bowel resection surgery to remove strictures in her terminal ileum 7 years ago when she was 13 years old. She’s added some food back, but she’s strict with eating only whole foods and great about taking her medication.
Tomorrow on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s hear input and helpful MRE advice from 80 IBD warriors along with how to cope with the mental health aspect of going into a test and not knowing how the results are going to impact your life. As I was working on this article, I found out from my IBD nurse that my MRE results were within normal limits and that there is no evidence of active inflammatory bowel disease. While I’m thrilled and grateful to receive this news, it’s always perplexing when you’re more symptomatic than normal and your labs and scans don’t reflect a reason why.
This post is sponsored by Corra. All thoughts and opinions shared are my own.
For as long as Elya Lane can remember she had signs and symptoms of a health condition. It wasn’t until college that she received her official diagnosis of Ehlers Danlos Syndrome and POTS. She says her poor health started to spiral with other comorbidities popping up, the worst of which was chronic UTIs that left her whole body in crippling, burning pain and weak from the antibiotics. Elya’s personal journey with chronic illness inspired her to create the Corra App. This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s we learn about how she made her dream a reality and how she hopes to improve peoples’ lives.
The breaking point
“I was constantly plagued with fears of antibiotic resistance, infection complications, or complications from long term antibiotic use. I got to the point where I was so sick that I wrote letters to my kids and my family in case something happened to me. I started tracking all our passwords and making videos for my husband on where our important files were, how different things were stored, all the kids’ data, etc. While I tried to face this potential outcome bravely, I was devastated imagining my kids growing up without a mom,” said Elya.
As she navigated these dark and daunting days, the despair caused her to think about how she could fight back and regain control of her health.
“I started to religiously track my health in journals before transferring to Excel spreadsheets. I was so frustrated by how exhausting and impossible it felt to crunch that much data, so I turned to searching for a symptom track and correlative software to help me. I downloaded and tried every single one I could find – but none met my needs. Some even gave me back faulty data which made me angry. That’s when I decided to create a solution myself,” she explained.
In 2020, after losing access to all her healthcare management tools, and with her health declining rapidly, she decided to create Corra.
The meaning of Corra
There are quite a few chronic illness apps on the market, some that even attempt to offer correlative insights. Corra is short for correlations. Elya wanted to identify correlations in her health so that she could find her triggers and optimize her lifestyle.
Here’s what sets Corra apart from other chronic illness apps on the market:
The algorithm was custom built by Corra’s chief data scientist, Simeon Wilson, who has a master’s in quantitative economics from UCLA. “We are not aware of any software that exists that compares to what Corra is currently offering with our correlative algorithm.”
Corra was designed by individuals with chronic illness. “Not just me! While the idea and original designs are all mine, we brought on more than 200 beta testers with various chronic illnesses to provide their feedback and help us tailor the app to the needs of the chronic illness community. Even now, we continue to rely on the insights and feedback from the community to enhance and adjust the app. I want Corra to always be designed by and created for our community.”
We correlate with nutrition in an accurate and helpful way. “I believe nutrition plays a massive role in our health so one of our key focuses with our algorithm was to be able to correlate seamlessly with nutrition inputs.”
Corra does not sell user’s data. “We don’t scrape your data from your device or browsing history, we don’t use your data to sell you anything, we don’t share your data with third parties. Your data is yours alone. As an individual with a chronic illness who often feels more like a commodity than a person, making sure people can receive personalized insights into their health without signing away their privacy is incredibly important to me.”
Corra’s bells and whistles to check out
The ability to track health data in one place without having to use five different apps to log information. “My favorite part of Corra is of course the correlations, because getting detailed insights like that about my health is equivalent to having a team of data scientists run extensive tests on my health and provide me reports. It’s life changing to be able to learn about my health overtime and create a custom-built lifestyle that caters to my future.”
Discovering positive and negative correlations. “You may receive insight that something has x% chance of increasing or decreasing a symptom. I think being able to get data on the things that are helping is just as important as being able to identify triggers.”
The ability to log appointments, download PDFs of your data to share with my doctor, track medications and supplements, track mood and stress levels, etc. “I’m also extremely excited about all the upcoming integrations we have in the works! Soon we will be connected to Fitbit and Apple Health with Garmin, Cronometer, Weather data, and hopefully Oura coming shortly after! Over time we will continue to integrate with as many devices and apps as possible so users can have all their data in one location!”
A promising future
Elya says being able to learn what foods, activities, supplements, and medications help or cause symptoms has enabled her to have a much better understanding of how best to manage her health conditions.
“I’ve been told to go vegan, cut out red meat, don’t eat dairy, sugar, gluten, eat paleo, try a carnivore diet, go vegetarian, and try cutting out leafy greens… what I found with Corra is that I didn’t need to make these drastic nutrition changes, I only needed to cut out some foods in each of those categories. For example, I discovered that I have a high trigger correlation with ground beef. I can eat steak and other red meat, but not ground beef. Similarly, chicken thighs are a trigger for me, but chicken breast is not. Same with gluten, there are some gluten products that are triggering for me, but not all gluten triggers me. Being able to identify exactly which foods to cut out, rather than willy nilly cutting out entire food groups or going on drastic diet changes, has been an absolute game changer.”
Elya has also discovered that cold and flu medications like Mucinex are major triggers for her. This helped her realize why she would get a horrible flare a few days after coming down with a cold or flu.
“Now, I try to manage my colds and flus with other medicine to try to prevent the flare on top of the cold. It’s also important to note that I’m not cured! I have to manage my diet and my activities and my supplements every day. The difference is, I’m no longer throwing shots in the dark, I now have the information I need to manage my condition to the best of my ability.”
Information really is power, and it has given Elya control over her life and reduced her anxiety. Because of Corra, she is now coming up on two years without the need for daily antibiotics. It’s been over 2 years since she visited the emergency room.
“I’ve found that medical providers are far more willing to accept unbiased data from an algorithm than trust my verbal expression of my experience, so in that way Corra becomes my advocate and backs up my statements,” said Elya.
She says her health conditions have caused her to go through depression, isolation, and hopelessness. But her hope for Corra is two-fold.
“First, I believe it can help others identify their triggers and optimize their life so that their conditions can become more manageable, but I also hope that Corra can be a beacon of light for those struggling to see they are not alone. There are so many steps between the start of symptoms and any kind of treatment let alone cure (depending on if your condition is even curable)… and I want to be the one that goes into the trenches and helps people who are suffering the most. So many people in the chronic illness community get forgotten or left with “your test results are normal” when they know there is something wrong with them. I want to create a company that comes alongside them and lifts them up and allows them to have their voices heard.”
Downloading Corra
You can download Corra directly from the App store or the Android playstore. There is a free version as well as premium access. The premium version is $7.99/month or $24.99 if you enroll for a 6-month subscription. Elya is looking for Corra Insiders who are interested in getting free access to the app. By joining the Insiders group, you get a first look at upcoming features. This provides you the opportunity to share feedback on what you do/don’t like or would like to see improved or added in the future. Sign up for the Corra Insiders program here.
Kids are more intuitive than we tend to give them credit for. They are always watching us and even before they’re able to speak in sentences they have an innate sense of empathy and understanding. As an IBD mom of three, whose kids are almost 7, 5, and 2.5, I’ve started to think more lately about how to explain my Crohn’s disease to them in a way that will educate them, without scaring them. It can be a difficult balance.
I know my older two know mama gives herself shots, often needs to run to the bathroom, and gets “tummy aches” but I haven’t yet dropped the term “Crohn’s” or “disease” to them quite yet. It can be hard to explain and sometimes when I start trying to share more, I feel like it’s still going over their heads. Their concerned eyes when I’m in pain and how they watch me do my Humira injections is a reminder to me that they are aware something is going on. As we potty train my youngest, he commends himself for going on the potty by saying he’s “just like mama” …ah, what a great analogy!
This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s hear from several IBD parents about how they transparently communicate their experiences with Crohn’s disease and ulcerative colitis. It can be a fine line educating and being open, while also trying not to overwhelm and scare kids. I’ve found it extremely helpful tapping into the community and gaining input from others and I hope you do, too!
Helpful Guidelines for Navigating the conversation with your kids
Choose the right time. Pick a time when you won’t be interrupted and can focus on the conversation. Ensure it’s a moment when you and your children are feeling calm, at ease, and open to discussion. My recommendation as an IBD mom would be to have this conversation on a “feel good” day—rather than when you’re flaring or in the hospital.
Prepare yourself. Decide in advance how much detail you want to share based on your child’s age and maturity level. IBD is complicated, be ready for a range of emotions including sadness, fear, and even anger.
Use age-appropriate language. Explain your IBD in a way that is understandable to your child. Avoid using confusing or technical terms. For younger kids, it might be helpful to compare your illness to something they already understand.
Be honest but reassuring. You can be transparent and truthful, but also reassure them about all you do to manage and control your IBD. Empathize with the aspects of your daily life that won’t change, to provide them with a sense of stability and comfort.
Focus on practical impacts. Explain how your IBD might affect your daily routine or activities with them in a straightforward way. Use examples such as—“Mommy’s Crohn’s can be unpredictable, I may say we’re going to the park, but then I don’t feel well so we have a movie date and snuggle instead and plan to go to the park another day.”
Encourage questions. Allow your children to ask questions and express their feelings and know this will be an ongoing conversation throughout life. Go into the conversation without expectations. It’s ok to admit if you don’t have all the answers. You can explore some of the questions together.
Provide continuous support. Let your kids know that it’s okay to have and express their feelings about your IBD. Offer them ongoing support and reassurance. Let them know they can always come to you with questions or concerns at any time.
Seek support when needed. Consider enlisting the help of a therapist or a counselor, especially if you or your children are struggling to cope. Joining support groups and tapping into the online patient community and connecting with fellow IBD families in similar situations can be beneficial.
Keep the conversation going. Check in with your children regularly about your IBD and how you’re feeling. Be casual about it. Share when you see an opportunity to teach or calm fears that your kids may be internalizing.
Highlight the positives. While acknowledging the challenges, also focus on the positive aspects, such as the strength of your family unit or the support you have from friends and community. I always tell my kids when I’m doing my injection that mommy is strong, and we can all do hard things.
By approaching the conversation with honesty, sensitivity, and openness, you can help your children understand and cope with your chronic illness in a healthy way.
My 2-year-old trying to make me smile during a rough day in the bathroom.
IBD as a family disease
There’s a common saying in our community that IBD is a family disease, in that whether you have Crohn’s or ulcerative colitis or not, if someone in your nuclear family has it, the disease impacts your living experience in some way.
Emily and her husband have IBD and so do their three daughters, so discussions about IBD are frequent in their home since it’s a living reality for all five of them. She tells me the conversations tend to fall in one of the following categories:
1) Explanations of IBD details, procedures, surgeries, or diet needs for a member (or members) of the family.
2) Discussions to calm anxieties in one child about the presentation of IBD in themselves or in another family member.
She says the second category tends to be the more challenging conversations, by far.
“In the first category, we tend to stick to factual, age-appropriate explanations. For example, when our five-year-old needed to know about scopes and surgeries, we explained that a specific family member has “belly problems” and the doctor is helping by taking pictures of their belly and fixing the parts that were causing trouble,” explained Emily.
As the girls have gotten older, Emily says they add details about how the doctors do different procedures – always led by their child’s level of interest and desire for the knowledge.
“We are always honest about pain or discomfort related to medical procedures. Many things are NOT painful, and we want them to trust us that something does not hurt if we tell them. This has served us well. When surgery was needed for one daughter, we discussed how she would be sore afterwards, but we had ways to help the pain until it would subside. This was undoubtedly a challenging time for us, but our daughter did amazing,” Emily said.
As Emily’s girls have gotten older, as a preteen and teen, they understand more about their parents,’ and their own, IBD. They have lived through surgeries and many medical procedures in their family. Emily says now the more challenging conversations have started, related to knowing the possibilities around IBD.
“For example, I had a colon perforation following a routine monitoring scope for my IBD. It was a rare event that we are all warned about prior to a colonoscopy. It resulted in a more significant repair surgery and several days in the hospital. My daughters are old enough to realize that they also have scopes regularly and we had to have some discussions about the chance that the same thing could happen to them. It was challenging for our family for a few rounds of scopes!”
Emily says they addressed this topic mostly by focusing on the “helpers” as the iconic Mr. Rogers would! Yes, bad things can happen, but she reminded her daughters that they are so lucky to have doctors and medical professionals to “fix” these problems. She reminds them that they are lucky to have family and friends to help when they are not feeling well. She also talks about how they are lucky to have each other – who understand the ups and downs of this disease.
“This narrative has gotten our family through many challenges! I talk with my oldest daughter much more now about the details of her IBD. She is a teen and has had more than her fair share of IBD troubles. She has watched me deal with my challenges too. We are open with each other about the negative parts, and our frustrations having to deal with IBD. It is a double-edged sword to have her growing up! On the one hand – I hate that she is old enough to really understand the negatives. But she is also turning into an amazing young woman who is one of my closest confidants with this disease. We understand each other’s highs and lows like most cannot. We supported each other in challenging times and celebrate together for each win!”
Sari says she bought a couple of children’s books that feature a caregiver with chronic illness.
“One of them is titled ‘Some days’…it’s about a mom with multiple sclerosis, but it works for IBD, too. It goes over how some days are more exciting and others are simpler more restful days. If there are other kids’ books people have found, I’d love to hear about them!”
Kate also has a book by someone with Crohn’s, but says they’ve also always been very honest and open about it with her son.
“I always worried he would tell people too much, but I’ve found he’s incredibly respectful and it has made me feel less shame in my body because I talk to him so positively about it. Especially the perianal disease, which has been really hard to talk about with people. My son is six and understands my immune system attacks my digestive tract. We also have a puzzle of the body we have played with for years and he knows the colon, intestines, rectum, etc. because of that.”
Becca says one of her favorite memories as an IBD mom is when her daughter was learning body parts and said, “Mommy and I have vulvas, Daddy has a penis, Daddy and I have butts, and mommy has a bag!” She also often asks to see her “cut” on my belly (c-section scar), but I constantly remind her that she shares her “cut” with a lot of intestine.”
Becca also says for the longest time her daughter thought that EVERY mom gets an ostomy bag when they’ve had a baby.
“She didn’t realize I had mine for four years before she was born!”
As an IBD Dad, Brandon said he stumbled upon a video series when his son was around age five that provided a solid explanation. At the time his son had a broken arm.
“The video explained people have booboos you can’t see. I explained that I had what the girl in the video has. Nowadays, I show both my boys’ photos from my colonoscopies.”
You can watch the video Brandon showed his son here.
Here are additional books about chronic illness that others have recommended:
When you’re diagnosed with Crohn’s disease or ulcerative colitis it’s a lot to process. When I started this blog in 2016 and after living with Crohn’s for nearly 19 years, my focus has always been to be the voice I needed to hear upon diagnosis and what it was like to experience young adulthood with a chronic illness. As a 21-year-old, fresh out of college, I had to navigate my career, finding love, and becoming a mom with IBD on my own. The first decade I wasn’t publicly sharing my story and didn’t know there was a patient community to tap into online for support.
The first week I started experiencing Crohn’s symptoms-March 2005, Senior Spring Break in the Bahamas
Often as the years go by and we get beyond the initial shock of hearing the news and what this means for our lives, we tend to forget the challenges we faced to gain our footing. This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s I share some tokens of knowledge I’ve gained along the way that I hope will help you on your own journey, no matter where you find yourself at this moment.
Healing—physically, mentally, and emotionally is not linear. We all experience IBD uniquely—some people’s disease course is milder, others have it severe. We all cope differently with knowing and living with a chronic illness. Give yourself grace in the difficult moments. It’s ok to feel resentment or anger. It’s understandable to wonder at times “why me.” It’s “normal” to feel scared and anxious whether you’re a few weeks or a few decades in. Sometimes it’s taking things one hour at a time, other times it’s taking them one day at a time. Because of how quickly a flare up can strike, I try to live in the now and not worry about tomorrow.
You didn’t have control of getting your chronic illness, but you can control how you react and choose to heal from it. It’s easy to feel like you may be to blame if your health takes a turn for the worse. But understand this is not your fault. The unpredictability of IBD makes it feel like we’re often in the passenger seat and spiraling in circles, but this disease cannot control how you react, respond, and choose to heal from it. No matter what, you’re in control of the healing process. Whether it’s finding support through fellow patients and caregivers or through professional therapy, you won’t look back and you’ll be setting yourself up to take this on to the best of your ability.
There is no comparison game. Since the majority of people are diagnosed with IBD in their teens and into their 30s, it can be easy to try and measure your timeline and accomplishments to that of your peers who do not have chronic illness. It can also be tempting to look at people in the patient community who seem to have the world by the tail, when you’re struggling to get out of bed each day. This isn’t a competition of the sickest or a ploy to see who can smile through the pain and get more done. The only person you need to answer to, is who you see looking back in the mirror. You determine what you’re capable of and what you want in life. Your roadmap is yours and you’re right where you’re meant to be.
You set the benchmark for what’s possible. Your IBD is part of you, but it’s not your entire identity. Remember that even patient advocates are posting somewhat of a highlight reel. Even those who are working, in love, and parenting are dealing with their own struggles, too. My best advice would be to think about what you hope for in life (don’t even think of your IBD as part of the equation) and go after it. Yes, your health may cause some detours and roadblocks, but you won’t find your way unless you try.
No one knows your body better than you. I don’t care how many letters someone has after their name, they aren’t living in your body and experiencing what you feel each moment of every day. Be vocal when you need to be. Communicate as much as you can with your care team and paint the clearest picture of your reality. If you keep parts of your struggles to yourself or dumb down the severity of your day-to-day life, the only person you’re hurting is yourself. Learn about nutritional bloodwork and advocate for yourself to be tested for a full iron panel with Ferritin and Vitamin D. Get labs every 3-4 months so you can keep a finger on the pulse of what’s going on with your body. If you feel like your provider is being lackadaisical, don’t hesitate to get a second opinion. Take ownership of your health and find a provider who in your darkest moments you would feel most comfortable by your bedside in the hospital.
Make sure your GI specializes in IBD. There are gastroenterologists and there are gastroenterologists who specialize in Crohn’s and ulcerative colitis. Once you’re diagnosed with IBD, it’s imperative you try to find a GI who is an IBDologist. This can be tricky if you live in a rural area, it may mean you need to travel several hours to find a provider who fits the bill. If you move or are unsure of a good GI to check out, it’s helpful to reach out to your local Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation chapter and often they can help point you in the right direction.
Diet and stress levels matter. Read that again. Any doctor who tells you diet, and stress doesn’t impact your disease process is wrong. There are incredible registered dietitians throughout the US who specialize in IBD, and many of them have IBD themselves! Before you start restricting yourself or your child, make an appointment—most provide virtual options and this will help you get educated on what works best for you. What is a trigger for one person, isn’t necessarily a trigger for another. There isn’t a one-size-fits-all diet or else we would all do it.
Emotions will strike when you least expect them. Even almost 19 years in, I’ll sometimes break down and cry when I think about my Crohn’s or how it makes me feel. Just because you become a veteran patient doesn’t necessarily mean you fully ever heal from the hurt life with a chronic illness causes. It’s ok to have these moments where you may feel like you’re allowing your disease to control your emotions, you’re not. You’re human. It’s healthy to feel frustrated and to get emotional about what your life is like because you have IBD.
You’ve endured more than you give yourself credit for. As chronic illness patients we go through so much that often we don’t even bat an eye over experiences that would be extremely painful or stressful to the average person. Think about what a bad ass you are and how that carries over into each and everything you do in life. If you’re newly diagnosed you will get there—but even those initial weeks and months, you’re enduring more than the people who have their IBD under control and have a good handle on their body. No matter how many surgeries, scopes, scans, and IVs I’ve had, I always get a little teary eyed because it brings me back to 21-year-old me and then all the trauma that comes along with living with Crohn’s for 19 years. While those tears are sad, they also come from the strength of reflecting on what I’ve gone through to bring me to now.
Stay in tune with how your body is speaking to you through symptoms, do not ignore them. It can be challenging to communicate what you’re feeling to someone who does not have IBD. I get that. But by protecting loved ones, friends, and doctors from what you’re experiencing you’re preventing them from stepping in before it’s too late and before you know it your flare has gotten out of control and requires hospitalization. I used to be that person all the time. I would always internalize the pain, silently fighting through each day, doing anything possible to stay out of the hospital until the symptoms were simply unavoidable and required medical intervention. One hospitalization always sticks out in my mind. It was May 2009. I was a 25-year-old morning news anchor in Wisconsin. I was solo producing a 2-hour morning show dealing with horrible abdominal pain that kept making me throw up in the garbage can next to my desk in the newsroom as I struggled to put together the show. Finally, I couldn’t take it anymore and I had to call my co-anchor, who rushed me to the hospital. I was released from the ER hours later after my parents had driven from Chicago in the middle of the night only to return to the hospital that afternoon and have my dad carry me in his arms through the automatic doors. I was finally admitted and given the medical intervention I needed. Take it from me, you’re creating even more of an uphill climb for yourself if you don’t start speaking up when you initially notice something is awry.
The worst moments are just that, moments. When you hit your breaking point, when the pain seems overwhelming, and you can’t see the forest through the trees try to breathe. Go to your happy place. Recognize this is one day, one moment, I always tell myself “This too shall pass.” Go to your happy place mentally. Do mindfulness exercises. Shut out the outside world and focus on your breath. Detach from your body as best you can. Think of people who inspire you and bring you joy. Everything is fleeting. Each flare, each recovery, each prep, procedure, and surgery…it has a start and a finish. One day it will be a memory you talk about.
Pay attention to who is there when you when are quiet and when you’re going through the thick of it. IBD is too big to deal with alone. Lean on people you can trust, who you genuinely feel safe sharing your health woes with. This will be fewer people than you’d ever imagine. Be prepared to realize that many of the people you thought would be front and center to support you will be non-existent. It’s fine to mourn those friendships or relationships, but don’t waste your time or energy on them. Your disease will give you the ability to see who loves you and who wants to be present in not only the good times, but the bad. You can’t change people. Hold on tightly to the people who show up consistently, expecting nothing in return. Those are your people.
Emmanuel Acho shared a reel on Instagram recently that really hit home for me and caused me to reflect a bit on the people in my life and their roles. In the video he explains that friendship is like a house. You have your window, door, and floor friends. Window friends are outside looking in, they don’t know what’s going on in your house. They don’t have intimate access to what’s going on in your life. You can only let so many people into your house. Door friends come in and out of your life depending on the season. When life gets too hard or when your world turns cold, they might exit. Your friends might not be equipped for that season. Floor friends—aren’t going anywhere. You might track mud, but they will last regardless of the season. They are there to catch your tears and hear your fears. Remember—a house has more windows than it has doors and more doors than it does floors…if it has one good floor, you’re set.
Just because you need medication does not mean you’re taking the easy way out. I’ve been where you are. I remember lying helpless in a hospital bed and what it felt like to be told I needed to “break out the big guns” and start a biologic medication back in 2008 when there were only two options on the market for those with IBD. In that moment, we all naturally want to learn about side effects and what this could possibly mean for the long term. But please try and focus on the actual risk versus the benefit. As someone who has been on Humira since July 2008, I’m so grateful for my medication for allowing me to live a full life, bring babies into this world, and be a present, able-bodied, and active mom. It’s not all medicine, or all diet and lifestyle, often for many of us who have moderate to severe IBD we need a mix of both, and that’s ok. You can still thrive and be healthy, despite being on a medication with a black box label.
You are not a burden, and you deserve love. Any romantic partner who makes you feel less than, isn’t present when you need them most, or doesn’t show any empathy or interest in your daily reality isn’t going to stand the test of time. Use your IBD to your advantage to see your partner’s true colors. Be honest and upfront when you start dating and if you ever feel like you need to defend their actions or make excuses consider that a major red flag. Dating and marrying a person with a chronic illness isn’t for everyone, and that’s fine—but when it comes to people like you and me, we need a partner who is willing to take the challenge on beside us every step of the way. Find someone who you feel comfortable communicating openly with, who sees you for more than your disease.
IBD is not a battle to be “won” or “lost.” One of my pet peeves with any health condition or disease is when people say “so and so lost their battle”…they didn’t lose shit. Diseases are not a game. Oftentimes reaching remission is due to luck, disease severity, or surgery. I spent a decade of my life with active disease and have been in remission (thanks to surgery) for almost nine years. I don’t give myself credit for that, I’m not “winning.” It’s because of my efforts to stay diligent with my biologic, vitamins, safety labs, daily decisions, and check-ins with multiple specialists, but I also don’t think I’m at this point because of something special I’m doing compared to someone else. We’re all dealt a different hand of cards in life. Your IBD isn’t a win or lose situation—you’ll celebrate big victories and small ones, too, your disease can rob you at times, it’s a never-ending exchange and game of back and forth. You are not less than because you are flaring. You are not lazy for taking medication or failing because you struggle to follow a strict, regimented diet that may or may not help you. Once you stop thinking of everything as a “fight” it takes a bit of the stress, anger, and onus off your shoulders. IBD is a chronic illness, until there’s a cure, we’re in this situation until the day we die…that’s simply too long to be “fighting” anything.
Get ready to be extra proactive with your health. Due to the nature of our IBD and the medications many of us take, we are at greater risk for additional health problems. It’s important to get annual skin checks at the dermatologist. Make sure whether you have good vision or not that you’re seeing an eye doctor. Get cleanings at the dentist at least every six months. If you’re a female, make sure you get your well woman visits. We are greater risk for cervical cancer because many biologics don’t allow our bodies to fight off HPV, this may mean annual Pap smears. We’re also at an increased risk for breast cancer, so don’t delay your mammogram. Get a bone scan every 3-4 years, get one as close to diagnosis as you can so you have a baseline. Your GI may say it’s not necessary, it is. Steroids put us at risk for osteopenia and osteoporosis from an early age, this may mean you need to see a bone health doctor (yes, those exist). Those of us with IBD are at greater risk for pelvic pain, it can be helpful to see a Pelvic Floor Therapist who addresses those unique needs.
Faith can give you added strength and comfort. I understand faith is very individualized and looks different for each of us, but I can tell you as someone who is Greek Orthodox who has always been a faithful and prayerful person that I rely on my faith to guide me through my IBD each and every day. There’s a sense of comfort and hope that comes with believing God is watching over you through the good, the bad, and everywhere in between. When you’re diagnosed or flaring, it can test your faith. Hold on tightly to what you believe and lean on that (however it looks for you). I truly believe God gives his toughest lessons to his greatest teachers. One of my biggest fears as an IBD mom of 3 is that one of my children will get my disease one day. Each night before bed, I always pray with them and say, “keep my babies healthy, safe, and strong.”
My why. My motivation to push through each and every day.
Family planning takes time and effort. Just because you have IBD does not mean you can’t be a biological mom or dad one day. The journey will look a bit different, but this disease does not necessarily need to rob you of the experience if that’s what you want in your life. Communicate these desires with your GI so they can help prep your body for a baby. This can mean starting a prenatal vitamin and folic acid several months before trying. I had a colonoscopy before every pregnancy so that I could be given the ‘green light’ by my GI that we were cleared to try for a baby. When I was pregnant, my care was overseen by my OB, a maternal fetal medicine OB (high risk), and my GI. Unless you have perianal disease, you can have a vaginal birth, but oftentimes this is a discussion left to you and your care team. I personally chose to have 3 scheduled c-sections, because while I don’t have perianal Crohn’s, I didn’t want to risk tearing or causing a fistula to form. I would make the same choice if I had to do it all over again. I also stayed on my biologic through conception, pregnancy, and breastfeeding. These are all personal choices but there are many, many research studies available that show the safety and efficacy of doing so. If you feel you could have internal scarring due to past surgeries that could hinder your fertility, check in with a fertility specialist and have them help you investigate if there could be issues.
Educate yourself on insurance, prior authorizations, specialty pharmacies, and Pharmacy Benefit Managers (PBMS). Unfortunately, with IBD we are forced to do so much behind-the-scenes work to simply receive treatment and medication. You will waste countless hours and endless energy on the phone as these people give you the run around. Nobody ever seems to want to take ownership. Work with your gastroenterologist if you are denied a medication so they can write an appeal letter to insurance and go to bat for you. Stay on top of everything, don’t worry about annoying anybody. You gotta hustle. You gotta be frank and assertive. It’s not about hurting feelings; it’s about making sure people are doing their jobs and ensuring your course of treatment doesn’t get delayed because someone fumbles some paperwork. Our medications are time sensitive. Light a fire under people’s ass if you’re not getting responses you deserve. One of my friends on social media posted this over the weekend, “Managing specialty medications in January is an annual slap in the face to chronically ill people.” It sure is. This week will mark the first time I’ve ever received my injections late in the mail, due to a misstep in my GI office that I had to follow up on for over a week. Be extra proactive at the start of each year. Make sure your GI informs you about all the patient savings programs available, these can help you not only emotionally, but also financially.
You get the final say. No one but you gets to say what you do with your body. If a doctor wants you to do an enema before a scope and you don’t want to, don’t. If you don’t feel comfortable with taking a certain medication and your care provider keeps pushing it, they can’t physically make you pop a pill, take an injection, or receive an infusion. You must do your research, educate yourself every day, feel empowered by all you know and be ready to deal with the ramifications if you go against the grain or determine you want to try something differently. There’s not one “right” way to live with IBD. Be honest with your provider. Don’t say you’re taking a medication and then not take it, that’s not helping anyone or anything. Be a compliant patient, but an educated and empowered one at the same time. Measure all the risks and benefits and what your hopes and dreams are for your present life and for your future. Don’t ever feel like someone else can or should dictate what path your journey takes. Just because one biologic is a magic bullet for one person doesn’t mean it will be for you. You never fail treatments, they fail you. If a provider says “oh, you failed Remicade” … please correct them. “No, Remicade failed me.”
I write this as a 40-year-old mom of three—ages 6, 5, and 2.5 years old, married for almost 8 years, who has been on a biologic since 2008, who was diagnosed at age 21 in 2005. So much has changed for the better regarding the patient experience since that time. My perspective has come a long way. I used to be right where you are, so many are living your current reality. Instagram is the bread and butter for the patient community, that’s where you’ll find the most patients and caregivers transparently sharing. Follow the accounts, send a DM, comment on reels and posts, get engaged. Never hestitate to connect and reach out to me–natalieannhayden. Educate yourself through lived experiences and people who have paved the way for you, rather than Google. You don’t need to recreate the wheel, but this is your experience and your story. You get the final word on how you want each chapter to play out. Know each time you fall you will bounce back and that there’s a massive community of support here to catch you and cheer you on every step of the way as you rise once again.
It’s no surprise Inflammatory Bowel Disease can wreak havoc on more than just our guts. And dental health is no exception since it’s technically part of the digestive tract. I’ve had Crohn’s disease for nearly 19 years, and luckily, I feel my teeth and mouth have been mostly unaffected up until recently. That’s not the case for many in our community though. I ran an Instagram poll and asked, “Do you feel your IBD impacts your dental health?” Of the 372 people who responded, 51% said “yes”, 23% said “no”, and 26% were unsure.
To provide a little backstory on my personal situation, when I was pregnant with Reid (my oldest) in 2017, I developed an abscess on my molar that went away once he was born, so luckily no medical intervention was needed. And then, when I had COVID for the first time in January 2021 I started experiencing pain in that same upper molar. It’s been two years now, and after several visits to the dentist to investigate it further, we were never able to get to the root of the problem. The pain would come and go, so we just kept a close eye on it. A root canal felt like a last resort, and I didn’t want to do anything that drastic until absolutely necessary, so I kept choosing the conservative route.
Fast forward to December 30th, 2023. The pain came back with a vengeance. I randomly was directly exposed to COVID the day before but didn’t get the virus. I found it interesting that the pain began almost immediately after the exposure though. After the New Year, I went to the dentist and found out there was a lesion on one of the roots of my upper molars and a root canal and crown were needed. The pain was unbearable, but antibiotics (a Z-pack) helped get the pain under control after about five days. While I dreaded getting all this dental work, I’m ready to be able to eat on the left side of my mouth again after two years of avoiding it and not having any pain in my mouth.
This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s a deep dive into dental health and how it relates to our IBD. Some people with Crohn’s and ulcerative colitis deal with ulcers and inflammation in their gums, and then the medications we take and the malabsorption we deal with can cause our tooth health to be subpar.
Waiting to get my first root canal
Oral health and IBD
According to a study entitled, Oral Manifestations of Crohn’s Disease: A Systematic Review – PMC (nih.gov), ulcers, gingivitis, and angular cheilitis are the most frequent dental issues those with Crohn’s disease experience. This systemic review concluded that, “Some lesions develop silently and go unnoticed by the patient. Others become established, causing pain, and incapacitating the patient in their normal life, sometimes accompanied by gastrointestinal symptoms.”
A study, entitled, “Dental and periodontal disease in patients with inflammatory bowel disease” also investigated how IBD can manifest orally in patients. This looked at DMFT (Decayed, Missing, Filled Teeth) scores and looked at the electronic health records of 229 IBD patients in comparison to non-IBD patients. The results showed “Crohn’s disease patients have significantly more dental health problems compared to the control group.”
With my root canal this past week, the inflammation was so out of control it required three shots to the roof of my mouth, two in the side gum area, and a burst of prednisone after. As a veteran IBD patient, I feel anytime something with my health goes awry, I immediately wonder if there’s a correlation to my Crohn’s. It’s hard not to.
Grateful for headphones, Netflix, a stress ball and a blanket to help get me through the procedure.
This study found that people with IBD are at an increased risk of developing cavities and oral infections and that people with IBD have more dental treatments than those without IBD.
Lifestyle and dental health
How healthy our mouths are can also directly help or hurt how our IBD manifests. Recent research in the journal Cell showed that periodontitis, or gum disease, aggravates gut inflammation because the bad bacteria in the oral cavity migrates to the gut.
Steroids like prednisone can cause loss of calcium from our bones and lead to osteoporosis, this can also reduce the calcium in our teeth, causing them to weaken and decay. Talk with your GI and make sure you are getting enough calcium in your diet to keep not only your bones, but your teeth strong. Just this week, my GI advised I chew two Tums a day for added calcium, so I’ve added that to my Crohn’s management regiment.
People with IBD sometimes struggle to find foods they can tolerate—which can result in a high sugar diet or a low amount of essential nutrients. Teeth are affected by both. Some of us also deal with stomach acid and bile coming up through our mouths. An extra acidic mouth can be caused by poor gut health. Fruit juices, fizzy drinks, and pop/soda can increase the amount of acid in our mouths. Too much acid can cause tooth enamel to erode and makes our mouths the perfect breeding place for plaque (bacteria which can cause gum disease) and gingivitis (inflammation of the gums).
What patients have to say
“I’ve had so many root canals and crowns. Last spring, I had a molar pulled for an implant. The pain with a root canal is EXCRUCIATING!”
“A little bit of clove oil essential oil placed on a Q-Tip on the area helps. Typically, IBD patients are not supposed to take ibuprofen. But I have found three ibuprofen helps a bit, too temporarily.”
“Try swishing coconut oil.”
“I had two cavities in the last week. I never had dental issues before my ulcerative colitis.”
“I’ve had three molars fixed now, either via extraction or root canal and crown. I have one more molar that needs attention because it broke (thankfully didn’t expose a nerve or anything, so it’s hasn’t been painful). The pain before surgery with the others was unbearable! I did warm saltwater rinses and ate as many cold things as I could.”
“I’m a dental hygienist and a Crohn’s patient. You should be on antibiotics and should have pain meds. Find a new dentist if they don’t offer these options.”
“Tylenol and Ibuprofen cocktail! Works like Vicodin without the woo woo effect. 800 mg ibuprofen and 600 mg Tylenol, every 6 hours. The actual procedure itself is a drop in the bucket compared to what we go through.”
“INSIST on oral antibiotics after. Even if your dentist swears you don’t need them. Speaking from experience with a dentist who wouldn’t prescribe after a root canal while on Humira. Ended up in the emergency room with a massive abscess, and many further dental issues that resulted from that infection including a re-treatment of the tooth, cellulitis, and eventually oral surgery and an extraction.”
“There is nothing worse! This is such an overlooked topic in both the IBD and dental worlds! I have serious traumas about dental procedures due to the lack of knowledge in the dental industry. I’ve been told there’s no gluten in cleaning abrasives (there was), I’ve been told that I have poor hygiene, that I’m a bad example to my kids, that I’m lying to the dentist about my teeth care. I’ve been left in pain repeatedly from neglect, and I’ve switched dentist offices about 2 dozen times. It’s been a battle!”
“It’s the worst pain. They wanted me to wait for a root canal until after my wedding and honeymoon and I cracked, and had it done a few hours before my rehearsal dinner because I would not have enjoyed my wedding. I felt like a MILLION bucks after even though it still hurt. It’s not the type of pain you can ignore.”
“My gums always bleed, and I constantly used to get told at the dentist that I must not floss or brush daily. Not true. It drove me nuts. I would brush my gums so hard thinking that eventually they would stop bleeding for the next appointment at the dentist. This only caused receding gums. I told this to my new dentist and his staff, and they don’t say anything about my gums bleeding.”
“I have ulcerative colitis and had a root canal and crown 10 years ago; it was a great success. I never had any more issues. I had such a tough time finding antibiotics that helped. So, they gave me penicillin and that exacerbated my symptoms of UC.”
“Our teeth are a hot mess due to IBD and more specifically long periods of prednisone.”
“I had to get an emergency root canal while pregnant, so we had to limit anesthesia during the process. I would not recommend this. The process wasn’t great but wasn’t the worst considering Crohn’s and birth pain. One takeaway would be to know your gums might flare back up for a few months afterwards. As a mom with Crohn’s and gum disease, I would love to see a piece on IBD an dental health.”
“I would just have the tooth pulled personally. It can end up having an infection and you won’t know because the nerves are gone, and your teeth are connected to your whole body. There’s even a movie about it. Hypericum homeopathy would be great for nerve pain. You could rotate that with arnica every two hours. I would also place a clove in a little cotton and set it back there or clove essential oils in coconut oil and rub it around the gums in that area a couple times a day. Also, warm saltwater rinses.”
“I’ve never had a cavity and my dentist is amazed by this because I’ve had multiple root canals and crowns but that not because of decay…it’s from the tooth enamel breaking down from lack of nutrients and use of steroids over long periods of time.”
“Ice like crazy after a root canal. I’ve had three root canals with two failing and losing the teeth thanks to my Crohn’s. Putting a soft ice pack on my face post procedure was my lifesaver!”
“I’ve always been labeled “incredibly difficult to numb”—to the point where the dentist didn’t believe me, and I was about to hit the ceiling in pain when they started drilling. I never put two and two together that it could be related to IBD and none of my dentists have either.”
“I saw your post about your tooth. I would suggest following Dr. Michelle Jorgensen. She’s a functional dentist and talks a lot about gut health and dental health. She’s been on a few different podcasts talking about it as well. She also has a tooth powder that I use and love! For tooth pain, clove oil works great. Along with CBD oil—Met Naturals is my favorite. Turmeric oil is my go-to for pain. Arnica is also a natural pain reliever.”
“I have UC and have been incredibly nervous about my dental health since my diagnosis. I asked my dentist office about more frequent cleanings and found my insurance will cover four cleanings a year. So, now I go every three months. I know it can’t prevent everything, but I’m thankful for this bit of help.”
Some points to consider:
Shared Risk Factors: Some studies have found shared risk factors between periodontal (gum) disease and IBD. Smoking, genetic predisposition, and immune system dysregulation may contribute to both conditions.
Oral Health and Inflammation: Poor oral health, especially chronic gum disease, can lead to inflammation in the body. Inflammation is a common feature of both dental issues and IBD. The body’s response to oral bacteria in the gums may contribute to a systemic inflammatory response.
Microbiome Connection: Both the oral cavity and the gastrointestinal tract harbor complex microbial communities. Imbalances in the oral or gut microbiome may play a role in the development or exacerbation of inflammatory conditions.
Immune System Interactions: The immune system plays a crucial role in both maintaining oral health and regulating inflammation in the gut. Dysfunction in the immune system could contribute to the development or progression of both dental issues and IBD.
What you can do
Maintaining good oral hygiene practices, such as regular dental check-ups, proper brushing, and flossing, and addressing any dental issues promptly, is recommended for overall health, regardless of any potential association with specific medical conditions like IBD. If you have concerns about the relationship between your dental health and IBD, consult both your dentist and gastroenterologist for personalized advice based on your specific health situation. Some people in the IBD community reached out to me and said they get dental cleanings every three months and feel that’s a huge help in maintaining their dental health.
If you have IBD and need a dental procedure:
Communicate openly with both your dentist and gastroenterologist about your medical history, including medications and symptoms.
Follow a consistent oral hygiene routine to minimize the risk of dental issues.
Discuss any concerns or questions you have with your healthcare providers.
Because we often have chronic inflammation in our bodies due to IBD, this could potentially affect the body’s ability to heal after dental procedures, including root canals. For those with IBD, there may be an increased sensitivity to infections or challenges in managing inflammation, especially as we try and limit NSAIDS. Prior to a procedure, make sure your dentist or endodontist is aware of all medications you take to make sure there will not be any oral health implications or interactions with your dental treatments.
Final Thoughts
Keeping up with all our medical care, including dental, can feel like a part-time and sometimes even a full-time job. Getting teeth cleaned twice a year and taking care of oral problems may get pushed down the list of priorities, but oral health is not something to be ignored. Poor oral health is often a reflection of a person’s overall health and can even be the cause of systemic disease.
It’s important to note that correlation does not imply causation, and several factors may contribute to the relationship between dental health and IBD. Additionally, individual experiences vary, and not everyone with IBD will necessarily have poor dental health or vice versa. While there is some research suggesting a potential association, the evidence is not conclusive, and more studies are needed to establish a clear link between dental health and IBD.
During my annual skin check at the dermatologist in September my doctor biopsied two small marks on my back. In the moment, my doctor expressed that she wasn’t concerned, and neither was I. Fast forward two weeks, and I was about to speak at a health conference for patient advocates in New Jersey when I received a phone call from an unknown number. I answered and was caught off guard when the voice on the other end was a nurse from my dermatologist’s office telling me both spots came back with pre-cancerous spots and that I needed to get excision surgery on both as soon as possible.
Hearing that news was unexpected. I felt unsure and scared. That anxiety built up until I finally was able to schedule the procedure for November 30th. Life as an IBD mom makes these types of health hiccups tricky. I had to keep pushing off the surgery because of different family activities and obligations during this extra busy time of year.
This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s I take you on a behind-the-scenes look at my patient experience and discuss skin cancer and IBD and what you need to be aware of.
How I felt going in
Going into the surgery I felt uneasy. I wasn’t sure what the recovery would entail. I’ve only had abdominal surgeries, a bowel resection and three c-sections. One of the spots was on my upper back and the other was right above my bra strap. I was worried about how it was going to feel to lay down, sit back, move my arms, pick up and hug my kids…the list goes on.
As always, I turned to our IBD community for input, intel, and perspective. The experiences and advice shared not only educated me but left me feeling comforted before I went under the knife. Here is some of the feedback I received:
“You only live once and it’s on your back. In my opinion, the only way to wear a scar bad is to wear it with insecurity. Cover it up with confidence, or reveal it with confidence, but if you do either with insecurity, that makes it much more obvious.”
“After surgery when you’re up and about, focus on excellent posture almost to the point of bending backwards. You’ve had a resection and with any abdominal surgery, you hunch over a little bit to keep the incision from pulling. Do the same with the back ones, but you have to kind of have a bend to your back. Move slowly and if it pulls, you’ve pushed too far. With abdominal surgeries, I stay very on top of pain meds, with this, I would make sure you’re in a little bit of discomfort, just so you know when you’ve pushed too far. Not enough to be in actual pain, but enough to be uncomfortable and feel it when it pulls.”
“Be extra careful with what activities you do with it being on your back. I popped stitches on my back once because it’s such a high-tension area. The worst part is having a scar left behind.”
“My doctor gave me an option: stitches vs no stitches. Choose closure with stitches, otherwise healing is long.”
“The local anesthetic stings a little, but nothing worse than a biologic that you’re used to. They’ll tell you to keep the sutures moist with ointment (NOT Neosporin) and covered during the day. Wash gently with your regular soap and water. The sutures on the back are usually in for about two weeks. Make sure the pathology checks margins (so you know all atypical cells were excised). Compared to everything IBD moms endure, this is a piece of cake!”
“Surgery is an easy recovery. I had stitches for two weeks. Make sure you keep the area moist with Aquaphor or Bacitracin. Be careful not to lift anything with the stitches so you don’t pop a stitch or cause further scarring by stretching the open area. It might hurt the first couple of days, but Tylenol will do the trick.”
“My best friend had a pretty good size excision surgery on her back, and everything went smoothly, and it was painless for her. She healed up nicely and the scar is minimal.”
“Recovery was straightforward! Just keep up on any pain meds prescribed and try to take it easy. I had a wide excision on my toe that sucked because walking was hard for a few days. Little movement until your incisions are healed a bit is helpful.”
“Sitting back and laying down might hurt for a couple of days, but you should be fine after that. You don’t want to pop the stitches. You can’t take a bath or submerge the incisions for at least two weeks. Showering is fine after 24 hours, but just be gentle with them. I did derm nursing for many years.”
“I’ve had this (Crohn’s med complication), and it was far less bad than I thought. Briefly painful, but recovery is quick. I found vitamin E cream super useful while it was healing or (La Roche- Posay Cicaplast) also once healed. Make sure you rub the scar, so it doesn’t ‘tether’.”
“Find out your surgeon’s preferred ointment. Mine okayed Aquaphor. Set pillows so you can sleep comfortably once you find a position that works. The pain is worst at night. Sending you big hugs and wishing you speedy healing with clean margins!”
What excision surgery entailed
Leading up to the excision surgery—especially the week of—my mind started to race a bit when I went to bed at night and started thinking of the procedure and recovery. It was my first time needing something more than a biopsy at the dermatologist, so I wasn’t sure what to expect. The excision surgery process involved so many lidocaine and epinephrine shots that I was in tears by the end. The areas of my back were so sensitive and by the time I had 10-15 shots I could feel, I hit a bit of a breaking point.
One of the nurses brought me an ice pack to grip onto and it really helped stop my anxiety and shaking on the table. The actual surgery on the two spots took an hour. It’s always an odd feeling while you lie awake and know your body is being cut into. I have dissolvable stitches underneath my skin and on top on the incisions.
Here’s a photo of the two incisions. They are larger than I had anticipated, and I’m not thrilled about them, but I know once they’re healed, they won’t look so angry.
Recovery is not linear
The first night of recovery I was able to keep the pain under control for the first 10 hours or so, but I woke up at 4 in the morning in excruciating pain. I felt like my back was on fire and I couldn’t move. It was a horrible feeling. My husband helped me out of bed, and we went downstairs. He propped me up on a ton of pillows and set an alarm for my next pain pill. The first two days were a rougher recovery than I had anticipated, but I’m so grateful my dermatologist caught this when she did.
By day 3 I was doing laundry, cleaning, organizing my son’s room, packing up toys to donate, and making dinner. As I write this, I’m 4 days post-op and I just have slight twinges of pain here and there and itching sensations. The hardest part for me has been not being able to lift or hold my 2-year-old or being able to help my 4-year-old daughter who’s had a club cast on her dominant hand and arm and has needed my help to do everything from getting on the toilet to climbing into her car seat. That being said, my kids have all been incredibly patient and empathetic and my husband has been a rockstar at making sure I don’t overdo and feel supported every step of the way.
My toddler walked up to me when I was in pain and said, “your tummy hurt, mama?” Not this time, buddy. It amazed me that his mind went there when he saw me hurting. With that, he snuggled me on the couch and gently grabbed both my hands and kissed them.
Is there a link to IBD meds and skin cancer?
There is some evidence to suggest a potential association between IBD and an increased risk of skin cancer, particularly non-melanoma skin cancers such as squamous cell carcinoma and basal cell carcinoma. When I asked my surgeon prior to my procedure if being on Humira put me at greater risk for this, she told me there’s not enough conclusive evidence and she did not relate my situation to my medication, but I’m still not convinced. I was told that the pre-cancerous cells would have turned to melanoma if this was not caught.
The relationship between IBD and skin cancer risk is complex and may involve various factors:
Immunosuppressive Medications: Prolonged use of medications, such as corticosteroids or certain biologics, can weaken the immune system, increasing susceptibility to infections and possibly contributing to a higher risk of skin cancer.
Chronic Inflammation: IBD itself is characterized by chronic inflammation in the gastrointestinal tract. Chronic inflammation has been linked to an increased risk of certain cancers, including skin cancer. The inflammatory process may contribute to the development of cancerous cells.
Sun Exposure: Some studies suggest that those with IBD may be at an increased risk of skin cancer due to excessive sun exposure. It’s important to note that certain medications used to treat IBD, like thiopurines (Imuran and Purinethol), make the skin more sensitive to sunlight.
Genetic Factors: There may be genetic factors that contribute to both IBD and an increased risk of skin cancer. Some people have a genetic predisposition that makes them more susceptible to both conditions.
Final thoughts—Get those annual skin checks!
When it comes to skin cancer, we can control our sun exposure and how we protect our skin when outdoors and that should not supersede the importance of taking medication to treat and manage IBD.
Talk with your care team about the frequency you should be screened. Once you have skin cancer or a biopsy, it’s not unusual for bi-annual visits or even every three months. If I can share anything—it’s to get your annual skin check. Skin cancer is nothing to mess around with. Ignorance is not bliss. Give yourself peace of mind and schedule a dermatologist appointment, whether you have IBD or not. My husband and I have both had scares now when it comes to our skin. Be proactive and in the new year I hope you take the appropriate steps to make sure you’re in the clear.
Ever look in the toilet and much to your surprise you see a full pill in your stool? I’ve been there—and so many of us in the IBD community can unfortunately relate. Our unique digestive systems put us at much greater risk for malabsorption problems. For those of us with Crohn’s disease or ulcerative colitis, it can be a challenge to retain nutrients in the small intestine—such as proteins, fats, sugars, vitamins, and minerals and this can also pose issues when it comes to receiving the benefits of medications.
This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s we explore the various issues those of us in the IBD community may encounter when trying to absorb medications and the strategies employed to overcome these challenges. I ran an Instagram poll and asked our community: “If you have IBD, have you dealt with issues absorbing nutrients and certain medications?” Of the 175 people who responded, 47% said “yes” they have a problem with malabsorption and 50% had “no idea” if they do.
The reason why
You may be wondering why or if you are at risk of having issues absorbing new or current medications. Let’s look at the reasons why many of us deal with this issue:
Altered Gastrointestinal Transit Time: In IBD, chronic inflammation can lead to changes in the motility of the gastrointestinal tract. Fluctuations in transit time through the digestive system can impact the absorption of medications, as they may not spend sufficient time in the intestines for proper uptake.
Intestinal Mucosal Damage: The inflammation associated with IBD often results in damage to the mucosal lining of the intestines. This compromised barrier can affect the absorption of medications, making it difficult for drugs to pass through the intestinal wall and enter the bloodstream effectively.
Drug Formulation and Coating Issues: Some medications are formulated to release their active ingredients at specific points along the digestive tract. In individuals with IBD, variations in pH levels, inflammation, and mucosal damage may interfere with the intended drug release, reducing the medication’s efficacy.
Nutrient Interference: Medications are sometimes absorbed through the same pathways as essential nutrients. Malabsorption issues in IBD can lead to competition between medications and nutrients for absorption sites, potentially reducing the effectiveness of both.
Impact of Surgical Interventions: For those of us who have undergone surgical procedures, such as bowel resection, ostomy, or Jpouch, the anatomy of our digestive tract is altered. Surgical changes can significantly impact the absorption of medications, requiring adjustments in dosage or alternative administration routes. The small bowel, with its large surface area and high blood flow, is the most important site of drug absorption. Personally, I’ve had 18 inches of my small intestine removed along with my terminal ileum and ileocecal valve. The larger amount of small bowel removed, the greater likelihood you will deal with drug absorption issues.
What IBD patients have to say about malabsorption and medications
One of the many struggles patients face is knowing whether the medications they are on for everything from mental health to fertility are being absorbed into their bodies. Here’s what the patient community had to share about their experiences. All quotes are anonymous to protect patient privacy.
“I found that my Wellbutrin was landing in my bag whole, so my doctor broke the dose up into 4 smaller amounts instead of once daily—I’m not seeing the pill in my bag anymore and I am getting the intended benefits. I also was prescribed an opium tincture to take ahead of those pills to help give them their best chance at dissolving.”
“I had to start taking anti-depressants that were dissolvable. Unfortunately, there’s not a ton of options. When I switched to dissolvable from tablet/capsule oral, it made a huge difference.”
“In the past I was on Wellbutrin which came in an Extended-Release pill, and I would often see the pill come out whole. I mentioned this to my doctor, and she was able to get an Immediate Release version prescribed. If someone is on an Extended-Release med this may be an option for easier absorption. A compound pharmacy may be able to make it if it’s not already available in immediate release form.”
“The only difference was I had to take the immediate release version 3x a day vs. once a day for extended release.”
“I’ve really been struggling, and my psychiatrist suggested an absorption problem and recommended a patch, but my insurance denied it.”
“I’m a med student in the UK with Crohn’s. If you look up your selected antidepressant (amitriptyline, sertraline, etc.) on the British National Formulary, there’s usually a bunch of different formulations of the drug, either in pill form, patch, depot injection, liquid suspension, etc. If the desired delivery method is not available for that specific drug (like not for fluoxetine, but you still want an SSRI), you can scroll down to other drugs in class, check for interactions with current meds, guidance also for hepatic or renal impairment, pregnancy, the works. It’s entirely free and very user friendly.”
“I had trouble with absorption this summer when I was waiting to get my hiatal hernia fixed and acid was eroding my esophagus and medication before it could make it into my digestive tract, but I have surgery in July and continue to fail antidepressants and have other health issues that are unexplainable (exhausted and starving all the time for example) so hearing this input is so helpful to me.”
“I switched from Effexor capsules to tablets and I wasn’t digesting them at all. I frequently saw them in the toilet bowl and had to switch back to capsules and just take two.”
“I’m on an antidepressant and it just rips me up. I have absorption issues with everything.”
“I’ve always been on liquid anti-depressants just to make sure I am absorbing all of it with my ostomy.”
“I haven’t had any issues with my Zoloft!”
“I am currently on Celexa and occasional Xanax, no issues.”
“I’ve always had a slight suspicion about whether my Crohn’s is the reason my antidepressants don’t work.”
“I take an antidepressant that is dissolved on the tongue. Lamictal. It’s a mood stabilizer also used to treat anxiety and depression. Just started it, so far so good. Everything else went right through me. It’s been a struggle finding the right fit. SSRIs are awful and with an ostomy (at least in my experience).”
“On occasion during more severe flares I’ve noticed undissolved pills that I’ve mentioned to my GI. The advice was to keep an eye on it and if I continued seeing them, we’d need to reassess but thankfully those episodes were intermittent. I am, however, going to bring this up to my shrink because my response to meds is usually very suboptimal. Don’t think there are other forms available other than pills, but something to keep in mind.”
“Sublinguals are another good option for IBD patients for better absorption. I take a few of my supplements sublingually and my levels have been maintained well!”
“Not sure about anti-depressants. But I take the liquid form of many nutritional supplements for better absorption like Vitamin D and Vit B-12. I find I absorb it better that way. Of course, injecting is even better in terms of absorption, and I have occasionally had B-12 injections.”
“A good time for a reminder to always look at your poo. If you see what you think is a pill, make a note and if you see it more than once, contact your doctor. Some pills I may split for more surface area or open capsule (maracas) into spoon of applesauce, if it doesn’t compromise the med.”
“When I was in the hospital, docs would give everything they could IV because of the concern about absorption. It’s never come up outpatient for me though.”
Added concerns and considerations for Ostomates, JPouches, and Short Gut
According to The Ostomy Files: The Issue of Oral Medication and a Fecal Ostomy, “Because portions of the intestinal tract have been removed or bypassed, people with an ileostomy or colostomy may experience difficulty in absorbing and, therefore, gaining maximum benefit from oral medications. The shorter the length of the remaining bowel, the greater the problem of absorption, particularly in the ileum.”
Generally, people with descending or sigmoid colostomies absorb medications as well as people who do not have an ostomy. However, “enteric-coated tablets, time-release products, or large tablets” are designed for gradual absorption along the entire intestine (the ileum AND the colon).
The article goes on to share a helpful trick to do at home, “Place the tablet in a glass of water and record the amount of time it takes for the tablet to begin to dissolve. If the tablet begins to dissolve in 30 minutes, most likely it can be adequately absorbed in the body. Patients should be instructed not to crush tablets without first checking with the pharmacist because the practice may expose the medication to gastric fluids, which could cause gastric upset or inactivate the drug.”
Amalia Karlin, MS, RDN, Owner of the Ostomy Dietitian, says, “When a portion of the bowel is removed, psychiatric medications have less time in the gastrointestinal tract to be fully absorbed. This may lead to medications coming out in the ostomy bag still intact. Fast transit time amongst the ostomy population in combination with having an ileostomy, specifically, are additional risks for pill remnants ending up in the bag. Troubleshooting this issue may require changing the timing of the medication and the foods with which the medication is taken to slow down and thicken ostomy output and give the medication the best chance of being fully absorbed. Ostomates should share these concerns with the physician managing their psychiatric medication.”
Amalia urges patients to ask the following questions:
What is the release action of the medication?
Is the pill a tablet, capsule, etc.?
Are you seeing pill remnants in your bag?
What foods are you eating them with (we want to slow output when taking these drugs)
Ostomates I spoke with say liquid iron helps them more than capsules for boosting hemoglobin levels.
“I have trouble with absorption due to my ileostomy. My anti-depressants had to be changed because I could not absorb Long Acting or Extended-Release meds. They are too hard and did not break down. I also need to get B12 injections every three weeks because of deficiencies.”
Medications that don’t dissolve quickly may be absorbed inadequately, making some medications ineffective. According to an article entitled, “Medication Considerations for People with an Ostomy,” Medications that may not be absorbed adequately include certain antimicrobial agents, digoxin, mesalamine, levothyroxine, and oral contraceptives.Enteric-coated or extended-release medications should be avoided by those with an ileostomy because the medication is absorbed or partially absorbed in the colon.”
It’s advised that prior to ostomy or extensive bowel resection surgery, patients and caregivers discuss how surgery will impact the way medication is absorbed moving forward. Ostomates and those with short gut syndrome should monitor output and look for undissolved pills or capsules. If you see your medication intact after it’s been ingested, make sure to alert your care team. Having care providers (especially those outside of the GI space), who are knowledgeable and understand how those with IBD often have unique bowel integrity, makes all the difference.
To assure proper absorption medications can be prescribed in the following ways:
Liquid
Soluble tablet
Transdermal patch (an adhesive patch that delivers medication into the blood stream)
Sublingual (under the tongue)
Buccal (placing medication between gum and cheek)
Parenteral (means “beyond the intestine”—an injection)
If you are receiving medications in one of these formats and still not reaching the therapeutic range, it’s not unusual to be prescribed above the recommended dose. It’s important as patients we understand that our prior surgeries can effect not only prescriptions, but over-the-counter medications, too.
According to this study, “the effectiveness of oral contraceptives might potentially be reduced in women with Crohn’s disease who have small-bowel involvement and malabsorption. Due to the nature of how family planning goes with IBD, it’s imperative women with IBD communicate openly with their OB and GI to avoid unintended pregnancy, as timing and trying to get pregnant while in a remission state is optimal for both mom and baby.
Strategies to Overcome Medication Absorption Challenges
Individualized Treatment Plans: Tailoring medication regimens to the specific needs of each patient is crucial. Healthcare providers must consider the severity and location of inflammation, as well as any surgical history, to optimize drug absorption.
Alternative Administration Routes: For individuals with severe absorption challenges, alternative routes of administration, such as intravenous or subcutaneous injections, may be considered. These routes bypass the gastrointestinal tract, ensuring direct delivery of medications into the bloodstream.
Monitoring and Adjusting Dosages: Regular monitoring of medication levels in the blood allows healthcare providers to adjust dosages as needed. This personalized approach ensures that therapeutic levels are maintained despite potential absorption difficulties.
Final Thoughts
Medication absorption issues for those of us with IBD poses a significant hurdle. By recognizing the unique challenges, we face, healthcare providers can develop personalized treatment plans that address absorption issues and optimize therapeutic outcomes. Ongoing research and advancements in drug delivery technology continue to contribute to the development of innovative solutions, offering hope for improved medication management for the IBD community.
Saturday, October 7th, 2023, the largest mass murder of the Jewish people since the Holocaust unfolded before our eyes in Israel. As of Tuesday night (October 17th) at least 1,400 people have died and 3,400 others have been injured in Israel. The rape, barbaric torture, kidnapping, and killing of Israeli civilians—including, children, the elderly, and infants is an atrocity, opening a wound that has never fully closed. This terrorist attack is unfathomable and unjustifiable. Sadly, this tragedy has been met with denials and rationalizations. People all over the world have paraded in the streets, many celebrating the darkest day in history for the Jewish people.
This week on Lights, Camera, Crohn’s a somber look at what it’s like to be Jewish right now and living with inflammatory bowel disease (IBD). You’ll hear firsthand accounts and perspectives from more than 30 Jews with Crohn’s and ulcerative colitis from around the world, along with Dr. Nathaniel A. Cohen, a gastroenterologist who specializes in IBD and works at a hospital in Tel Aviv, Israel.
Nicholas Kristoff, a New York Times reporter, shared a quote that I want to reiterate:
“If we owe a moral responsibility to Israeli children, then we owe the same moral responsibility to Palestinian children. Their lives have equal weight. If you care about human life only in Israel or only in Gaza, then you don’t actually care about human life.”
As I write this, the Health Ministry in Gaza says that since October 7th at least 3,000 Palestinians have died and more than 12,500 have been injured. As these numbers continue to rise at an alarming rate and as we sit in the comfort of our homes in the United States and watch on in disbelief at the devastation and destruction from afar, it’s important to hold space and prayer for all the innocent lives being impacted right now.
Prevalence of IBD in the Jewish community
Before we get into the heartfelt and painful accounts from the Jewish IBD community, it’s important to look at the history of prevalence of IBD in this group of people. Through my advocacy, I’ve been blessed to get to know and work alongside countless incredible Jewish IBD advocates—both patients and caregivers. Most of the people I know with IBD are Jewish. The only people I knew with IBD prior to my Crohn’s disease diagnosis in 2005 were family friends and neighbors, who are Jewish. This tragedy hits the IBD community right at the heart.
Those of Ashkenazi Jewish decent develop IBD, at higher-than-average rates. Genetics are just one suspected cause of IBD. It’s estimated more than 10 million people in the world have Crohn’s disease or ulcerative colitis.
An article by the Jewish Digest reports, “It now seems that Ashkenazi Jews are approximately four times more likely to develop Crohn’s disease or ulcerative colitis than non-Jews living in the same country. This means of course that the vast majority of individuals with IBD in the world are not Jewish but that the Jewish population is disproportionately affected.”
An article from the Jerusalem Post states, “The prevalence of such problems among Jews perhaps lies behind the well-known Yiddish expression, “Gezunt dir in pupik” (good health to your belly button), which was a common way for European Ashkenazi Jews to wish one another robust health.”
Professor Gilaad Kaplan of the Division of Gastroenterology at the University of Calgary’s department of medicine explains, “Research has found more than 200 genetic variants that make an individual more likely to develop IBD, and many of these genes are common in Ashkenazi Jews.”
In April 2023, a study shared by scientists from Cedars-Sinai and 5 other medical centers investigated the genetics of 18,745 individuals, including 5,685 Ashkenazi Jewish people. Researchers created a catalog of genetic variants to help clinicians screen and identify patients with increased risk of Crohn’s disease.
According to a Cedars- Sinai article, “They found 10 variations of the NOD2 and LRRK2 exomes that are associated with increased risk for Crohn’s and are more likely to occur among Ashkenazi Jews. The study suggests that this difference in genetics may predispose the Ashkenazi population to a higher risk of Crohn’s disease compared to non-Jewish people.”
Variations in the genetic material of an individual can be passed down and cause genetic diseases in future generations.
In the Cedars-Sinai article, Dr. Dermot McGovern, MD, PhD goes on to say, “These increased genetic risk factors seen in Ashkenazi populations appear to be rooted in a history of migrations, catastrophic reductions in population, and then re-population from a small number of surviving founder families over many centuries.”
Professor Kaplan highlighted that over the past 20 years, IBD has become more of a “global disease with rapidly increasing incidence in regions like Asia and Latin America where it was rarely diagnosed a generation ago.”
He went on to say, “IBD is a modern disease of modern times that is associated with industrialization and Westernization of society. The globalization of IBD suggests that genetics lay down the foundation of developing the disease, but environment builds the disease.” IBD occurs in all races and ethnicities.
Dr. Nathaniel A. Cohen, MD, is a gastroenterologist in Israel who specializes in IBD at Tel Aviv Medical Center. He says this is an exceptionally difficult time for patients with IBD throughout Israel.
“Obviously those in the southern areas have been severely impacted, some were in the communities so viciously attacked by Hamas terrorists and lost family members and witnessed the horrors. Those patients face challenges of access to care as they had to leave their community and move further north,” explained Dr. Cohen. “However, other patients across the country have also been affected. Israel is a small country with very close-knit communities and there is not one person who doesn’t know someone murdered, missing, or held hostage. Israel is so small that when I talk about southern cities and villages (where the terrorist attacks occurred) they are only around 30 miles away from where I am currently sitting in Tel Aviv.”
Dr Cohen says that in addition to the terrorist attacks on October 7th, Israel has been faced with “incessant rocket fire from Gaza and the need to go in bomb shelters through the day” ever since, even in central Israel. In addition, many have been called up for reserve duty or have loved ones called up.
“This severe stress has resulted in a significant uptick in IBD symptoms. I am a medical advisor on an IBD patient support application and many more patients than usual have been sending questions regarding increased symptoms. Also, at our IBD clinic in Tel Aviv Medical Center all our physicians have received countless emails from patients experiencing flares or at least worsening bowel symptoms,” said Dr. Cohen.
He went on to say this is a very trying time for people with IBD.
“Patients with IBD as always need to be assessed by a medical professional if they have a flare of symptoms to rule out infection and perform fecal calprotectin to distinguish symptoms resulting directly from stress and those related to their inflammation. Most GI specialists are still working and available for consultations, so it’s important for patients to reach out and get the help they need,” he said.
Dr. Cohen tells me multiple mental health support services have been set up throughout Israel – mainly virtually – to provide mental health support to those affected.
“I also recommend online mindfulness videos or apps and trying (as hard as it may be) to maintain some sort of routine, exercise if possible and yoga (which can be done online and at home) to my patients. Diet is also a vital component. Many patients will stress eat as well as eat food that may worsen disease activity – fried food, snacks, etc. – so I try to advise them on eating as healthy of a diet as possible, despite the times. Volunteering right now is also important, as it gives a sense of purpose and takes the mind off the difficult situation, we are all facing. Unfortunately, there is no easy solution during this most difficult of periods.”
Dr. Cohen says that in Israel they are fortunate to have a very strong public health system—despite the strains due to the war.
“Most GIs are still working normally and are readily available for consultations. There are concerns for patients directly affected by the terrorist attacks in the southern cities and villages, however the country’s health maintenance organizations are nationally distributed, so if a patient needs to move to a different area all their health records are readily available, and most shouldn’t find it difficult to access their medications. Our hospitals, at least in central Israel, are still performing all routine surgeries and as far as I know we are not delaying elective surgeries yet, so this hasn’t been as much of an issue, and we have the capacity to accept all patients from the south who may need care.”
I asked Dr. Cohen to paint a picture for those of us who are not in Israel about what it’s like to be there right now.
“During the Hamas terrorist attack, Israel and the Jewish people suffered the most significant loss of life in a single day since the Holocaust. I want to emphasize that this attack was against civilians – entire families including children, mothers, fathers, and grandparents were tortured, raped, and massacred. Young people at a music festival, celebrating peace, were massacred. We have close to 200 civilians (children, women, men, and elderly) currently held hostage in Gaza. Every single Israeli was affected. Almost every Jew around the world was affected. The Jewish population around the world is only around 16 million people – so for most of us this is exceptionally personal. At the beginning shock and horror took hold of the country, we felt helpless but very quickly the Israeli resilience has shone through, and the entire country has come together as one to defend our right to live in our homeland. The political divide that was present before 10/7 has largely disappeared and we’re united in the face of this evil.”
Dr. Cohen says he would like non-Jews to remember that Israel is the beacon of freedom in the Middle East.
“We are the only liberal democracy in the region and the only country in the region who truly shares the ideals so cherished by Americans and the western world. Israel is a diverse country where ALL citizens regardless of religion, race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or political inclination live free and with equal opportunity. The largest group of Arabs who are part of the LGBTQ+ community live in the cities of Haifa and Tel Aviv. Israel places the value of human life above all others and, despite what the news will show, does everything in its power to protect the lives of innocent civilians.”
He says the best way to show support is to continue to stand up to terrorism.
“Share the horrors of what Israeli’s suffered on Saturday October 7th and defend and voice support for Israel’s obligation to defend her people and rid the world of Hamas just like the world did with the Nazis, Al-Qaeda, ISIS, and countless other groups whose aim was genocide and enforcing radical ideology upon others. It’s also important to remember that Jewish communities in the US and around the globe will be suffering emotionally and will also be threatened by radical groups abroad who support the violent hatred Hamas embodies. Please think about your Jewish friends, check in on them and make sure they are OK.”
Dr. Cohen would like to thank the global IBD community for the endless messages and support that he and his colleagues have received.
The Jewish community is reeling: What IBD patients and caregivers want you to know
The Hamas terror attack has highlighted the growing global threat to all Jewish communities. Antisemitism is extremely real and prevalent. This isn’t something to be taken casually or something to ignore or tune out because you don’t feel as though it impacts you.
Here’s anonymous input shared with me by members of our IBD community:
This American Israeli Jew with ulcerative colitis lives in Israel and is studying medicine to become a physician. She says her symptoms worsened after she got home from sheltering in a basement.
“I had a difficult time in the bathroom. My thoughts were: I could die being on the toilet, how would I run to shelter if I’m having another episode in the restroom, I need to bring all the toilet paper I just brought down to our apartment building basement. Because of the architectural layout of the basement, the bathroom is connected and shared by two “apartments” (essentially rooms), so anyone who has to enter the secure room, needs to go through the restroom. It’s just a mess. I’m hoping there won’t be a need to bunker down for awhile. I’m still going to the hospital as a med student to learn and help even though school is technically canceled. I don’t think I will go into a flare. After the shock of the events, I’ve decided I’m staying mentally strong. I’m not letting the enemy win.”
“My Crohn’s symptoms have flared more in the last five days than the last five years combined. It’s totally barbaric and no exaggeration to say it makes me feel physically sick. Four of our family friends were taken hostage, including 13- and 15-year-old girls and their parents, after terrorists broke into their home. My cousin was at the music festival in the desert where they shot 250 Israelis. He miraculously managed to survive, but witnessed so many of his friends being killed, abducted, and other atrocities too barbaric for words.”
“The horrific attacks on Israeli civilians by Hamas has left me heartbroken. My husband is a veteran of the IDF (Israel Defense Forces), and we have many friends living in Israel. The fear of their safety, the hesitance of non-Jewish friends to immediately condemn the heinous acts, and the uncertainty of the repercussions for Jews around the world, has put an enormous amount of stress on me. I feel a weight on my heart like never before and this most certainly is affecting my IBD. I’ve had more symptoms, which I attribute to lack of sleep and increased stress.”
“Although I don’t have anyone personally close living in Israel, I do know people from my prior Birthright trip, as well as some Israelis that are in St. Louis currently, but have lost close friends or family in the recent events and that is heartbreaking. It’s hard to be bombarded by the news constantly with images and videos of the attacks, and yet seeing so few non-Jewish friends posting about it.”
“I just saw my colorectal surgeon and I asked how he’s been affected. His sister-in-law’s cousin was killed. Age 21. So sad.”
“My 13-year-old daughter was diagnosed with Crohn’s a little over two years ago. She has been well managed with Remicade (now she takes the biosimilar Avsola). She woke up in the middle of the night with pain (rare) on Sunday (Oct. 8) night. We shield our kids from the worst of this nightmare, but we have open conversations, and the news is on occasionally. She is worried about my family in Israel. I wouldn’t know for sure if the IBD symptoms and her worry are related…but she rarely has pain…and before this her pain didn’t wake her up.”
“I am Jewish. My mom’s side is Israeli, I have relatives who live in Israel. This is an unfathomable crisis and it’s hard to describe the pain I am feeling for my community. I am feeling the physical manifestations of the grief I am feeling. I’m nauseous and have little appetite. I’m trying my best to limit my news and social media intake, but it’s hard to forget everything that is going on. There’s a fear for being Jewish and Israeli even here in the United States. But also, I feel deeply for those living in Israel dealing with this firsthand who have IBD and other chronic illnesses. My heart goes out to them.”
“It’s a real struggle. Many of us have family who live in Israel and are in the army, and some are on the front lines. I live in Pittsburgh, and we are coming up on the 5th anniversary of the Tree of Life shooting. That synagogue is within walking distance of our house. I had personal connections with many who lost their lives. I haven’t been able to concentrate on my own advocacy work. It’s been super hard.”
“My family is Jewish, and my husband is an IDF veteran. This week has been terrible. I’m angry and disheartened that even many of my close non-Jewish friends have been silent.”
“Non-stop crying over here. I’m a little grateful that I had a scope today so that I could have a long break from my phone.”
“I’m a mess. I was supposed to travel to Israel in two weeks, which is now cancelled for obvious reasons. My 22-year-old nephew just moved there for school 2 months ago. Many friends there are in bunkers…it’s just a horrible situation.”
“I’ve had no energy, I’m sad, sickened, nervous, and not doing very good at hydrating and eating.”
“I was feeling so amazing and symptom free from my Rinvoq, and then after the attack on October 7th, I saw a big increase in symptoms. I feel sad and scared. I’m so worried. And honestly, now I’m starting to feel angry at the alarming lack of response from most people and organizations. My colleague’s brother’s unit was called up and they don’t have enough supplies. The antisemitism is the most hurtful and scary.”
“As someone with IBD and Jewish roots, it’s been especially heartbreaking to read about the destruction of human life—innocent babies and children at that. Huge WTF. I’ve been on autopilot and subconsciously worried about my own child. Can’t say I noticed an uptick in gastro symptoms since the news. Prayers help to ease my mind.”
Omer Wenkert is 22 years old and was also at the music festival and hostage video was released of him. Omer has ulcerative colitis, and his family is concerned he’s not receiving his medication. Hamas denied an appeal to hand over medications for chronic illness patients.
The struggle of coping with the deeply emotional and physical pain
“My family was supposed to travel to Israel for two weeks on Sunday, October 8th. I feel lucky to be safe, but also deeply saddened by the acts of violence against Jews/Israelis and guilty for being safe when my family and friends are not. I work in healthcare, and I know Israel needs medical volunteers, but with my ulcerative colitis, I feel like I couldn’t go. I just started a new medication and am coming out of a flare, so how do I know that the stress of practicing medicine in a foreign country where there is war wouldn’t make my symptoms even worse? I can’t take care of others if I am sick. In a perfect world, I would go to Israel and volunteer to help the injured, but my IBD holds me back from that.”
“While my UC remains in remission, I’ve noticed my anxiety heightened. I avoided a public event for Israel because it was advertised on social media, and I was concerned about anti-Semitic violence that could occur with people knowing when and where a large group of Jews were gathering. It’s a scary and difficult time to be a Jewish person, even more with IBD. Thinking about what could happen for the people being held captive going without essential medications or medical care. Being scared to wear a Star of David necklace for fear of anti-Semitic threats…the list goes on.”
“Generational trauma is ingrained in our DNAs as Jews; we instinctively feel the defense to protect ourselves and our community due to the Holocaust and other occurrences in history. If we don’t defend ourselves, who will? That is what is scary. It’s also frightening that in 2023, there are videos of individuals waving flags that appear to be in advocacy for Palestine, but they chant “GAS THE JEWS” and other profanities. For those who did not grow up knowing what we went through, they disregard the truth. The ironic thing is Jewish people have the backs of other humans; we care for our community of fellow humans, regardless of whether people are Jewish. Even in tragedy as family and loved ones have suffered the most tragic things, they still help others in need. They don’t stay in hiding grieving; they help the community. It’s in our values and in our religion to do good for others while giving space for grief.”
“It’s affected me so much seeing people I know with missing family members and friends, uncertain if they’ve been murdered. I’ve been checking in with my Israeli friends every day. My stomach is acting up and is not feeling good these days. I’m coping with it by sharing how I feel. It’s true when they say, “your Jewish friends are not ok.” There’s a lot of fear and uncertainty going on. I had to cancel a flight that I had on Friday 10/13 because there was word going around that something was going to happen in our country to those who are Jewish.”
“I feel numb. I’ve seen an uptick in symptoms. The grief is heavy, and it hurts my stomach. It’s so hard. I don’t know what to say except this is our worst nightmare. I lived in Israel in 2007 for study abroad. Part of that country is my home. We have friends stuck there in bomb shelters unable to get flights back to America. I’ve been nauseous for days and having to take anti-diarrheal medication multiple times a day from the stress. Knowing people are stuck there amplifies the stress immensely.”
“I am Jewish, and I have Crohn’s. I’m so concerned about my possible physical reaction to my emotional reaction that I’ve been concerned about fully engaging in the news of what’s happening.”
“I am coping as best as I can. I make sure to work out and eat healthy to help with anxiety. Thankfully, I haven’t had any symptoms, this month marks 25 years since my ulcerative colitis diagnosis. I would like my non-Jewish friends to check in. Thankfully, I’ve seen some positive posts on social media. I am proud to be Jewish, but scared of what is going on.”
“I’m Jewish and have Crohn’s and my stomach has been a mess this last week and I didn’t put two and two together!!”
“I find it extremely sad that condemning Hamas and supporting Israel/Jews has become a political and taboo subject. I see a lot of “Free Palestine” and “Israel caused this by occupying Gaza” which breaks my heart. This is about a terrorist organization that is hungry for Jewish blood. The fact that this isn’t unanimously condemned doesn’t make sense to me. Of course, no one wants civilians on either side to be hurt. But Hamas did this. They use all their money to make rockets and bombs and tunnels. They could have made Gaza better for their people, but they don’t. They never will. I also don’t understand how organizations like Black Lives Matter can come out and say they stand with Palestine. It seems to me that whenever Israel has to defend itself, more people turn on Israel and Jews.”
“I am not coping. I find myself completely distracted when I’m with my son or when working with patients (I work in healthcare). My mind wanders, wondering about all the civilians impacted…about the state of our world and how it impacts our humanity here in the United States. My heart aches for the babies, older adults, and parents lost. My symptoms are absolutely worse! I can’t sleep, and I tend to flare worse with less sleep. I crave foods that are triggering. The overall anxiety and stress makes my gut hurt and sends me to the bathroom more often. It’s disruptive to my life routines for sure.”
“I’m choosing to surround myself with Jews and like-minded people. If I was at work, and hearing other people talk, maybe I would have worse symptoms.”
“I am a long time Crohnie and lifetime Jew. I appreciate this article and know it comes from a good place. Right now, we are not doing good at all. I’d be happy to circle back to this convo, but right now, we are terrified. There is no coping with these horrors. I feel too overwhelmed to have a coherent conversation and I’m sure others do, too.”
What does the Jewish community want the rest of the world to know?
There are reoccurring sentiments and heartache from the Jewish community about the silence around the terrorist attack from non-Jews. Take yourself back to the major social justice issues in recent years and think about what your online community posted and how they were there in solidarity with others—compared to the last 10 days.
“Check in with us, we’re not doing OK. It would be awesome to just see how we’re doing truly…and just letting us speak our truth without judgement, defense, or justification of something other than our truth. Acknowledge us. See us and fight against anything that brutally harms humans in general. Be a helper. See how you can help anyone whose been impacted by terrorism.”
“The most important thing our non-Jewish friends and family can do is to reach out to express solidarity with the victims and to unequivocally condemn antisemitic attacks. As a Jew and a mother, I’m deeply affected by the murders of innocent Israelis and Palestinians, especially the children. Regardless of anyone’s view of the broader conflict, I think we can all agree that the actions of Hamas cannot be condoned or ignored.”
“I’ve shared a couple of Instagram Stories saying, “Check in on your Jewish friends”, we are struggling in the wake of this massacre and have received responses attempting to justify the brutal murders, rape of teenage girls at the festival, and beheading of people in their homes…making it about ‘complex politics’. Standing up for human rights and against terrorism needs no ifs, ands, or buts.”
“It’s been extremely eye-opening watching who posts and how they post and the deafening silence from those who should know better and don’t hesitate to post on other issues.”
“I have zero family on my dad’s side because they all died in the Holocaust. I constantly wonder how that happened. How everyone just stood by and let it happen. And now, it just feels like that all over again. Silence.”
Dumisani Washington, Founder, CEO of Institute for Black Solidarity with Israel, and author of “Zionism & the Black Church, tweeted: “Imagine being a Jewish man or woman living outside of Israel, especially in the Western world (US, UK, Canada), and seeing hundreds of thousands of people—of various ethnicities and around the world—cheering the slaughter of your people in the Jewish homeland. Imagine trying to figure out where the safest place would be for you and your family. Now, multiply that by 1,000 and you may get a small glimpse of what our Jewish brothers and sisters are experiencing right now.”
“I can’t begin to thank you enough for bringing awareness to the brutal massacre in Israel. The silence of celebrities and organizations is deafening and feels so isolating. It is not about politics. It’s about right and wrong. There were barbarian Hamas terrorists who in ONE day brutally killed at least 1,400 Israeli civilians (children, elderly, moms, and dads) and hundreds are missing or being held hostage by these Hamas monsters. Jewish people were beheaded, raped, their bodies were paraded by Hamas, kids saw their parents get shot at point blank in their homes, people were gassed, and burned alive. This is the deadliest day since the Holocaust. We need everyone to speak out right now.”
“Can you imagine if after 9/11 people were silent? Or worse, people were in the streets rallying behind Hamas? This is what’s happening right now. It’s sickening. We are grieving so hard. My heart is in a million pieces and I’m crying every hour. Everything else feels so trivial right now. Thankfully my Crohn’s is in remission, and I haven’t had any new symptoms from the stress, at least not yet.”
“I’m destroyed. It’s a nightmare that I want to wake up from. My son goes to a Jewish high school, and I want to keep him home. All we have done is help and stand up for people and now this.”
“Done being silent. Done hiding. DONE. It’s been a hard few days for my family, so it doesn’t take much to make me cry. I have been terrified to share about Judaism and Crohn’s. I’m not scared to share the content; I’m just scared to be Jewish right now. I’m just in disbelief because I was ready to quit on the IBD/ostomy community. I thought if anyone would get it, it would be this community.”
“I have five cousins serving in the IDF right now. I have one fighting on the border of Gaza. I have one extended family member being held captive in Gaza. I’ve only recently begun serving the ostomy/IBD community and felt so passionately about it and my heart is now in such a different place. I’ve had several (I can count on one hand) people say nice things to me, but they won’t speak up publicly themselves.”
“A simple text message means more than you can imagine. Something along the lines of “I’m so sorry to hear about the horrific terrorist attacks in Israel. Is your family safe? How are you coping?” Using social media to speak out against the atrocities committed by the Hamas terrorists and assuring us you stand with Israel means a lot, too!”
“Posting support publicly and checking in with Jewish friends and coworkers goes a long way.”
“There are only 16 million Jews in the whole world. There are billions of Muslims and many Muslim countries. Jews only have Israel. Land all over the world has been conquered. Why is it that Israel is the only land people cannot accept? Also, I’m surprised the Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation took five days to say anything publicly. Jews and IBD overlap. Everyone I know personally who has IBD is also Jewish. They should be supporting us; the silence is loud. As a Jewish woman with IBD I feel alone. Sometimes alone with my IBD, but right now, alone as a Jew who is scared for her people and her country.”
The Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation shared an email with subscribers on the evening of October 16th.
To quote part of the email, FoundationPresident Michael Osso shared, “I want to be clear that we unequivocally condemn the terrorist attacks carried out by Hamas. There can be no justification for such heinous acts, which have launched violence that is now consuming the region and continues to destroy increasing numbers of innocent lives in Israel and Gaza. We grieve for the families that are devastated by loss and hope for peace and the safe return of all hostages.”
The email goes on to say—“for all those committed to the mission of the Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation, this is a moment for us to hold firm the Foundation’s core values, and specifically for me, I am thinking of compassion and inclusion. This Foundation will always stand for respect of human life, and against hate of any kind, including anti-Semitism, Islamophobia, and any form of xenophobia or racism.”
If you are experiencing stress-related flares, or other mental health challenges the Foundation encourages you to contact the IBD Help Center by emailing info@crohnscolitisfoundation.org or calling 1-888-MYGUTPAIN.
Final Thoughts and Resources of Support for Innocent Israeli and Palestine citizens
I want to make it clear that my wish and hope is for freedom and peace for ALL. My heart goes out to all the innocent and oppressed people in both Israel and in Gaza, and all over the world. There are countless victims here. Innocent lives that pay the ultimate price for crimes that have nothing to do with them. To quote a friend, “Supporting the Jewish people that I know, and love is not synonymous with supporting all of Israel’s policies. And it’s not synonymous with not caring about Palestinian civilian casualties as Israel attempts to stop terrorists.” My thoughts and hopes are for the safety and protection of all innocent civilians and for stability in the region as quickly as possible. I hope and I pray all IBD patients and caregivers—in Israel and Gaza—can stay well and stay safe in these soul-crushing times.
As a good friend of mine who is Jewish and has Crohn’s shared with me, “Hamas’ sole mission is to eradicate Jews, brutally and mercilessly while the whole world watches. By supporting Israel and Jews it does not mean that anyone is anti-Palestine or that we support the killing and mistreatment of any innocent human life. It just means we are anti-terrorist. We’re all anti-Hamas and anti-barbaric terrorism.”
Additional resources of support
Credit: Jay Shetty for compiling this list of resources
American Friends of Magen David Adom (Read Start of David): Supports Israel’s primary ambulance, blood services, and disaster-relief organization. Magen David Adom (MDA) provides medical care during crises and trains first responders. They play a crucial role in responding to emergencies in Israel and the region, including Gaza.
Alliance for Middle East Peace (ALMEP): The largest network of Palestinian and Israeli peace builders. ALMEP focuses on promoting peace and understanding between the two communities in the region.
CARE (Cooperative for Assistance and Relief Everywhere): A global humanitarian organization that provides emergency relief and works to fight global poverty. CARE’s work extends to providing assistance and support to vulnerable populations, including those affected in the Israel and Gaza region.
Doctors Without Borders:An international organization providing lifesaving medical humanitarian care worldwide. They respond to medical needs in conflict zones, offer mental health care, and address health crises.
Palestine Children’s Relief Fund (PCRF):A U.S.-based nonprofit sponsoring volunteer medical teams to treat sick and injured Palestinian children in the West Bank and Gaza. PCRF provides essential medical care and builds pediatric cancer departments to address the healthcare needs of children in the region.
United Hatzalah: The largest independent, non-profit, volunteer Emergency Medical Service (EMS) in Israel. Volunteers provide fast and free medical care 24/7, responding to emergencies across the country, including in Gaza.
UNRWRA: Provides assistance and protection for refugees, including those in the West Bank, Gaza, and surrounding areas. UNRWRA’s work is essential in supporting vulnerable refugee populations.
Please hold room and space in your heart for each innocent soul impacted by this.
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